| | When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yesPage 2 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | What are you trying to tell us. That you have applied PUA tactics on women and although successful you are sick of it because you are not being yourself? Or like you said on a previous post, where you indicated that you were not getting second dates, thus meaning that all the PUA stuff that you learned Is not working. So which one is it?
I can tell you one thing. PUA tactics are great at getting the girl, but useless at keeping the girl. Not only that, but she then feels deceived when she discovers the real you.
I personally prefer to slow down a bit, and use that energy to filtering so instead of numbers you may get quality, and find a woman that digs you for who you are, not who you are pretending to be. If you want to be a REAL bada ss, realize that such person is one that stick to his conviction, regardless of what other are doing. Try that for a change. You will be surprised by the results. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 7:46:36 AM |
Do I have to leave America to escape this ?
OP - you're a good-looking young guy who speaks fluent Russian. Why on earth would you hesitate about leaving America? Stop thinking about it and just go. For inspiration check out the thread by that girl from Latvia, I think it's called what's wrong with English men, or something like that.
A plane ticket will transform you from a whining loser to one of the luckiest guys on the planet. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 8:37:12 AM | "A plane ticket will transform you from a whining loser to one of the luckiest guys on the planet."
Semi-truth.
One thing I did notice is how people in other countries take better care of themselves than here in America. I didn't see a bunch of fat blobs rolling around in scooters etc like here. Also, manners and politeness are very big over there; even the French are generally more polite than we are.
America needs to lose that chip off its shoulder and go on a diet. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 9:41:04 AM | | You rate women on scale based upon their looks, you consider yourself too good for the humble 6-7's , you play mind games for the purpose of "getting in their pants"............hmmmmmmmmmmmmm........why oh why are women not flocking to you????? It's a freaking riddle all right. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 10:22:46 AM | People all over these forums are continually quantifying everything.
A guy comes on here saying he can't get any replies and people are then telling him, well you're only a 6 so don't email a woman who's an 8 because she's "out of your league".
I mean WTF ?
Who's definition of an 8 or a 6 are we using here ? What's the difference between a guy who's a 6 and a guy who's a 7 ? One more inch in height ? Less / more grey hair ? Better paid job ? More defined abs ? And what rule says that if you're apparently gorgeous then you automatically deserve someone else who's hot ? What makes an average looking girl / guy feel that they don't deserve someone regarded as more attractive ?
What sticks in my throat is the sense of entitlement from both men and women who are regarded or profess themselves as God's gift to the opposite sex. There are plenty of gorgeous women I wouldn't touch with a barge pole because their inner ugliness dwarves any physical beauty (and yes someone is welcome to retort by saying they wouldn't look twice at me either. Probably true. Who cares ?)
And then what happens when a poor old guy or gal feels someone is out of their league ? They get lambasted as lacking in confidence.
It's a no win situation.
I suggest the following: email who you find attractive. Sod what everyone else thinks. Everyone has a right to be in a relationship with who they find attractive. If the person doesn't reply then move on.
I'm well aware of my limitations in the looks department so does that mean I didn't deserve my last girlfriend because she was "out of my league" ? She was far more attractive as a woman than I am as a man.
People talk such bullsh*t. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 10:26:46 AM | You also have to know the market.
Being genuine got me nothing while being fake got me everything. Yeah, being fake won't get you a relationship but if you can't get a first date (or even an email reply) without putting on an act...that is the problem with internet dating. Very few guys can pull it off without misrepresenting themselves and that is no basis for a relationship.
Like I said, GET OFF THE INTERNET. You're a good looking guy you should have no problem picking up decent looking women in the real world. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 10:31:39 AM | | Just ask yourself this question..."Why is it that at this stage of the game, they're still single, divorced, or for those that took the easy way out "widowed"?. As for those women that have self image issues, let's just say that you don't stand a snowballs chance in hell. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 10:51:07 AM |
constantly keep giving you complements with insults until your feeble mind cant decide what to make of it and then you give it up.
You're not supposed to do that while on a date. The point of a statement like that is to prevent yourself from looking needy when approaching a woman in a group. It's supposed to be a playful teasing statement to make them laugh and to communicate that you're comfortable around attractive women and you're not marching in to steal her away. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 11:02:15 AM | Out of curiosity, are your parents divorced?
If you had argumentative/divorced/angry parents, then you probably don't know what a good partner looks like.
You probably wouldn't trust the opposite sex much, wouldn't think twice about casting the "shallow" designation on all who reject you, don't know how to select a healthy partner, and possess poor communication & relationship skills.
If your parents are happily married, then it's more likely that you are superficial yourself.
Like attracts like.
I'm not trying to insult you outright, even though you'll likely take it that way.
I'm saying it because unhappy people often don't know how to change their own self-destructive patterns.
In either scenario, the problem is fixable within YOU. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 11:29:05 AM |
Dare to
i need to rely on tactics like this to fulfill my needs. I'm just trying to find someone I can be myself around.
So you're trying to find someone you can be yourself around but you are playing all sorts of mind games and deceiving all sorts of women in the process just so you can get your needs met???? Did it ever occur to you that those girls you are getting 'your needs met with are people too.. Real people, with real feelings who you are playing with so you can empty your balls!!
Maybe THE girl you are looking for is so sick and tired of guys like you trying to 'mindfvck" her that she just doesn't want anything to do with them anymore.... No one to blame but yourself kiddo....
exactly ^^^
not to mention thats too bad the old half assed charm an mind fuk tricks arent even working on the old ugly fatties awww thats too bad what has the world come too..? | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 12:09:00 PM | | EXCELLENT POST! One thing I would like to add. Women nowadays have a sense of entitlement. Even an average or below average looking woman acts like a queen and wouldn't notice you unless you look confident and drive a nice car. I know this is generalization but believe me it's very true. I blame us "stupid" men giving so much attention to women. There is an entire industry just build around worshiping women. Women have been spoiled by men. Someone reading this might think I just hate women and it isn't true at all. I find a lot of great qualities in women but most women nowadays don't deserve the tile. Also I can only judge this from man's perspective as I am sure there are a lot of men who don't deserve to be called man. | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 1:44:48 PM |
You rate women on scale based upon their looks, you consider yourself too good for the humble 6-7's , you play mind games for the purpose of "getting in their pants"............hmmmmmmmmmmmmm........why oh why are women not flocking to you????? It's a freaking riddle all right.
Yes, especially when the other people in his photos are all more attractive than he is, bless his heart. And that's based on the visuals...when he "spoke" on here, he dropped from a 6 or 7 down to a -1 because of the ugliness of his attitude.
People who wants "9s" and "10s" need to be a 9 or a 10 themselves, if they insist on quantifying others that way. And that's for the complete package rating, not just on the looks alone. Bought your one-way plane ticket yet, OP? Bon voyage and good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2012 2:59:16 PM | | Godmanmit now i know why you were so anal about my profile. It's wasn't about the const about my profile it was more personal. Because you felt that I digraded women you decided to give me hard drive. You just proved my point! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2012 4:26:19 PM | You are a good looking guy and look like a good catch so I will agree with you...if you were a jerk you'll probably get better results. I just posted on a here about some older women who are playing the field when they have or had decent men ..they want to play the field like they are teenagers.
It beats me..I think people especially on this site do want to play the field and as you put it "mindfuching" is the name of the game.. join a sports club or find a real person at work or go to a bar (yes it works!)
Remember who you are and you'll find a great girl who deserves you! (Oh to be 25 again :) | |
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| When did game basically become mind-fu**ing you into saying yes
Posted: 6/24/2012 8:19:21 PM | OP, your lack of respect for women is quite apparent in your first pose; perhaps it is just as apparent in your demeanor when a woman has a date with you.
theres no chance of me ever getting to a second date let alone in your pants.
Your main goal is to get into these women's pants? Perhaps you should visit a lingerie store if you want to wear women's undergarments. And perhaps these women sense this is your prime motive.
constantly keep giving you complements with insults until your feeble mind cant decide what to make of it and then you give it up.
It's "compliments." You are insulting women with compliments? Women are feeble minded because they don't "get" you? They ARE "getting" you and are rejecting you. Kinda funny--here you are, so suave and witty, giving with one hand yet taking away from the other with these feeble minded women, and you STILL can't get a second date.
I even have to do this with girls that are 6s and 7s because of the sheer amount of messages they get in their inbox,
How DARE the 6s and 7s treat you this way? And dammit! Not only are they only 6s and 7s, but they are feeble minded! What is it with them--you can't even score with a feeble minded women four points away from a ten. Don't they recognize your worth?
when all I want is to just have a good time as MYSELF
No one can make you do something you don't want to do, including being someone else, eh?
sad to say but looks definitely determine what type of person you are in a shallow world such as this.
Am I the only one sees the irony in a man rating women on a scale of 1-10, calling them feeble minded, insulting them, and he talks about how shallow everyone else is?
Do I have to leave America to escape this ?
Maybe China, eh?
Why cant I just be myself ?
No one is MAKING you be anyone else, but the facade isn't working either. What's a man to do? | |
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