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I’ve found that to be a very effective way to get a man to talk
True...but talk truthfully?
Someone has ME by the balls can be guaranteed no truth will be coming out of my mouth lol. If I`m to get my brains splattered or my balls stretch, I`m going out with a shred of dignity at least  | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/21/2012 7:05:47 AM |
I once met a guy on POF, and dated him for a while - he started talking about future marriage, yada yada. I went away on a trip to visit my sister, and when I came back found he'd used my computer to access (or start?) his POF account under a different name. So I created a profile and emailed him to find out if he'd mention me - he didn't, he declared himself single and unattached, when I asked him directly. So, we parted ways.
I would do something much like this but keep the online rapport going just to fwak with his head for shyts and giggles. After all I want to end this with me happy. Why should I be sad and miserable because of HIS cheating behavior. | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/22/2012 8:37:17 PM | | ask him to delete it or end the relationship if he does not. if he is not active on here, then he shouldn't have an issue with deleting it. i bet you he's talking to other women, and just "seeing what's out there, " which means he's still looking. | |
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knt3
| | Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 81 | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/22/2012 9:10:41 PM | It's weird how so many people are quick to jump to say he's cheating, he's looking for someone else, and to dump him... Like it's all the guy's fault in this situation...
First off, without knowing the user name that he was using, she had to have actually searched through profiles to accidentally find him. You all use this site, you should all know that.
OP and the guy are made for each other. Both of them are coming to dating sites.
Also, about making your profile to take the personality test... No you didn't. NOBODY is on PoF because they wanted to take a personality test. | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/23/2012 1:51:49 PM | | I would say ask him about it. If it shows he has been active, find someone else. There is obviously something missing in the relationship. A friend of mine signed up after finding out he was online so she opened an account to see if it came up that they were compatible, guess what? They were. She forgot to close the account and only used it to send him the message that they were compatible, and he was livid. So it can go both ways. | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/23/2012 2:24:05 PM |
I came on POF to take the chemistry test because a friend said it was cool. I had heard that my current boyfriend had been on POF before. I searched for him and found him with an active profile seeking a relationship. What should be by next move? b.s. You have now had a profile here over 3 months. Maybe talk to him about YOUR problem.
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/23/2012 3:15:11 PM | BOTH of you have profiles active or not you are both set up with the capability of looking at someone else.
As far as I am concerned. Had you found him with a profile and you didn't have one? I'd say show him the door and move on.
Seeing that you both have profiles only one is looking one is not? One was found out and you??? told him you had a profile still? Could be the reason he got his. The way I see it once you have found someone and are dating on a regular basis, then it's time to delete the POF profile. No if's and or buts! | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:09:05 AM | | simple....DUMP HIM...if he is looking on a dating site, he sure is hell, is looking elsewhere too....either he doesnt have the guts to tell you to your face that he is not happy(lack of respect) ...or he wants to walk out of one relationship, and into another, without ever having to be alone for any period of time...in any case, he is a jerk, and you deserve better | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 7/10/2012 1:31:29 AM | Everyone on this thread who posted that reeseinmiami should dump him is an idiot.
'I'm only here for the chemistry test' is the stupidest lie I've ever heard. She had her profile for 3 months and it clearly stated "Intent: Reesesinmiami is looking for a relationship."
Its obvious to anyone who bothered to read that she was not being faithful.
And she wanted to know why her boyfriend was doing something and your response is to dump him? What a great first response! That's much better than say, asking him. That's right, communication is so overrated in a relationship - you better dump right away before attempting to learn or understand why he's doing what he's doing.
I was half expecting the boyfriend to start a thread like 'I came here for the chemistry test and saw that my girlfriend reeseinmiami has had her profile here for 3 months and..." | |
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TGIM
| | Joined: 10/19/2010
Msg: 94 | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 10/8/2012 11:28:45 AM | Not boyfriend related but (ex) wife related:
I knew nothing about this place until the first of this year. Once here I realized I had seen the fish symbol before.....in the task bar on my ex's laptop. I never asked what it was for as I was clueless. She played a ton of games on her laptop and was signed up with numerous game sites....I just figured it was a quick launch for one of those. Fast forward to us separating/divorcing and it all became clear. No telling how long she had had been surfing here........and I assure you her presence here had nothing to do with these forums as she thought forums in general were stupid as I frequented many albeit not dating related. And who it winds up she is with is no one from this site.........he was a very close personal friend of ours.....who left his wife and two sons to shack up with her. Live and learn.............. | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 10/11/2012 10:10:03 PM | Step 1. Make a fake account with a women you think is attractive to him.
Step 2. Message him.
Step 3. Find out what he is up to.
Step 4. Love him more or leave him.
Step 5. Never tell him what you did!
Be careful. Be smart. Make the profile seem legit. Let him do most of the talking. | |
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A881e
| | Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 98 | |
| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 10/24/2012 5:20:58 AM | Dump him.. get someone with some morals and respect for themselves..
maybe its my Libra moon but i am totally disgusted at the amount of time wasters and gimps on this site lol.
No one should put up with a cheater, yea he hasent yet but why do you think the sneaky bugger made a profile. | |
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A881e
| | Joined: 10/20/2012
Msg: 99 | |
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| What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 10/24/2012 8:09:37 PM | I love these threads... A girl just happens to have an account here and then randomly stumbles on her boyfriend's profile.
We really should start telling them that he's looking for a girl he can trust since she's the type of person that's making profiles on dating sites. | |
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