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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 6/28/2012 9:02:44 PM | | Oh my this is so true, I'm going through this. I'm attempting for like the fourth time to be friends with my ex and still he lies to my face. Not only about who he's seeing as he did in our relationship but now it's about everything. Some have said he's in a new relationship but yet he kisses me and other stuff. He says he appreciates me and we should be friends and just make new friends and keep our old ones. That way we won't be judged and here's the kicker, we cand just tell them we have been long time friends and we have never dated. The problem is I don't lie. It's not a good cycle, I know but he's berry nice when he is very nice. But it has to be all about him which becomes exhausting for me. He's already showed a deep lack of interest for the great stories of joy I've shared with him. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 6/28/2012 9:17:51 PM |
First of all, if he is "bi-curious". Then he's gay.
And this is why I come in to read forums when I have nothing better to do. So I can shake my head and sigh and roll my eyes at complete strangers. (GFG!!! When are people EVER going to stop it with the homophobic BS when the word bi-curious is used in connection with men??? You'd not be reading a woman say another woman is a lesbian if she's bi-curious. I do NOT get it!! AUGH!!)
I don't remember your "male" name the last time you were here on POF (before you got banned).....doing the same thing you're doing now.....but you bea fulla pooaaa!! :)
****snort**** God I love it when someone catches on.
~OP~ Stay put, right where you are. Sounds like this works marvelously for you both. And since this is all just a bunch of silliness? It really doesn't matter what any on-topic here says. JMO :fish: | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 6/29/2012 11:15:59 AM | | Wow ..this is a very unhealthy relationship .I have a girlfriend who can't be alone..when she drinks she starts to fight,kick her boyfriend out middle of the night and let him back later...called cops to many time and 911 .now she has to pay a fee and go to court ..surprising the cops still show up in his house .lol.you need therapy ..do you guys do drugs? Or drink to much? Normal people don't act that way.. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 6/30/2012 1:24:22 AM | @ OP - Ashley.
This definitely sounds like you're stuck in the cycle of violence....I sincerely hope he has not become physically violent with you.
It will be hard for you to leave him permanently and you will be more than reluctant to do so. In fact, you will find many "reasons"to stay with or go back to him but you must be strong and do this for yourself.
You're a Human-being.
Your life, health and time has value.
You deserve better than the treatment you are getting from him; you are better than what you have allowed him to treat you like.
Leave him for your own good. Make sure you have a strong support system. I believe you reallydo love him but you're going to have to love him for the good times and realize you can't be together because of the bad times and because they keep repeating.
I sincerely hope you have the strength to leave him and sorry for any spelling or grammatical errors;im on my phone.
Good luck.: )
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/1/2012 4:12:51 AM | sounds like the excitment u both get off on...the drama!..then the love,
its a cycle. a very unhealthy one!!...get a guy that treats u right then u will look back and think "wot the hell was i with that idiot for!"...and get some self respect!...one more thing...also i would also thank all thes people giving u advice,.. i seem to have missed a reply or contributin from you since your first post!! | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:40:45 PM | I am just gonna laugh at you since I have been around long enough to know stupid people are stupid.
But just in case you have a brain which I really doubt. You will leave this person and then get therapy for you own self for what you have allowed to happen to you. You are taking the disrespect to a prison **** level. Ie your his prison ****. Now unless you are happy being his prison **** then you will try to change. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/14/2012 12:56:19 AM | | Ok I'm 43 and I see that you are in a very bad situation. If the good have came over several times you need to get out of the relationship for good. It will most likely get worse than better. Maybe this is a fantasy of his or he might be telling you to leave him. Either way there are a lot of decent, caring, loving, and romantic men out there that would love to treat you like a princess all the time and keep it like you were on your honeymoon everyday that your together. I guess I might be talking about myself because I know I would treat someone like yourself with respect. So you may argue from time to time but, both people should beable to talk like adults and resolve whatever issue there is. I see he wants you to seek a sperm donor for you to have a kid of your own, why are you still with him is it the money? I make a lot of money also and really tired of just spending it on myself.and it would completely fulfill my life to find someone to love and be loved back. My work really keeps me from finding that someone but I have a very good job and love what I do. I work in north Dakota in the oil field for 4 weeks then go home for 2 weeks in Arizona. Not really a.reason to go to Az except.for.parents and sisters family so I want to enjoy my time off with someone special instead of going home and spending my months income on myself and having funi would rather spend it and the time on someone I love. So I see people in relationships like you and ask myself why because I know what type of person I am and what type if person I would be to someone else. Please think about this reply. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/14/2012 1:09:50 AM | | I don't agree bicurious is not gay. It just simply means he enjoys the company of both sexes. I do things with both sexes and don't consider myself bi or gay. I am straight because I could only fall in love with a woman. I have a open mind when it comes to sex. I try it all and will do what I enjoy. I won't kiss another man or even have feelings for him I only am selfish because I use them for the only thing a woman doesn't have. His c*#k. So now your going to say I'm not straight, I'm not bi sexual or maybe I am I just thought about what bisexual means and that is having sex with both male and female and since that's all it is maybe I am, but gay you devote yourself to the same sex as livers and partners in life that's the difference, but maybe before you bash someone's feelings of sexuality maybe you should live life not so closed minded, it really does help to live out of the same old things you always do and will do for ad long as you are alive, you live once get out and have an exciting life instead of being monotonous. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/14/2012 8:04:49 AM | You are in a TOXIC relationship...why would you allow your self in a rollercoaster relationship blows me away....
from what you describe this is far from any loving relationship, on either part....
your question, "Have you ever been with someone like this?" all you posted was what he has done, but sweetie your just as gulity as he is...
best thing to do is run away and get healty and find a positive relationship where there is really a loving partner..
Good Luck | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/14/2012 8:25:02 PM | | Seriously??? You are insane. Please get some professional help. This is the 3rd post of yours I have commented on that says the same thing. At this point I'm not sure if you're legitimately a nutcase or just pulling everyone's cranks on here. If you're legitimate, you seriously need some counselling and help. You are borderline stalker and obsessive. | |
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| Toxic Relationship? Why he wanted another guy to fuck me then loves me so much in one month?
Posted: 7/14/2012 8:47:13 PM | | All I can say you seem very needy to put up with a syco. He calls the police 10 times to kick you out of his house. He is bi and he strip you naked in front of stranger. He kicks you out wondering on the street at night. He wants some one else to **** you. Did he mention any thing about charging the the some one else. Have some self-respect so every body will respect you. | |
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