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 Johnnyzehner
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 21
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People seldomly change in life, so if he's timid, chances are he always will be. Aaron, how do you relate with women? Who are they to you? A great live interest, friend, mere companion? Are you looking for mrs. Aaron? You have to be good for them. Have something to offer them. Are you going to protect, love, cherish, honor, and keep them safe?

Figure out a few things and it'll get easy for you! What is your objective in dating!

Go get em tiger
 StrawBerryCutie89
Joined: 6/6/2011
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/26/2012 8:49:19 AM
OP, You're profile needs a lot of work. I decide whether or not I'm going to respond to a person based almost entirely on what they write in their description. Yours is very brief and doesn't tell me anything about your personality or display any real interest you have in being here and actively looking for someone. It's like you couldn't be bothered to write anything.
Also, it seems to me like you're waiting too long to ask the girls for a face to face meeting. Try to make the first "hang out" a month or so after talking. I've had guys contact me, we'll talk on here for a while and if they don't ask for a face to face within about 6-7 weeks of good conversation I'll just assume they don't want to meet or they have questionable reasons for not wanting to meet and I won't take them seriously after that point. That's just my opinion though....
 drumsafrican12
Joined: 6/19/2012
Msg: 23
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Posted: 6/26/2012 3:57:53 PM
It would be helpful for you to go to a therapist, to figure out what is going wrong in terms of your relationships with women. Since this has been a longstanding issue, you must be turning off people somehow, perhaps in ways you don't even know.

Judith
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Joined: 5/20/2012
Msg: 24
Something is wrong.
Posted: 6/26/2012 5:41:48 PM

I've had guys contact me, we'll talk on here for a while and if they don't ask for a face to face within about 6-7 weeks of good conversation I'll just assume they don't want to meet or they have questionable reasons for not wanting to meet and I won't take them seriously after that point.


Change "6-7 weeks" to 6-7 days - MAX - and I agree with that.
Even sooner if both our schedules permit. No point in having wasted each other's time with extended convos if there's nothing "there" when we meet.
 Epostle
Joined: 5/31/2012
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/26/2012 7:29:41 PM
Well, I can't offer much economically... but I could always offer them honesty and commitment :)

I mean, I don't think that I'm a bad person, but it's something I've been wanting to do for a while. I try to talk to girls about certain interests aka being friendly. But if saying "we should hang out sometime" is bad to say... then I guess I'll start giving specific dates and times to meet.

Really all I'm wanting someone for is to be like a friend but only closer you know? I mean... I don't expect them to be with me 24/7, but at the same time... you just can't do some stuff with guys like you can with girls... atleast in my case.
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