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|Okay, let me come at this from the "cougar" angle.....|
First of all we are not "loons"... Second, we do know what we want and will pursue it once we find it... Thirdly, we don't want to be anyone's mother.
So far, since I have been single again, I have learned a few things. Guys my age or older are not for me. I have now decided that the best ones are between the ages of 25 and 35... just an fyi for all the other ladies out there. However, if my only intention is to use them as a toy then I am very up front about that. I think we are so used to the younger guys only wanting a to get a piece that it throws off when we meet one that wants more and we don't know how to react, so we just ignore you and hope you will go away. Sorry, if that's too blunt. We admit that we like younger guys, but we honestly don't want to be seen in our circle of friends with you for fear of ridicule.
So, if the last two texts were from you and you have not heard back from her then move on, because she has. She has already realized that a FWB deal will not work with you. Just smile, add her to your cougar list and go on to the next one, enjoy it for what it is.