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| | attractiveness differencePage 12 of 28 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28) | | Thanks Fleuron ;) ,... Mark we all go through sad parts in our lives, its how we come out of them that define us,... when i was in the army, i was super fit, and i attracted lots of girls, but they always ended up being married, and it got to me... like i was really depressed, so i dated less attractive girls, and found looks were not the problem, i was... then when i was out, and had been selling cars for a few years, my long work hours, some new drug the army gave me for pain, and my poor diet had my weight up to 300lbs, and i still dated beautiful girls that should have been way out of my league... its my confidence in who i am, what i know i can do, and the self love i have for myself that made me attractive to women, i admit, i've never had any luck meeting anyone off the internet, but when i get my hair cut, buy coffee, smile at a girl at the drive thru for fast food, that's where i meet the girls i end up dating... don't put all your stock into the internet man, get out there and smile at lots of girls, it'll brighten their day, and get you a date eventually,... start by using positive affirmations if you don't already know what that is, its looking at yourself in the mirror, directly in the eyes, and say everything you want to be, and then in real life, take the steps to get there,... start listening to positive music and quit reading the news for a while, at least until your demeanor changes for the better, its not everyone else, its you... that goes for anyone that thinks other ppl suck,... man look in the mirror, cause that's where it all starts, if you don't like you, why should anyone else,... i wish you all luck n love in life,... hope you get something positive outta this bud ;) | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 7:50:47 AM |
You would make an excellent wing man. Just kidding. You're out going. You have that kind of personality. However your confidence with women comes from getting the hot babes
I wont reply to the entire thing, no time, just this part lol
Actually, my confidence just comes from stubborness and persistence, more than anything else. Often mistaken for arrogance, even though I`m probably the least arrogant person I know. My confidence with women comes from being too stubborn to know when to quit LOL. I don`t accept defeat, in the sense that I can get shot down 100 times with 100 girls, I still have hope that the next one and me will be compatible.
Also called Masochism.....  lol | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 9:05:15 AM |
Thanks Fleuron ;) ,... Mark we all go through sad parts in our lives, its how we come out of them that define us,... when i was in the army, i was super fit, and i attracted lots of girls, but they always ended up being married, and it got to me... like i was really depressed, so i dated less attractive girls, and found looks were not the problem, i was... then when i was out, and had been selling cars for a few years, my long work hours, some new drug the army gave me for pain, and my poor diet had my weight up to 300lbs, and i still dated beautiful girls that should have been way out of my league... its my confidence in who i am, what i know i can do, and the self love i have for myself that made me attractive to women, i admit, i've never had any luck meeting anyone off the internet, but when i get my hair cut, buy coffee, smile at a girl at the drive thru for fast food, that's where i meet the girls i end up dating... don't put all your stock into the internet man, get out there and smile at lots of girls, it'll brighten their day, and get you a date eventually,... start by using positive affirmations if you don't already know what that is, its looking at yourself in the mirror, directly in the eyes, and say everything you want to be, and then in real life, take the steps to get there,... start listening to positive music and quit reading the news for a while, at least until your demeanor changes for the better, its not everyone else, its you... that goes for anyone that thinks other ppl suck,... man look in the mirror, cause that's where it all starts, if you don't like you, why should anyone else,... i wish you all luck n love in life,... hope you get something positive outta this bud ;)
Happy 4th all! Hey eric, just want to give you a two thumbs up on your sucess with women. Hope you keep up the good work. Its true, a 6 pack isnt a requirment to have in order to meet women. The human race would be in trouble if that was the case. I just think now some guys were born with "Game" some like myself arent. Thats just the way it is. However women are very visual people so its rough out in the world. One day a mirical will happen and i will change. I admit im not a happy person, i have a roomate whom i don't get alone with and i hate where im living. Fortuntaly i'm moving on the 17th. I think i'll be a happier person in my new place. Only time will tell. Happy fishing all, may the odds ever be in your favor when meeting someone. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 10:55:51 AM | Mark [I'm not a rock star. I have no desire to be a rock star. The last time I wanted to be a rock star I was 18 listening to Alice Cooper singing 18. I'm not looking for someone who wants a rock star.
Ask yourself why you are looking in the mirror if looks don't matter. You look at yourself in the mirror. You still like what you see. You call yourself a rock star. But it's only because you still like what you see and you still think you can score.
One day all the positive affirmations in the world will not help you.
You're confident because you still think you are attractive and because you're succesful. If you were not successful you would not be so complacent. You would begin to doubt yourself.
Quit listening to that positive crap. Start listening to the news. Listen to me.]
Seriously :\ ,..... are you happy and do you date ppl your happy with??? then not only am i not going to listen to you,... no one including you should ;P
Capt [Happy 4th all! Hey eric, just want to give you a two thumbs up on your sucess with women. Hope you keep up the good work. Its true, a 6 pack isnt a requirment to have in order to meet women. The human race would be in trouble if that was the case. I just think now some guys were born with "Game" some like myself arent. Thats just the way it is. However women are very visual people so its rough out in the world. One day a mirical will happen and i will change. I admit im not a happy person, i have a roomate whom i don't get alone with and i hate where im living. Fortuntaly i'm moving on the 17th. I think i'll be a happier person in my new place. Only time will tell. Happy fishing all, may the odds ever be in your favor when meeting someone.]
its confidence bro,... if a six pack will help raise yours,... hit up the gym, make this new place your moving to really different buy boosting your ego, and be a good person,... I've dated girls that were over confident, and not as attractive as I tend to go for, just because they like themselves, and lets face it, i hate telling a beautiful girl, that shes beautiful, only to have her say something negative... i'm out! lol | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 11:12:35 AM |
Masochism? You like getting shot down?
Obviously I do, since it happens so often
But I keep coming back for more, until the day I get lucky, for the next 50 years or so (okay, lets be realist...probably 40). | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 5:53:52 PM | Here is solid proof of how im right about women
now. i have a friend who is tall, blond, 6'2" and in shape, and has banged AT LEAST 10 women off this site. some of these women, on their profiles, have things going for them like career, car, place to live, etc etc. some of them are hot, and others are pretty, but not super hot - if that makes sense. i've previously emailed some of these women and we would talk for a bit, but then they flake out. whatever..... then my friend talks to them later on, however, and within a span of a few days, sometimes on the first "date", they F!CK. and he takes pictures. and i have seen them. HAHA!! my friend is divorced with 3 kids he sees on the weekend, and doesn't make alot of money. he's consistently broke. BUT WHAT? these women he's banged all stated on the profiles they want a man who's "reliable, has a career, lives life to the fullest, can keep up with them, is honest, and BLAH BLAH BLAH...." some of these women would even cook dinner for him, or bring food to him during his lunch break. (he worked with me at the time). me and my friend give them nicknames whenever he starts talking sh1t about them. and i laugh. not because i'm evil, but because the dating experience is frustrating, and these women bring this sh1t upon themselves.
This is coming from a post in the "men are too picky forum" Its proven so, if a man is athletic,and good looking, he gets women. If a man is average or below, he'll have a rough time meeting people. This is solid proof. Women are as visual as men are
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Posted: 7/4/2012 6:07:02 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I call bullshit on that.
…then my friend talks to them later on, however, and within a span of a few days, sometimes on the first "date", they F!CK. and he takes pictures. and i have seen them
‘Then we went to algebra class.’
'Solid proof' alright....that some men will believe ANYTHING....especially about sex.
Yep, there ya go.
ETA
vvvvvvvvvvvvvv Since Captain Sherlock is onto us anyway I’ll confess. You’re right. Now I’m gonna get me a boy toy and keep him in my closet for when I’m horny. Forget all this compatibility crap. Who needs it. I just want a hot bod to work for me when I want it.
EYEROLL
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Posted: 7/4/2012 7:27:13 PM | I agree with that CaptainA.D, for I have known a small handful of guys that it is just a totally different world for them.
My old coworker Tim was one of those guys that would give Tom Cruise/Bradd Pitt/George Clooney all a run for their money, seriously. We couldn't go anywhere without him getting 'mobbed' by women--waitresses, retail clerks, blackjack dealers, etc. couldn't function at their job anymore. We would go on business meetings to DC and he'd have a couple phone numbers from flight attendants wanting to meet for drinks. Even guys would constantly hit on him..."oh, I just assumed someone that attractive must be gay." He rarely approached women, as they were coming after him. It was like someone did a huge survey among hot women asking what they wanted in their dream man, and then took the leading answer for each category and put it into one dude. We kept telling him we were going to take him camping and abandon him because just having him around someplace would shut down the chances for all the other guys. Women can get supercompetetive (worse than guys) when there is something they want. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 11:22:17 PM |
Now I’m gonna get me a boy toy and keep him in my closet for when I’m horny. Forget all this compatibility crap. Who needs it. I just want a hot bod to work for me when I want it.
EYEROLL
And there's a problem with that?! | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 7:57:08 AM | | Ladies, all i can say is.. More to life than looks. We can fall in love with an actual person. Its a shame women cant otherwise. Its all about looks | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 8:14:25 AM |
Ladies, all i can say is.. More to life than looks. We can fall in love with an actual person. Its a shame women cant otherwise. Its all about looks
if its not all about looks for you fellas,... just drop your standards to someone less attractive,... or date a big girl with a pretty face. ;P | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 8:23:10 AM |
if its not all about looks for you fellas,... just drop your standards to someone less attractive,... or date a big girl with a pretty face. ;P
I know this post is tongue in cheek, but the double standard kills me. I can remember the uproar from women on how men are pigs for going to see Striptease when it came out (with Demi Moore). Also Showgirls as well. "What story line you're just there to see boobies." With Magic Mike...some women are trying to argue that they are going for the storyline...the hot bods are just a added bonus. Don't judge them for it because its just fantasy...and Striptease isn't?
Men, as well as women, can define fact and fiction. I'm not saying that Magic Mike is just one big porno, like some women said about Striptease back in the day, but at the same time. It's a fantasy not real.
I've said it before, my health and well being is for me...which is why I work out...I want to look and feel good to me...if I happen to attract someone in the process I won't call them shallow for liking me now that I'm fit and healthy. Why would I? That would be a double standard. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 10:18:24 AM |
And there's a problem with that?!
Actually I’m warming up to the idea…
Eventually you are going to lose your looks and the boy toy is going to leave you.
Only if he can break the locks. 
I can remember the uproar from women on how men are pigs for going to see Striptease when it came out
Grow up. What better way to get people to waste their money at the theater than to create some stupid melodramatic ‘controversy.’ Who the heck really cared.
I truly think some of you guys think all you have to offer a woman is your looks….because that’s all you see in women. Sad. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 10:45:24 AM |
Grow up. What better way to get people to waste their money at the theater than to create some stupid melodramatic ‘controversy.’ Who the heck really cared.
I truly think some of you guys think all you have to offer a woman is your looks….because that’s all you see in women. Sad.
Pft...You missed the entire point of my post just wanted to point out that men are pigs...we should grow up? What about all the "grown" women I saw in line for Twilight? Drooling over a teenage boy...I think they need to get in touch with reality...not every man is going to have 12 pack abs and perfectly tan. I've seen the movie and I wasn't that impressed with the storyline so I can assume that most women went to see it for Jacob instead of the compelling story..
It's not all about the teenage theme either, I grew up in the 80's, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Hiding Out, Sweet 16...many many other High School movies that had a better storyline than Twilight. I'm all about watching those today, but mainly for nostalgic reasons more than anything. Alright maybe I did think Phoebe was hot in Fast times (and still do nostalgically). But that's not the "only" reason I watch it.
And I don't just see looks in women...just because it is ONE thing I see (and feel that is important) doesn't make it the ONLY thing I see. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:06:00 AM |
Pft...You missed the entire point of my post just wanted to point out that men are pigs...we should grow up?
No, I didn’t. I got your, ‘Well women like to look at men so I was right it’s all about looks so why can’t weeeeee??’ point.
I don’t think all men are pigs and have NEVER expressed that on here. I’m probably more of a pig than lots of men, oh well.
MY point was that the bottom line for any movie is MONEY. The sex is what lures you in and separates you from your money. Recognizing manufactured propaganda that compels you to blow your money on shit is sometimes called ‘growing up.’
Btw…..that’s the same bottom line for all the ‘Twilight’ and ’50 Shades of Idiotic’ type crap. Lots and lots of people buy exactly what they’re told to buy without expending a brain cell. I swear I should go into advertising I’d make a freakin fortune. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:23:32 AM |
I don’t think all men are pigs and have NEVER expressed that on here. I’m probably more of a pig than lots of men, oh well.
Some of your stuff may be tongue in cheek, but I noticed that you bash menfolk every chance you can on here. May not have expressed that men are pigs but at the same time if all you do is go against them on a lot of the posts what am I suppose to think? I don't care what you think of me or yourself...I have a opinion just as much as you do and my opinion is neither correct nor incorrect just because of my gender...(nor yours).
I swear I should go into advertising I’d make a freakin fortune.
Most people with common sense would and do make a fortune. Because behind all the pretty pictures and stats there is this one person that has common sense to say...I would/not buy this based on its smart/dumb. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:31:31 AM |
I truly think some of you guys think all you have to offer a woman is your looks
Looks gets people in the door. Have you ever dated someone as average or below? We men have alot to offer women but if they don't find us physicaly attractive, then how are supposed to offer anything once friendzoned?
because that’s all you see in women
Careful makeing generalazations. Same goes for women. They judge us by our looks. Again, look how well magic mike did. And im single for a reason, i don't have the looks. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:49:00 AM |
And im single for a reason, i don't have the looks.. ]
That's not why you're single. But no matter what anyone tells you, you will still think that is the reason. Like a former fat person, if you tell them they are skinny, they still see the fat person. It's quite annoying either way. But if that's what validates you being single and it's also the womenfolk fault that you feel your self pity is a turn off...oh I mean that you "don't have the looks", then so be it, but stop harping on it. We get it. You feel you are unattractive and that's why women don't email you. Being boring and whiny have absolutely no tie in to it. Now if you write me about me telling you the truth, I will return your email...ONLY if you promise to never ever post again how someone never replies to you. Deal? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 12:36:48 PM |
Some of your stuff may be tongue in cheek, but I noticed that you bash menfolk every chance you can on here.
Wow. Prove it. I do have a writing style that probably some people misread, oh well. Can’t coddle everybody.
I’d love for you to point these man bashing posts out to me. You can private message me as I don’t want to hijack this thread.
I have a opinion just as much as you do
Yep. You expressed yours; I expressed mine.
Careful makeing generalazations. Same goes for women. They judge us by our looks.
Seriously with this?? Admonish me as making a generalization, then turn around and make one yourself. Sorry… I cannot take you seriously at all. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 1:08:38 PM | I don't want to hijack this thread either...and don't feel like doing the extensive research to find every post you've made. It may be my interpretation of what you post more so than the facts, anyways I shouldn't have to "prove it"...why bother. You would just say that it was my negative interpretation, I'm just whinny or something to point the finger at me....
Careful makeing generalazations. Same goes for women. They judge us by our looks.
Seriously with this?? Admonish me as making a generalization, then turn around and make one yourself. Sorry… I cannot take you seriously at all.
You can say men and it should be assumed that you mean SOME men...but if a man says women it is assumed he means ALL women....which is my point of pointing fingers. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 1:33:04 PM |
Now if you write me about me telling you the truth, I will return your email...ONLY if you promise to never ever post again how someone never replies to you. Deal?
I'm sorry...... but can you be a little bit more specific? My furesterations isn't just on here, i mean yes i dont get replies and many other guys here don't.It is what it is. And besides i rather meet people IRL than from a dating site. When talking to someone on something like this, you still don't know that person. However IRL,im having trouble in that aspect. What is it you are asking me to write?
Seriously with this?? Admonish me as making a generalization, then turn around and make one yourself. Sorry… I cannot take you seriously at all.
I think you should apologize for the accusations of me "saying juedgmental things" I was offended by that. I was only speaking the truth as human beings. Notice.. No generalazation here. And besides im a marvels avenger here to save the day! | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 8:23:42 PM |
I think you should apologize for the accusations of me "saying juedgmental things" I was offended by that. I was only speaking the truth as human beings.
That’s not what went down and you know it. Don’t quote what was never said.
For the LAST time. (Msg. 183 – 185):
You: However, as for women looking deeper than looks? Its unfortunatly not true. You should see the profiles i read. One said not to contact her if a guy isn't 5-10. She dosen't like blonds and only goes after tall dark and handsome types
Me: So you judge ALL women based on the way you perceive ONE woman’s profile? That sounds fair.
You can say men and it should be assumed that you mean SOME men...but if a man says women it is assumed he means ALL women....which is my point of pointing fingers.
Dude….you’re full of it and that comment you quoted wasn’t even yours. Hello? Jeez. 
don't feel like doing the extensive research to find every post you've made… I shouldn't have to "prove it"...
Yeah. Right. You shouldn’t make accusations against someone that you have no intention of backing up.
You guys got a bet goin on or something? ‘I bet I can get Fleuron to respond to me more than you. Nyuck, nyuck.’
You boys have fun now playing with yourselves.  | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 9:17:06 PM | | If you still here you aren't succesful, I always feel most successful at the point of insemination. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:07:38 PM |
However, as for women looking deeper than looks? Its unfortunatly not true. You should see the profiles i read. One said not to contact her if a guy isn't 5-10. She dosen't like blonds and only goes after tall dark and handsome types
is she a 5-10? lol
put up a pic on hot er not nd see what you are ;P lmao | |
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