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So, we finally met yesterday. We spent the entire day together and it was a good time. I was sort of nervous about meeting him because I wasn't sure if we would have the same connection in person as on the phone, but we did. I really enjoyed myself and look foward to seeing him again :o) . | |
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Posted: 6/10/2012 11:25:08 AM | | Congrats!!! REALLY happy to hear that!!! | |
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Posted: 6/10/2012 5:47:44 PM | | Thanks alot:) I'm all smiles today... | |
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Posted: 6/10/2012 7:30:56 PM | I agree with some of the posters. whats next telling him how to vote, or what to eat, or how to think because it's what you like?
Yes you are being very shallow and only care about looks. | |
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Posted: 6/10/2012 7:36:44 PM | out of curiosity, did he shave or was he rocking the beard still? (just curious if he showed you he can rock the beard or if he shaved it before you guys spent the day together)
either way though, again REALLY happy you guys put it behind you and had a blast. Nicely done ;) | |
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Posted: 6/11/2012 4:49:02 AM | | Yeah, he shaved it. He's soo cute too. I dont know why he wants to hide it behind all of that hair. He probably has big plans to grow it back out. LOL.. It seems to be "in style" with some guys these days. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2012 5:04:51 AM | Yes you are being very shallow and only care about looks. Oh, please! Get real. So you would date a 300 pound woman? Because you are not shallow and don't care about looks? LOL Who's kiddin' who?
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Posted: 6/11/2012 10:45:16 AM | | Happy ending, got some? LOL | |
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Posted: 6/11/2012 12:22:11 PM | | Happy for ya. It's good to see a happy ending on this site for a change. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:38:21 AM | | Must you refer to him as a "Wolfman" if so, why? | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:34:41 PM | | i wont be surprised the date went will cuz he threw up the white flag and shaved lmao. i would laugh if you too hit it off have a kid and put on a few unwanted pounds and he brings up the fact you need to lose weight because he did not meet you weighing the way you do,cuz you dont look like your pic anymore. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 3:33:54 PM | Doesn't seem to be any shortage of dirtbag men giving their useless opinions here...
Truthfully, men in general are liars...
Any women that doesn't get straight up honesty form the very beginning should run!
Real men appreciate women, and don't call them names or represent male ego BS, thats what boys do!
I would say that 90% of the men on these dating sites are losers!
I think any so called man, should offer his respect and courtesy to any woman he meets, if he likes her or not.
Asking a man to look presentable isn't asking a lot when your dating, especially for the first meeting.
Resistance on their part shows you they are hiding their true self, not that very many men even know what their true self is!
I agree with the lady.
And she's better off to keep looking and steer away from the lair little boys! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 3:55:03 PM | Boricuapapai—LOL nope. Didn’t get any. Too soon for that :o)
HappyLibra- Didn’t really call him wolfman.. Just the hairy look.
Mr Nonchalance- Ha.. If we are blessed with marriage and a child,I’m sure I won’t have to worry about that. But that was funny.
1Rob- My point exactly. Looking presentable shouldn’t be an issue. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:48:28 PM | i wont be surprised the date went will cuz he threw up the white flag and shaved lmao. i would laugh if you too hit it off have a kid and put on a few unwanted pounds and he brings up the fact you need to lose weight because he did not meet you weighing the way you do,cuz you dont look like your pic anymore. Before you start sneering at women for gaining weight after having a couple of kids, how about you have a couple of kids and see what it's like, and also, you have those 2 kids and not put on any weight? I'd like to have a good laugh at that. Your post is complete hypocracy because you have no idea what it is like to have a child and you don't know or understand, or want to, why women put on weight after having children: you just want to sneer.
message 92:
...why on Earth would a shaven or non shaven face matter so much? But it does matter, a lot for some women. Why do so many people not realize that just because they don't think something matters, it is not supposed to matter to anyone? We all have our preferences. For some women, and I am one, hairy faces are a complete turn off, as much as someone being obese. I would not be interested in getting physical with a man with a beard, full stop. And I am not unique. I really think people need to respect the fact the OP does not want a man with a beard. It's not anyone's perogative to tell her to just ignore it and not make a big deal out of it. It is a big deal. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:59:39 PM | | It's not you who is shallow. It's the immaturity of the guy,,,, much better to learn that now,, than later, that he thinks more of himself than that of the future with you. Some guys just are jerks. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:08:24 PM | Why do you bother with a guy that lives two hours away firstly and why on Earth would a shaven or non shaven face matter so much? I dont get it. You are being shallow, sorry. If he said he wont see you unless your hair is long instead of short, how would you feel? Or you are heavier than your pics.
What on Earth does any of that matter, I repeat. Hair can always grow. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 9:03:29 AM | | Lioness-- I dont think 2 hrs is all tht bad. But, it's only temporary anyway. He's up there working on a project. Hopefully, he will be back in my area within the next year or so. I would see no problem if he complained that I had shorter hair or was heavier than the pic posted on my profile. It would mean that I have misrepresented myself to him. I would never do that. The pic that I have posted is how I currently look. If I happen to gain weight or change my hair length/color, I would update my pics. People need to realize that weight gain, hair color, hair length does change how you look. Your new look may not be appealing to the person. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 11:11:19 AM | | Is your Romeo Black too? I always associate big facial hair with White or Hispanic men. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 1:47:34 PM | Glad it went well... but this bugged me~
Earlier:
I hate it...looks like the wolf man to me ..lol
Few posts up:
Didn’t really call him wolfman.. Just the hairy look.
Love when people can't even admit to what they said. Now that he's all clean shaven, he never was the wolfman! LOL | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 2:32:04 PM | Well said. Beards are a stylistic option. A well maintained beard is beautiful.
Shallow is not the word, but maybe control freak fits better. Trying to control someone's facial hair - wow. Maybe relax, and realize that just like you would not like to be judged for a haircut, a beard is just a way of expressing one's style. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 8:19:39 PM | I'm with you thatgirl, you don't like beard and is okay
TheloniousMink you are the man! Pimp daddy | |
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Posted: 6/13/2012 10:11:50 PM | A well maintained beard is beautiful…..
To you.
Do you not realize this is just an OPINION? Others may not, and many do not, share your opinion. What does it take for people to realize that their perspective on the world is not the only one and definitely not the only valid one?
….and realize that just like you would not like to be judged for a haircut, a beard is just a way of expressing one's style.
Having things that one finds unattractive about a potential dating partner is everyone's prerogative, whatever it is.
Maybe you should 'relax' and realize your view of the world is not the only one and lay off calling other people control freaks. The quintessential control freak is the person who believes the way they look at the world is the only correct one.
A beard is NOT beautiful, no matter how it is maintained, not imo and not in the opinion of millions of others in this world. It’s a matter of opinion, an opinion that is just as valid as yours. Maybe YOU should realize that ‘just like you’ you would not like to judged for having your opinions on any issue and told you are a ‘control freak’ for having your own preferences of what you like or don’t like in a man.
Your post is completely hypocritical as I am sure you have your preferences and don’t date just any old guy who comes along, not caring at all what he looks like, dresses like, or how he wears his hair. Everyone has their preferences.
Calling someone else’s preferences shallow is in itself shallow AND judgmental.
I'm sure you'd be happy to date one of these guys:
http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=winos&hl=en&gbv=2&biw=1093&bih=453&tbm=isch&tbnid=UDlYg-bWi9JkvM:&imgrefurl=http://homepage.eircom.net/~whytea/winos.
htm&docid=h2zC3BtVZFE7tM&imgurl=http://homepage.eircom.net/~
whytea/winos.jpg&w=312&h=410&ei=8WTZT4fOLsXqrQeznZH0BQ&zoom=1 | |
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Posted: 6/14/2012 9:21:10 AM | In the middle ages facial hair was the bomb, women felt for that like flies around a carcass.
In the 1700s women loved bald men with wigs.
In the 1800 trimed mustaches were the style of the day.
In 2012 only a few women love men with beards. Beards are difficult to maintain. Most men are too lazy to maintain their facial hair every day. So what they do is SHAVE! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2012 12:59:37 PM | Boricuapapi- Yes, he’s black. But, it’s a new trend with some of the young black guys. You ever see that guy James Harden that plays for the Oklahoma City Thunder. He has a full beard thing going on, that reminds me of a homeless guy..
Theolonius- Those are two interesting tales. LOL You had a beard in your profile pic, so really neither one of them should have been complaining.
Metal Vixxen- Um Really?? Since you want to turn this into a debate of words, if you carefully read what I wrote, I said “I hate it, looks like the wolfman.” The operative word here is IT. It refers to a thing –ex hair- not a person.
Lily- You seem to understand exactly where I’m coming from.. It’s all a matter of preference. Not controlling anyone in the least bit. If he didn’t want to shave, it would be his prerogative, and it would have been mine to just move on. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2012 8:49:31 PM | | Maybe you guys should have met before talking for a month. People are visual. Talking that long builds up expectations that may not be met in a face to face meeting. Don't think that you are shallow. You like what you like... and if that is a clean shaven man then what you should seek. Had his picture been with a beard you probably would not have started to interact with him in the first place. Keep it moving girl... :-) | |
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