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Posted: 7/2/2012 10:29:53 PM | i cant believe women would ask such personnel questions like about your bits and income! were you very offending!. i had some great conversation with a man, we went for a coffee, he turned up late, so chatted for 1 hour and was getting on great then he dropped the bombshell. That he wanted us to go back to mine and have sex!.
its so maddening, as i am for total honesty.
why are people so strange! it really puts you of! | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/2/2012 10:50:30 PM |
Me: So what do you do for a living?
Him: I'm in sales. How big are your breasts?
Me: Big enough. Do you have kids?
Him: Yeah. Do you shave?
Me: Only my legs and armpits. What do you like to do in your spare time?
Him: Cum. Do you like to give oral?
Me: Only during final exams. So what do you look like?
Him: I'm 3 and 3/4 inches when soft, but don't let that fool you, it gets all the way to 8 and 1/4 inches when fully erect and it has a 26 and 1/2 degree curve to the left with a little scar where the doctor slipped with the scalpel a little when he was circumcising me and I keep the hair trimmed back to 5/8 of an inch around the base to make it easier for you to deep throat me. Wanna see some pictures?
Me: That's ok, surprise me someday. So what kind of music do you like to listen to?
Him: Hmmm, I need a trim......
Me: How about movies, what are your favorites?
Him: Do you think I should shave my balls or do you like men all natural?
ah this makes me smile haha you did so well! | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/2/2012 11:41:03 PM | How many Granchildren do you have..?
Do you like singing and dancing...?
Are you athletic enough Not to trip over your own shadow, while running to first base..??
Can you throw a Frisbee in a straight line..?
Can you boil water ...without Burning it..??
Is it necessary to vacuum the carpets more than twice a week..?
Have you been to Niagara Falls..?
Do you _Have to have_ a Diamond....or would an Amethyst be more romantic..?
...and several more...
....to avoid making any sexual remarks...
...just to see how long it takes Her to ask...:
"Why...after all this time...haven't you asked Anything about Sex...??"
"Mostly ...because I'm looking for a _Relationship_....and I didn't want you to think that sex was ALL I am interested in!!"
"Discuss-Away!!" | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 12:16:57 AM | 1. What preparations have you made for the Zombie Apocalypse?
2. Do you like opera?
3. Have you ever been involved in a 12 step program?
4. Are you legally allowed to leave the country?
5. May I have a blood sample? | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:20:07 AM |
1: If you and I were in a committed relationship and I wanted to do something that you knew might not be good for the family, but I really, really, REALLY wanted to do it.... would you say yes?
This is one of those questions that always elicits a lose, lose scenario. Again the answer will be depends. If that thing that would be bad for the relationship was to sleep with someone else, even though it may be the fantasy of the other, the answer is no. It the thing that was bad for the family would be a trip to some guru in india for a month. I could see that as a possibility and it's fine. Now if that trip would be a month with a couple of her girlfriends in one of those Hedonism nude resorts in the caribbean. Hell no. | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:44:33 AM |
chatted for 1 hour and was getting on great then he dropped the bombshell. That he wanted us to go back to mine and have sex!.
its so maddening, as i am for total honesty.
Sounds as if he was VERY honest! 
Why don't people appreciate honesty?  | |
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:50:42 AM |
What are your 3, or 4, or 5 most important questions you ask someone new? Is it me, or is it just the men I pick - a lot of questions I try to ask them, they turn it into something sexual. Is this the norm?
On a dating site? Yes. Your average Joe on the street?No.
The reason for this is that a lot of guys,if not most, view this place as a meet market. If you discount most men in the forums, that must leave about a 50-75% ratio of guys that only hunt for their next meat suit. There's maybe a 25% of women doing the same as well.
I don't have questions; I have three affirmations, three rules I will not abide in any way to be broken. It means an immediate end to the relationship, sometimes with dire effects;
1- Don't lie to me.
2- Don't cheat on me.
3- NEVER touch my daughters.
The rest is negotiable, but those three are eternal. If I ask them, it's because I can do and offer the same. If I ask them, it's also because at some time or another, some girl tried one or all of the above. It ended badly. | |
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 10:15:11 AM | Capn: I whole heartedly agree with the first two, but what do you mean by the third? Touch them how?
What if your date wanted to give them a hug after an outing or your girls wanted to hug her? Or if it's a first time meeting what about a handshake? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 10:19:47 AM |
Capn: I whole heartedly agree with the first two, but what do you mean by the third? Touch them how?
What if your date wanted to give them a hug after an outing or your girls wanted to hug her? Or if it's a first time meeting what about a handshake?
I mean physical correction; that's my departement. I don't need a girl to play mommy and slap them, if I need to play daddy I will.
Long time ago, this girl I was with admitted to me my one year old (yes, I left them alone, I was trusting, young and stupid....) at the time was crying, and she "SHOOK" her.....
Girl is lucky to still be breathing today. She didn't very well for some time though...
Anyways, it means just that LOL. No touching as in physical discipline. I wouldnt hit a kid that isnt mine, under absolutely no pretense would I touch them in anger. I expect the same.
As for playing, or play slapping, or whatever, you know, anything goes lol. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 12:00:15 PM | | I'll ask about their favorite food or restaurant, or car, if they fish or hunt, if they have hobbies. What they hope to do in the future. On a whole there are a lot of decent men on POF at least in my age bracket. I won't bring up sex or even kiss on the first meeting, (after reading the forums) but, if they talk about sex, I'll ask about their E.D. and safe sex. Go with the flow.....men's favorite topic is sex no matter how old they get. | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 12:14:53 PM |
1: If you and I were in a committed relationship and I wanted to do something that you knew might not be good for the family, but I really, really, REALLY wanted to do it.... would you say yes?
What's that ever so popular line?......"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few....or the one." If it's potentially detrimental to the family, the answer is NO. However, if an equitable compromise can be reached where there is no harm involved, I'm open to suggestions......
2: The deserted island question: You have a choice. Your best guy friend who is an excellent craftsmen or a beautiful young woman.
The craftsman, as he can build me a boat as a path to the beautiful woman.
3: Do you want kids?
Yes. Very much so!!!
4: If you were madly in love with a woman who you knew was your match in every way...what s a better engagement presentation....a $25,000 diamond ring or a $25,000 down payment on a house?
The house. I would never pay $25,000 for a ring.....LOL Actually, from a more detailed perspective, I already own a home, so I would suggest we possibly sell our respective homes and use that money as a downpayment to select a home we've chosen together.
5: Do you chew tobacco, spit snuff or smoke cigars?
I tried chewing tobacco when I was 19. Bleecccchhh!!!! They still sell snuff?? Oh, yes, I love a good cigar, occasionally, but not an habitual smoker of them.............
This has been a test of the Emergency Dating Broadcast System. Had this been an actual emergency, you would have been notified of where to have a relationship in your area. This is only a test. We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming, already in progress........Thank you for your cooperation. | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 1:57:36 PM |
Sorry, but the only sensible answer is ``It depends on what it is.''
Well I would agree if I had the inclination to ask
If that thing that would be bad for the relationship was to sleep with someone else…or…Now if that trip would be a month with a couple of her girlfriends in one of those Hedonism nude resorts in the Caribbean
but knowing me…and he would if he was with me…I would never asks such a thing.
First of all you say ``MIGHT not be good for the fanily,'' which means it may or may not be a big deal. Second, I'm generally pretty good at finding a thrird alternative when only two exist. Trust me on that one.
That is actually a good answer…especially the third alternative…if there was one.
Too often men say to me…”sure I’d probably say yes if you wanted it bad enough”.
But honestly, I want a man who is willing to stand firm on something that he believes is right for our family not what MIGHT NOT be good for our family. I make no apologies for wanting my partner to be head of household, the final decision maker. He is the person I trust, in the end, to make the right choices for us. I am his wife, his lover, his help meet, his friend but he is my husband and my faith in him will be immeasurable or I would not be with him. I have never been nor have ever wanted to be the ruler of the house. So the answer to this question for me would be a man who would say “I wouldn’t do anything that I know that might not be good for the family”. But again…I do like the idea of a follow up with a third alternative.
The craftsman, as he can build me a boat as a path to the beautiful woman.
Every man always picks the beautiful woman. I usually just smile and say ok. I would love it if a guy would say to me…”if that beautiful woman was you then I would be fine right where I am..but if it isn’t you then I want the guy who knows how to keep us alive until we can find a way off the island so that I can get back home…to you”
These answers of course are not deal breakers…just gives me a way into how the guy thinks.
I don't personally know any guys who are better craftsman than I am. Most of the time, I undo other people's screw ups after they make things worse. The last thhing I'd need on a desert island is some guy screwing up the raft I was trying to build this was funny and a different way of looking at it..if the guy was truly the better craftsman…and again if he had said it was me he wanted to be with him. I like giving massages and having them in return especially foot massages.
Obviously the house, unless I had more money than brains. However, a friend of mine just got a 22k engagement ring, so apparently some people will spend that much on a ring I still feel that kind of money could be spent on better things than a piece of jewelry. Great wealth to me is in the heart of a man not in his bank account. Securing our future, knowing he made a home for us to live in is much more important to me than a shiny piece of rock teetering on a ring of gold.
No kids for me…nope, not raising babies anymore…not mine or anyone else’s. I have a grandson who I adore and love to see him come and go.
When I am with a man I never know when the urge to kiss him arrives. It could be anytime…anywhere. PDA is fine with me. I can’t imagine wanting to kiss my man and he has that snuff stuff in his mouth…yucky yuck. As far as cigars go, there is not much else besides the revolting smell of waste that makes me cringe.
We have a beautiful place out on a wharf that I enjoy going to. Men will stand outside and smoke cigars and ruin the beautiful view by the horrible smell permeating from those things. They think they look distinguished but they don’t…to me anyway.
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 2:13:42 PM | I wouldn't call any of these "most important," but I've asked them all in the past. I like to throw a silly question or two out there every so often for a good laugh.
1) What is your geeky guilty pleasure? The one thing you absolutely adore that you are too ashamed to admit for fear it would label you as the geekiest most dorktastic nerd to ever walk the Earth?
2) What is your most hidden, secret talent?
3) What is the one book you are absolutely ashamed to have read? I mean, this book was so cheesy, so bad, so horrible that you can't believe you sat there and read the damn thing. You might have even gotten to the very end and tossed it right before you finished those last 5 pages. You just couldn't take it anymore it was THAT bad.
Is it me, or is it just the men I pick - a lot of questions I try to ask them, they turn it into something sexual. Is this the norm?
Not sure whether or not that's the norm, but I don't sweat it when that happens. That's when I simply divulge my Deepest Darkest Fantasies (TM) and tell them all about my love of knives, fire, and medieval torture devices in extreme and explicit graphic detail.
Works every time. | |
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| Most impotant questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 2:21:40 PM |
Every man always picks the beautiful woman.
Really? I find that odd that those men would choose lust over the natural instinct for self preservation. Of course, stranger things have happened.
Logically, on a remote island, the resources would eventually run out. Were I to choose the beautiful woman, eventually, we would have to choose to eat one or the other and while beautiful women might be delicious, they don't always taste good. I would think there should always be a road to preserving the future.
The craftsman can, at least, provide a way back to civilization where beautiful women are a dime a dozen. However, it keeps my options open to truly find the one with the beautiful soul........
Maybe I should just go along to get along.....LOL Can I at least bring a bottle of ketchup in case the beautiful woman is not flavorful?? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 5:43:20 PM |
Logically, on a remote island, the resources would eventually run out. Were I to choose the beautiful woman, eventually, we would have to choose to eat one or the other and while beautiful women might be delicious, they don't always taste good. I would think there should always be a road to preserving the future.
The craftsman can, at least, provide a way back to civilization where beautiful women are a dime a dozen. However, it keeps my options open to truly find the one with the beautiful soul........
Maybe I should just go along to get along.....LOL Can I at least bring a bottle of ketchup in case the beautiful woman is not flavorful??
ohmegosh, that was funny | |
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:10:59 PM | I once asked a first date (after he stepped over the line a couple times) if he would be ok if his daughter went out with a man exactly like him. He stalled for a minute, then answered yes. Things cooled off for half an hour. I thought "good, now we are on the right track". No sooner did I have this silly notion then he was back to both feet over the line. Good thing that was the last contact he made cuz it sure is my last with him.
Me thinks there should be another category on POF besides dating, long term relationship, etc - "Full of BS". I could go there anytime I want to be insulted, abused, taken for a one nite stand..... | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 12:27:21 PM | I'll ask questions, but only towards one goal: to listen.
shut off your "wants" by satisfying your own wants, and its easier to listen. Listening is a great tool--you don't need to ask questions when you listen.
To your second question:out of all the people you cross paths with, you choose the ones you decide to get to know. here on the internet, your profile can attract certain types. so, yes, it is the "men" you pick, even subconsciously pick. Turning back to sex can be an easy out for conversation, when you can't offer enough to keep a conversation going. sex is easy, its a simple topic. | |
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/4/2012 12:37:13 PM | | most important question> Do you want the truth? Yeah... well YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH. That and do you scrunch or fold your dunny paper. | |
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| Most important questions to ask
Posted: 7/4/2012 1:07:41 PM | 1. Do you drink/do drugs?
2. Have you been married before?
3. Tell me about your friends and family?
4. Are you looking for something long term?
and finally...
5. How many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center of a Tootsie Pop? (Been pondering this question for more than 30 years) lol | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 4:15:37 PM | | Hmmm...well i am a widow too and i think some men think you must therefore be gagging for it! You wouldn't want to know some of the things i have had said to me via mail, needless to say the writers concerned are now on block! | |
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