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Sure they can. I see plenty of losers with women. They beat on them and yell at them and drink at the bar until they're drunk enough to live with them.
Sure, if the women have low self esteem or other issues too then they put up with it. But do you want to be with a woman who has low self esteem even if she's pretty?
thats not entirely what I mean, a guy has to have confidence, good social-skills and conversation-skills, the right attitude, the right behavior, right body-language, has to have other priorities in life, have things going for him in life, and then ask women out, approach them, a man can't just approach women and lack those other traits
So become a better more confident and social man. Sheesh! Would you be attracted to a woman who had poor social skills and low confidence and had little going for her in life? Not me. I want a woman who is together, fun, intelligent and engaging on top of being physically attractive to me. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 7/29/2012 5:27:44 PM |
Sure, if the women have low self esteem or other issues too then they put up with it. But do you want to be with a woman who has low self esteem even if she's pretty?
Lol uh why would you ask me that? Aside from God knows what floats around in your head, nothing in my post evenly closely suggested that I want a woman who is pretty but has no self esteem. How many women like that have you dated?
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 7/29/2012 9:27:17 PM |
Lol uh why would you ask me that? Aside from God knows what floats around in your head, nothing in my post evenly closely suggested that I want a woman who is pretty but has no self esteem. How many women like that have you dated?
That was more a rhetorical question than one directed at you specifically. As in, would anyone really want to be with women that have low self esteem? Ok, some guys do if they are abusers or a-holes or aren't up to being with a stronger woman.
Because i prefer things that are easy to get, not things that are hard to get, i hate challenges.
Things that are hard to get or a challenge are often worth much more than something really easy to get. This applies to both men and women. Why would you want a woman who was really easy to get? I would rather be with someone who was selective and chose to be with me because she wants and appreciates me. Not because I am a warm body that is willing to be with her. And I'm certainly not going to get involved with any woman that offers. I'm selective too. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 7/30/2012 5:41:30 AM | | dont' doubt yourself man. You gotta act like your the best ****in thing on here. Even the most attractive sexy people have there doubts about themselves. Act the part don't be**** but be confident. The reason why you've never been kissed or w/e is probably because YOUR TELLING EVERYONE. First girl i ever slept with I acted like it was nothing at all, and even though she had had sex a few times before she was just as nervus as me, because it was her first time with me. I have horrible confidence issues but part of it is acting like you belong here, pity parties arn't attractive go out and talk with ladies, email ladies on here worst case you don't here anything but at least you tried | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 7/30/2012 1:53:20 PM | I know I'm not a looker and I know I don't have much to give but Id really Like to be loved once in my life. (Even my mother couldn't love me )
thats your problem. learn to love yourself first
you have two options.
1. martyr yourself for 72 virgins
2. buy a book called the mystery method and start reading this blog
heartist.wordpress.com
and btw people i joking with option 1. chill the **** out pleaseeeee | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/2/2012 4:57:59 PM | Seriously, I hate, despise, loathe, pisses me off, angers me, on how it always or usually comes down to a guy's social-skills, conversation-skills, attitude, mindset, mentality, way of thinking, walks right, sits right, stands right, breathes right, talks right, he has a life, has a lot of things or stuff going for him, he is fun, exciting, unpredictable, is a leader instead of a follower, is a take-charge, take-control type of person, is in charge, control of his own life, is outgoing, has a lot of friends, is comfortable and content with himself, has a passion, or passions for something and working on it. I hate how guys have to be "the better man" but women don't have to be the "better woman" women can be a loser and still attract men, but not the other way around
Seriously? First of all you are exaggerating in that a man doesn't have to be all the things you list. But you need to be some of those things to be attractive. If you are none of those then yeah, you will struggle to get women attracted to you. Strive to embody some of those qualities instead of whining and complaining. And you don't have any requirements for women you are attracted to? You would be okay with a socially inept, quiet, boring, unambitious, woman with low self esteem who dressed sloppily? I sure wouldn't. I'm not settling for a woman just because she is willing. Plenty of other men won't either.
I went on two dates with a quiet boring girl. On the first date she barely said anything, didn't initiate any topics of conversation, didn't seem to have any hobbies or interests and didn't want to eat or drink anything. I thought maybe she was just really shy and would open up a little on a second date. Nope, she was exactly the same. I didn't ask for a third date. So for this man a woman has to be a "better woman". | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/3/2012 6:00:18 AM |
Seriously, I hate, despise, loathe, pisses me off, angers me, on how it always or usually comes down to a guy's social-skills, conversation-skills, attitude, mindset, mentality, way of thinking, walks right, sits right, stands right, breathes right, talks right, he has a life, has a lot of things or stuff going for him, he is fun, exciting, unpredictable, is a leader instead of a follower, is a take-charge, take-control type of person, is in charge, control of his own life, is outgoing, has a lot of friends, is comfortable and content with himself, has a passion, or passions for something and working on it. I hate how guys have to be "the better man" but women don't have to be the "better woman" women can be a loser and still attract men, but not the other way around
Fake it till you make it. lol | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/8/2012 11:14:59 AM | | Mate sort the clothes out a decent shirt and stylish jeans maybe get a gold chain or something for your neck. (not to big) . Get into Sports like football (soccer) rugby or American football. Play them even if you are useless. Then you will have some great guy mates to go out and have a laugh and a few drinks with. At some point you will get chatting to groups of girls. Get a few drinks down you and dont let them know you havnt done it before. just make them laugh and once you get close enough to be having a chat with one maybe touch the leg whilst talking and if she turns to look at you maybe a peck on the cheek will turn into a full blown kiss. Most of all dont be desperate go with the flow and if you get rejected laugh it off . . The worst that can happen is nothing | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/12/2012 3:30:17 PM | Seriously, I hate, despise, loathe, pisses me off, angers me, on how it always or usually comes down to a guy's social-skills, conversation-skills, attitude, mindset, mentality, way of thinking, walks right, sits right, stands right, breathes right, talks right, he has a life, has a lot of things or stuff going for him, he is fun, exciting, unpredictable, is a leader instead of a follower, is a take-charge, take-control type of person, is in charge, control of his own life, is outgoing, has a lot of friends, is comfortable and content with himself, has a passion, or passions for something and working on it. I hate how guys have to be "the better man" but women don't have to be the "better woman" women can be a loser and still attract men, but not the other way around
All of your posts are always so bitter sounding man. It is no wonder why you are not having luck with women. You need to lighten up and stop generalizing. You will never find a good woman if you continue to be bitter all the time and put all women in the same category.
Now I will say that I do agree that women should take more of an active interest and be held to the same standards they set for the men they date. I always let women know right away that I have standards, that I am a selector in the process, and that I am not a push over. Take the woman I am seeing right now. We have had 8 dates. On two of those dates she has treated me. The first was an expensive trip to the movies . With tickets, food, and drink she easily spent $50 or more. The second was taking me out for a nice dinner which was close to 50 bucks again. She even insisted on covering the tip when I offered. She also initiates contact with me, offered to help with the dishes when I cooked her dinner, and shows genuine interest in who I am and concern for me. So there are truly good women out there. You just have to open yourself up to possibilities and be more direct/honest about what you expect and want. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/13/2012 7:53:34 PM | I get the feeling there is a lot going on in your life besides having trouble meeting the right girl.
Put yourself first, and really get to the bottom of what is making you feel unworthy. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Otherwise, the person you're in a relationship with will unfairly be touched by your inner turmoil. Don't be a typical guy and focus on the physical aspect of a relationship. Sex is over rated, kissing is over rated, all of that IS over rated, until you are in the right place to truly love someone faithfully and unconditionally. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/14/2012 1:36:24 PM | | How is your quest on a connection? If your looking on here, I would tighen up your profile. It's a bit wordy, generalize a little bit. Lose the pic of the car and 90's stereo and get some shots of you shooting pool, at the lake, doing stuff with your buds (but keep the buds out). | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/14/2012 7:38:30 PM | @IHateDoubleStandards714
Dude, you have major attitude problems and that is why you are single. Women may not need social skills or confidence etc. to get laid. Pretty much any woman can find a man that will have sex with her.
BUT if a woman want s a relationship with a decent guy then yes, she has to have more going for her. I love a confident and intelligent woman who is successful and happy in her own life. I will run screaming from women that have nothing to offer. And I bet plenty of guys will agree with me. A woman does need to be better to get a relationship unless she is willing to settle for a loser. Deny it all you like but that's the truth. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/15/2012 3:47:32 PM | Get over that mommy doesn't love you. Grandmas' compliments are biased.
Families are for great holiday dinners.
Fun and supportive friends are best to surround yourself with for dating. Get out and do things with them in places you where there are people.
Focus on the first step, dating, before attaining the whole marriage and kids.
First and foremost, go over to profile review.
Tweak it, put some armor on for the rejections and message your heart out.
Some WILL respond, go from there.
In real life, ... next time a girl looks at you. I mean LOOKS at you, in your eyes ... with a smile. (Make sure its not the "I'm coo-coo crazy" look!!!)
She wants you.
Don't play shy/good boy. Make your move!
Ask her out. Touch her arm, the small of her back or hand. Kiss her!
If she slaps you. It's okay. It only stings for a second.
Try again with the next one.
I guarantee you, one will kiss you back.
No one said any of this is easy but look at this way. Wouldn't you do anything for ... love?
You'll get there. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/21/2012 12:54:23 PM | Dont worry to much about it. In my experience its all about confidence and self esteem. If you think it wont happen then it wont.
I'll be honest though I fooled around and had sex as a teen I never kissed a girl until I was 18. Well I did once but I dont count it since it wasnt a proper kiss.
Anyways I went off to Uni and my first kiss ended up being with two girls at once in a club. How does the saying go. Sometimes your waiting for a bus then two come along at once ;p
Anyways that year I made out with plenty of girls. But before that age I'd wondered myself why hadnt it happened. Was their something wrong with me, was I not attractive etc
Above all enjoy it when it does finally happen.
Trust me it can happen to anyone, Had girls literally force themselves on me and I dont concider myself anything special. If it can happen to me it can happen to anyone. | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/21/2012 1:34:36 PM | | 25 almost 26, never had a g/f, never been on a date, never been kissed, dude i feel you... i feel exactly the same way... maybe i aim for 10's and i should aim for 8's... but god damnit i don't wanna settle.... i wanna love the person i'm with not want to run away in 5 years... and every single girl says no, or says yes only to cancel later.... it's kinda fustrating, lotsa girls lead me on... flirt with me... but i always ask the wrong ones... i don't get it lol | |
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| 25 & never kissed a girl let alone been in a relationship, what to do?
Posted: 8/22/2012 9:18:32 AM | | my advice is also go out and hit the club scene! get comfortable about women. Your young like me just let all your worries ago theres nothing to worry about. Honestly act like youve been there before even if you haven't. The confidence youll give off will work in your favor. Plus being 6'7 is a great advantage over most men | |
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