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| | How to recognize a good woman when dating one ?Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) |
is there a way for a man to be with a woman, without actually understanding her actions ?
Yes.
It's called settling, short term relationships, and you can go into FWB, FB, "friends."
It's really easy for a guy to be with a woman, without actually understanding her actions, for a little while.
How can a man tell that she is a good woman, and that she cares for him, even when she's driving him crazy in the same time ?
It's called learning to communicate.
But you have to want to do it.
If you don't want to learn to communicate, or you want them to "understand" you but you don't really reciprocate, then it's pretty much guaranteed the relationship will be settling, short term, a FWB, FB, "friends." | |
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| How to recognize a good woman when dating one ?
Posted: 6/20/2012 7:41:42 AM |
So, is there a way for a man to be with a woman, without actually understanding her actions ?
Usually that is the only way. Communication when something she does that is confusing will help you to understand some odd things she may do.
How can a man tell that she is a good woman, and that she cares for him, even when she's driving him crazy in the same time ?
I am not sure if this is the correct way but it does seem to work well for me at least.
You watch how she treats other people.
If she is the type that keeps snack crackers and bottled water in the trunk of her car to give to a homeless person, then she is likely a good woman.
If she see's a squirrel and SAFELY avoids flattening it with a car and does not step on the gas swerving to deliberately run it over, she is likely a good woman.
If she see's a puppy that is limping due to being hit by a car and she takes it to an emergency vet, she is likely a good woman.
Basically put, I observe how she may treat others when she does not think anyone is looking. The way people are (men or women) when they do not think anyone is watching or noticing is usually a good way to discover how she may treat you in the future.
It has worked well for me in the past and helped me to weed out a few that would say one thing but act completely different.
When you are on dates most people are on their best behavior. They are trying to impress you. For these reason I have given up even looking at any of the selfish ones that don't do anything unless it offers them some benefit.
A simple question of " So, what do you do for volunteer work?" usually tells me if she is one of the good ones that has a visible example of compassion, caring nature, and a desire to be a part of a solution and not just another being that simply exists.
Not sure if this stuff will work for you but it has helped me figure out if they are one of the good ones and not just simply one of the ones that talk a good game but don't walk the talk.
Just my opinions and observations | |
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| How to recognize a good woman when dating one ?
Posted: 6/20/2012 8:10:41 AM | if she is a good person who cares for you, she won't drive you crazy. yes, it *is* that simple...
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Yup in a nut shell and she's work with you instead of against you. | |
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| How to recognize a good woman when dating one ?
Posted: 6/20/2012 11:14:16 AM | IDK. . .What is a good woman? Is it sort of like a good dog? She's a purebred, nice coat and good bone structure. When you yell "come" she comes. When you say "sit" she sits. She won't pee on your carpet or tear up your shoes. She doesn't bark back at you. Is she loyal, waiting for you while you are out on the road driving - with no other thought on her mind except that she hopes you get home safely--- the sooner the better? And, when you finally get home, she greets you with a smile and big brown eyes that look up to you . . . is this how you know she loves you? And... when you are in a bad mood, she still smiles and looks up to you because she doesn't take it personally. Or, is it defined by the feelings you get when you are with her? Does she take your mind off of the worries of the day and she doesn't add any to your problems? Do you enjoy the simple things together like going out to the park? And, of course, the only time she manipulates you is when she wants food.
Dogs are pretty simple and easy to understand.
Men and women are more complicated than that.
I couldn't really define a good woman for you because I don't know what you value or even what you want.
However, it probably isn't a good sign that she (you) feels insecure in the relationship and you (she) aren't able to decrease this feeling of insecurity by logically discussing the matter. You may be doing things to trigger these feelings of insecurity, and it is possible that what you say to her isn't reassuring. Maybe you are too defensive. She is too reactive. Who knows???? Does it really matter???? Unless you like being single, it takes two to make a relationship. So, it isn't a good thing to point fingers or to assign blame to one person or the other. These things happen with just about EVERY couple. And. . . rather than get into an argument, I prefer MyNameWasTaken2's way of dealing with issues before they get out of control.
Tell her things like "aww baby, I'm sorry you had a bad day, or come here and give me a hug." That sort of stuff goes a lot farther with a woman than really trying to understand them
Sorry. . . I just can't stand to fight with someone I love. I'd rather avoid it and move on to better things. So, now you know what I like!  | |
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| How to recognize a good woman when dating one ?
Posted: 6/20/2012 12:01:57 PM | | Oh this is simple. You ask her to present her "Good Woman" membership card, duh! When you apply for one of these cards, you get a voucher for barcode tattoo placed in an undisclosed location. Then you take the woman to a "Good Woman" Meeting (available in most major cities) and they swipe the tattoo to see if it's authentic. Women have been known to fake this. Trust me I tried. I thought I could get away with a temp tat, but it washed off before we got to the meeting and I was busted. So make sure they have an authentic woman with authentic code. I am neither apparently. | |
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