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 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
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Captain Lee 'Apollo' Adama: I thought we were sparring.
Commander William Adama: That's why you don't win.


oh WOW... first a Twiki sighting, and now an Apollo one?

This has been a GOOD week for nostalgia... :)
 prettysage
Joined: 6/5/2012
Msg: 52
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Posted: 6/11/2012 11:40:35 PM
I HAVE NOTICED THIS ALSO AND I TOTALLY AGREE THAT MEN HAVE A HARDER TIME LOOKN IN THE MIRROR AND BEIN REAL THAN WOMEN...BUT LETS BE HONEST LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE ...AND ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE LIKE ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE...AND MONEY DOESNT MAKE UP FOR LOOKS BUT RESPECT, EMPATHY, AND HONESTY GOES A LOT FURTHER AND CAN MAKE AN AVERAGE LOOKN GUY VERY ATTRACTIVE...KA PISH??
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/12/2012 2:00:52 AM
So you think that vain delusion is the sole property of of over 30 guys??? Women in their mid to late 60's and beyond message me too( I have since adjusted my mail /age settings) and I have ZERO idea of why or how they could seriously think I'd want to date them, even after They supposedly have read my profile...I just may assume that they too only look at the pictures of me without reading on further.
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/12/2012 7:38:30 AM
Women in their mid to late 60's and beyond message me too( I have since adjusted my mail /age settings) and I have ZERO idea of why or how they could seriously think I'd want to date them, even after They supposedly have read my profile...I just may assume that they too only look at the pictures of me without reading on further.

They'd think you'd want to date them because the ones in their mid sixties are closer to your age. My mom for example has a better body than me at age 63. Her legs and arms are toned (she wins arm wrestles with my 14 year old son), she still has a full firm chest that does NOT drop to the floor (I have no chest), and a firm booty for someone who stands only 5'4" tall. It think if you saw her you may change your mind about women in their sixties. :P

ETA: I am a little surprised you are only willing to date women up to seven years younger than yourself. Maybe I should try that. But wait...if I did my inbox would be empty. Wah, wah, wah. Yes...I will go off and finish crying now.

So, what is your secret to flawless wrinkle free skin?
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/12/2012 8:58:11 AM

I've always thought women were the way to go and younger isn't bad. :)


Ohhhh, I'll warmly second that. I only do women. Anything else seems strangely....rough
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 56
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:06:01 AM
^^

ok, now I"m confused. Younger women are the only way to go and you only do women;

and yet you fake proposed to a woman in her forties and after said you wanted to get in line to rub cocoa butter on a man's chest..


I think you're still somewhat confused strangely enough... (still waiting on the twiki fake divorce tshirt by the way..) :)


VVVVV


You could and you should date guys 7 years younger; and don't let anyone tell you differently; you're stunning and the people too dumb to see it deserve to miss out.
 fall-blossom
Joined: 3/22/2012
Msg: 57
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:18:07 AM

Well, you might. I've always thought women were the way to go and younger isn't bad. :)

Ha ha. Yeah, I should have said, "maybe I should try to date men up to seven years younger". But, I think most get what I was trying to say. :P
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 58
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:56:00 AM

ok, now I"m confused. Younger women are the only way to go and you only do women;

and yet you fake proposed to a woman in her forties and after said you wanted to get in line to rub cocoa butter on a man's chest..


Not to mention what he was willing to do on the table with all three of us.

I’d have to see that chest before deciding on the butter rub.

I should quit posting now.
 scifichicky
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 59
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:03:59 AM
Capn isn't nearly as prickly as he lets on in the forums. I do like to see what sort of lewd, crude and out there thing he will say sometimes though :)
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 60
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:30:08 AM

Capn isn't nearly as prickly as he lets on in the forums. I do like to see what sort of lewd, crude and out there thing he will say sometimes though :)


Haha, dear Scifi, you have NO IDEA. The internet limits me in my vocalisations, there isn`t a THING I wouldnt say, or almost LOL. I`m usually the one that can crack up anyone.
It`s part of my charm. I either dazzle people or piss them off to no end lol.
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:09:59 AM
Capn is quite the character def a winning personality. I play favorites though lol
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 62
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:11:30 AM

Capn is quite the character def a winning personality. I play favorites though lol

Haha, Domo, if you knew me in real life, you`d be ALL over me.
Wether its to kiss, or to strangle me, is a debate left for a future time
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
Msg: 63
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:28:58 AM
Lmao Im pretty sure the strangle thing comes into playa ahahahah jk or am i -_-?
 JoseMadre
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 6/12/2012 12:41:07 PM
I think the OP is a prime example of this phenomenon, as she is clearly far more aesthetically attractive than she herself believes.

As for the men... Well, it is odd. My 21 year old daughter gets hit on by guys who are older than I am and who put her down for being "fat" (5'4 and 120 is fat?) when she declines. This is while their guts hang over their belts. Now, I really don't consider aesthetics important, but I do have a problem with double standards.
 scifichicky
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 65
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Posted: 6/12/2012 2:15:49 PM
Thanks, I wasn't fishing for compliments or anything I just have been a bit confused is all by the double standards. Guess there are a lot of them out there though... for both sides.
 JoseMadre
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 66
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Posted: 6/12/2012 3:19:45 PM
I've read enough of your posts to know you weren't fishing. It was just an observation on my part. I have several female friends who are utterly stunning, inside and out, but for some reason (Madison Avenue advertising?) they are insecure and end up dating unemployed (lazy, not those trying and unable to find work) guys who treat them poorly. Then Madison Avenue and Hollywood conspire to tell guys that weird Adam Sandler type characters or slacker Seth Rogan type guys always get the successful gorgeous ladies. Although it is changing now, for most of their lives men have been fed the idea that all women should consider them a prize irrespective of their personalities, looks, station, or hygiene, while women have been fed the idea that 5'10 and 120 is overweight.
 scifichicky
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 67
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Posted: 6/12/2012 4:12:41 PM
Ah, was just watching the news and the report on men's health here in Tennessee puts one THIRD of the men here as obese, not overweight, obese... see why I ask such questions?
 A_Lito
Joined: 1/27/2012
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Posted: 6/12/2012 6:55:06 PM
OP, not all guys. Maybe a vast majority or at least the ones that are very vocal. Filter those ones out. :)
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 69
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:56:03 PM
I agree with you, the guys sporting the beer gut, the bald head think they can get a hottie are just delusional.
The 4 men going after the 7-8 women is common. They can get that if they have money, personality and sexperience. Women typically are more critical of themselves perhaps because they know that looks are more important to men, then they are necessarily, to women. But if you are judging it all from a dating site, dont.
It is not real life. The hot girls dont have to be here logically speaking nor the hot men. I dont know if those guys really think they are good looking because life would have told them the truth, one way or another.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:58:04 PM
Brookfield etc

You may look good for 60 but young girls interested? Why would they be? You are still on a freebie dating site so I think you are full of hot air and that post where you say you were with a girl young enough to be your daughter, disgusted a lot of us and you were bragging. Pathetic.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 71
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Posted: 6/13/2012 7:20:02 AM
You may look good for 60 but young girls interested? Why would they be?


Some just ARE. That's all there is too it. I was flushed (by my best friend, BIG mistake I might add) by a 22 y old girl I weas dating at 26, who left me for a (sorry) rather repulsive, short, sickly, 60 year old balding man. Because he was a doctor and she was studying to be a nurse. She had a thing for older men.
What can you do, sh*t happens.
Anyways, some people are like that. That's it. And its fine, its a free country. It's a bit repulsive, and if my daughters do the same, I will crucify them and they man they are with someday lol but it's a free country.


disgusted a lot of us and you were bragging. Pathetic.


You obviously don't know Tom. He's as much a troll as my left foot is blue.
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
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Posted: 6/13/2012 7:41:38 AM
No it is true, young women seem to fawn over older men. I am 29 and I find the phenomenon fascinating lol. I never had this much attention when I was in my early 20's.
 VoxClamantis
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/13/2012 8:04:38 AM
Sorry, Lyonesse

Tom's really kind of an apex kind of guy for our age group; tall, dark, fit, financially sound, all his own hair, all his own teeth, young-acting, pretty up to date on music, etc.

I would shit three times and die if he wasn't pulling 39 year olds regularly and 29 year olds frequently

At our age its not the years, its the mileage.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 6/13/2012 5:25:17 PM
I am sexy and I know it. Hey we can brag and all, why bring us down as men, who cares what everyone thinks, if we think we are attractive let us feel it.

If a guy has his gut hanging down and is balding do not trash how he feels if he wants to get the woman he wants or deserves woman do the same thing , most sites you can find older over weight women wanting tall dark and handsome with alot of money and rarely talk about what they bring to the table for the guynot double standards.

Most women have a long list of what they want as a have to, I am short and one of them is being tall, I get killed for this on dating sites, and the woman lists go on, military tall tatoos, down to what race, even what kind of jobs they want the guy to have, even cars or motor cycles and these are not only girls even women that are in their forties ask about something very direct and detailed to the point( tatoos and a 4x4 or cowboys only etc...)
They all think they deserve it no matter how they look to other) bottom line is how they feel they deserve it.

I may not be the most handsome guy in the world but I know I can go down the stereet and meet someone in a few seconds or minutes, because I try and know how to, it is called confidence and love for one's self.
both sexes have or should have some level of it and if they do not , they are in a sad state .

On old guys those friken old depends diaper wearing BenGay smelling , liverspottted polyester wearing old men, I have lost to them many times , why , they have more money maybe more interesting than I have a more colorful life and drive that supercar, have interesting carrer or something.

I worked at a tennis club years ago and I was going out with a 21 year old she was a 9, she knew I liked her we would spend every afternoon together, then she saw the most intersting man in the world , like that XX bear comercial, and it was over for me , she fell for him , made out the first day, my plans for flowers and the picnic/ bonfire on the beach was over for me, he invited her to a fashion show and dinner , he was 70 and handsome , I asked her why she like that grandpa , she told me he was the most interesting loving man she ever met, age diod not matter, then I went back into my cave for a while, to take down the alter I had for her and all her pictures on the wall hahahaha.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 6/13/2012 5:30:23 PM
scifi chicky , I think you are adorable I would certainly date a girl like you for something serious hehehe your teeth are perfect and glasses make you look more interesting to talk to, Yes I feel confident it is a good sign if most feel it even if they look like Jubba the pizza hut after eating a whole human.
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