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 ForumsGee
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I dont live in England any more BUT I hear from my London friends frequently that there are many Eastern Europeans that have ruined the place.. I'm told they are dirty, steal, etc., so Im wondering if the boys that date you are racially profiling you? I'm assuming you are from an Eastern country originally?

Truth be told its just that type of guys that are contacting you...
 curvesweetblonde99
Joined: 5/7/2011
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Posted: 6/21/2012 12:29:12 PM
How exactly is messaging other girls and telling them the same thing as they tell you being a jerk and idiot? Why would you have "hatred" for a person because they did that. We are all here to meet and date people and most guys have certain phrases they like to use on women they find attractive. It doesn't mean they are players, as you are implying. I really think you have some serious anger-management/control issues. Because nothing from the four scenarios you have described warrant anything even CLOSE to the amount of rage you feel about it.
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/21/2012 1:01:14 PM
sorry to hear you had bad experiences, OP, but now how does that justify putting down all the men in an entire country??! These kinds of generalizations reflect much worse on you than your target.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/21/2012 1:10:49 PM

English Men


I STILL say they're evil
 TRESemme1
Joined: 6/4/2012
Msg: 55
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Posted: 6/21/2012 1:25:37 PM
dang, you are stunning. eastern europeans are very attractive human beings
 Alika2012
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 56
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Posted: 6/21/2012 2:16:57 PM
Hello Lativia girl, I can understand your feelings...English men crazy ONLY about oriental girls...so do not pay attention to them. I met few great Italians,Spanish, they are hotter and more sexy guys...forget about English, they are not worth it!!! They are like frozen fish!!!
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2012 6:39:59 PM

i have met four men so far

didn't read the whole thread closely, but do we know if the op has literally met these guys, or is just upset because she's not the only one they're emailing?
 3ffervescent
Joined: 7/1/2010
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Posted: 6/21/2012 8:30:32 PM
Christ...

OP has dated 4 men,
but in the whole of the UK - she can't find any decent men.

I think the OP put it best in this quote:


UK men are the problem and not me, i wont accept the fact that im the one with the problem when its clear its the men!!!!


Clear now?
 christ on a crutch
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Posted: 6/21/2012 8:57:32 PM
^^ actually, no.

OP has dated 4 men,

it's not clear there were bonafide dates. she wrote that she 'met' them. many people here use 'meet' to mean 'exchanged email with.' since the main gripe in her op concerned messaging and she's so excitable, i'm wondering whether her hysteria kicked in before any of these guys were actually in the same room with her.
 3ffervescent
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Posted: 6/21/2012 9:08:08 PM
I don't know for sure either...

Her arse shot was too distracting at the time, and nothing got clarified.
 PrunellaJones
Joined: 1/22/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 6/22/2012 12:03:12 AM

UK men are the problem and not me, i wont accept the fact that im the one with the problem when its clear its the men!!!!
This statement borders on the moronic. Of course it is down to you. You make your life what it is; you are responsible for the type of people you accept in your world. You are responsible for the type of relationships you have. And bottom line, no one culture of men is bad. Men are as diverse as women, in any culture. You are attracting a certain type of guy: it is down to you.

OP, You are 23 years old, pretty and live in London. Why on Earth would you need to go to an online dating site to meet men? It makes no sense. As far as the type of men you are attracting: that's down to you--be the kind of woman that attracts quality men; learn to discern who is a quality guy and don't put up with jerks at all. You are blaming something outside yourself for your problem when it's all down to you.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
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Posted: 6/22/2012 12:43:29 AM
What is that. BBM number?
 Anthonypie
Joined: 8/2/2009
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Posted: 6/22/2012 1:14:21 AM
F**k the English. Go for the Poles or the Lativians lass! Maybe Americans. But they are a hit or miss. And Please I wanted to see this one in the UK foruums
 dm_347
Joined: 5/26/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 6/22/2012 2:27:44 AM

SURELY IM NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG


Not strictly true, as your profile clearly demonstrates. I mean this criticism constructively so please don't take offence but you come across as a bit of a vacuous slapper, reinforced by at least one of the pictures.
I take offence at your describing the English as lazy as I'm sure many hard-working indigenous residents would. You are plainly unhappy here so move on, take your pole-dancing skills elsewhere.
I would suggest Poland as it's pretty empty these days and it's men are renowned for their gentility and liberated attitude towards women. Also, try looking up irony when you read that last sentence and think how your fellow countrymen behave towards women in comparison with the perceived problems you have with English men.

He is an Englishman!
For he himself has said it,
And it's greatly to his credit,
That he is an Englishman!

(Gilbert & Sullivan)
 xxsmexixx
Joined: 7/15/2010
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:04:23 AM

What is that. BBM number?


It's a blackberry messaging number. People can add you and message for free if they also have a blackberry. It's almost like giving out your phone number and texting.

The OP gives out way to much information in your profile and is an identity theft waiting to happen. I don't have sympathy for her

Smexi
 motown_cowgirl
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:07:51 AM
just because i pole dance and have a pic of my back sideo n my profile doesnt mean im a so and so

You are right, I am sure it means you're considering joining a convent. Very strict as you are 'n all....


i have met four men so far and t hey have all ben jerk and idiots to me,

(Welcome to Episode Number XVIII of, "As The Forums Turn", in which Abi the Pole Dancer with her arse hanging out in the breeze wonders why so many men won't respect her or acknowledge her moral purity. It must be because they're English!!) *knock* *knock* who's there, obvious. obvious who? obvious you need to buy a clue. Stop blaming hapless English blokes for your own shitty decisions.


i wont accept the fact that im the one with the problem when its clear its the men!!!!

Of course you won't. YOU keep bumping into jerks but somehow it's all their fault.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:12:45 AM
just because i pole dance and have a pic of my back sideo n my profile doesnt mean im a so and so


Ironically, the only picture I find pretty is the first one. The rest just seem to artificial.

And I STILL say English are evil
LOL!
I can imitate the Hell out of an English accent however, working on the Scottish; always wanted to do phone pranks and pass off as Sean Connery ;-)
 amalefriend
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:17:28 AM
I find it hard to believe that you have a Bachelor's degree given the way that you write.
 sorbets
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:32:06 AM

I can imitate the Hell out of an English accent however, working on the Scottish; always wanted to do phone pranks and pass off as Sean Connery ;-)


I for one would like to hear that! stick a vid of your attempt on YT and link it here! :)
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:43:34 AM
easy tiger,tarring us all with same brush there(in lot cases you be right) , but we not all same. im not english im welsh lol. bit like me saying all russian women are scammers after passport/want get out poverty of thier own country(maybe i be right lot of cases?). hatred/anger, that telks me your firey/ bunny boiler with start of head baggage. need stop that way thinking. sure lot guys liars/knuckledraggers/bullshitters. but there also lot women , that attention seeking,goldigging,liars too. on the net(bit like squirrel shit-may contain nuts lol) you can be anything you want be young/old/even change genders.
 AnAustralianWoman
Joined: 4/26/2012
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:47:29 AM
You live in the UK!
You put up sexy pic's then get shocked when 'jerk's' want to meet up you.
Tone yourself down a bit then you might be taken seriously.
You are a very attractive woman, but you already know that.
No need to express your life history in your profile. If you go on about personal stuff too much then men WILL think you are vulnerable and will play on your emotion's.
I'm not attacking you, just being truthful and sometimes the truth hurt's.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 72
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Posted: 6/22/2012 7:48:08 AM

I for one would like to hear that! stick a vid of your attempt on YT and link it here! :)

Haha, no, I don't spend my time filming myself and posting videos or it on youtube for other people to laugh or to try to convince people of my awesome awesomeness. Star Wars Kid ring a bell? I don't want to go down in history as The Connery Kid


im not english im welsh lol


Potatoe, Potâtoe.... ;-)
You guys let King Arthur die at the hands of Mordred, henceforth I brand the entire Islands as traitors to the WORLD!! LOL
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/22/2012 8:08:22 AM

Well, I'm sorry I must come out in defence of English men. They're the only ones I meet too. You've been out with FOUR and say everyone is the same. There are good and bad. Unfortunately you are attracting the bad. I really don't know what to advise about that. I had problems with men wanting to meet at my flat, within the first few messages, but I politely refused. It was annoying but I didn't assume everyone was going to behave the same way.


I was kind of going to say the same thing. I've dated half a dozen guys that were English (though transplanted, so maybe that makes a difference?) and they were all awesome (no exceptions); so I haven'tpersonally seen what the OP saw in her rant...

Agree the persona and tone you put out on your profile OP is kind of your worst enemy.

Change that? You'll change your luck with the quality of people you go out with.
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:40:14 AM
capt i know being american you dont have as much history as the brits lol. so heres few pointers, being celts i said celts lol. we have rivary with the english(bit like usa/canada.we love beating them at rugby(game without the pads lol.). tey killed welsh royal family,killed william wallace,drove the irish,during potato famine to usa. hell the french havent forgive them for aginicor(which would lost without welsh archers).merlin was welsh not arthur lol.so hope we forgiven.lol. keep the funny posts coming fella
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 3/19/2012
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Posted: 6/22/2012 12:04:28 PM
^^

this isn't good then, because my heritage on my mom's side (full Norwegian on dad's) is English, Irish Scottish AND Welsh...


so does that mean I'm at war with myself? that would explain a lot... (and agree, he should keep the funny posts coming..)


VVV

we're not worthy; I'm supposedly related to British aristocracy too; (but also think there is a drunken irish potato farmer in there too)
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