largo2
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Msg: 24 | |
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| I dont know what to do...
Posted: 6/26/2012 11:42:36 AM | | I think it is time for you to move on, she seems flaky to me and you need to find someone who is into you, she may be hanging onto you so that you don't find anyone else. You seem like a very nice man, if I were you I would break it off and find someone else! Good luck! | |
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| I dont know what to do...
Posted: 6/26/2012 12:52:49 PM | If she's as young as you, then she doesn't know what she wants yet and shouldn't have to. You weren't dating exclusively, she had no reason to not date others too, and she's young, she has many mistakes yet ahead of her before she's mature.
As for your friends saying you just know, oh brother, is that an old & useless cliche. If people just knew, then there wouldn't be so many break ups and divorces and people totally shocked by who they are with after the lust wears off. You don't just know, that only works if it happens to work out, and it's more likely that it won't work out because life is like that.
She wears things because she likes them, likes to feel like someone wanted her (ego boost) and maybe she is just sentimental over objects...not so much over the person. If she doesn't really want you, and it seems she does not, but keep showing up once in a while, that's for her ego. But you are both too young to be doing more than casually dating, so at least she's figured that out. You need to stop trying to make this into more than it is, go out and have fun, it will be soon enough that you have to take things seriously. Don't waste your youth. | |
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| I dont know what to do...
Posted: 6/26/2012 1:24:18 PM | To answer your question OP. No means no. Whether you believe it or not you have to take her word for it. Period.
You really could benefit from a profile review. They weren't kidding about Bambi were they. You didn't want criticism so I'll keep my opinions to myself on that one. | |
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| I dont know what to do...
Posted: 6/26/2012 3:54:58 PM | | Behaviour says a lot more, in a truthful way, than words do. Her long absences indicate lack of interest. Listen to them. | |
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