| | Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationshipPage 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | I liked the chance for closure w/ my ex. Closure convo is where both sides own their parts, accept have gratitude for the good, forgive the rest and set each other free with only good wishes. So if you have that chance, I'd say go for it, but be clear on what you are there to accomplish going in, or it could be ruined. | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/3/2012 10:58:57 PM | | Well we were talking and it seems like shes giving me hints(for the postitive), I mean we were talking about something random then all of a sudden she tells me she's glad we're talking again and hope this time around things work out like they did when we first started talking last year and there's no drama. which in this time we havent talked I took care of and wont come back. | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/4/2012 5:42:53 AM | | Ha... I knew she was interested in getting back with you. It's obvious that you are interested as well.. So go for it. But, I suggest you both think about what caused the split in the first place and try doing things differently this time around. If you both remain the same people that you were in your previous relationship, it won't work. But, if you work on being better people and not making the same mistakes, things could last forever. Good luck. | |
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pfif
| | Joined: 6/11/2012
Msg: 51 | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/4/2012 9:11:00 AM | I agree...i'm in a situation right now...an Ex of my current bf...came back into his life...I'm not sure what her motive is..but it has caused many an arguement for us..and I told him..its either HER or me..I'm not going to be on standby...
If you got rid of her..it must of been for a reason..so WHY on God;s green earth...are you letting her IN again..friends or more...Ugh.. | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/12/2012 8:14:18 AM | | So a little update, we really havent talked much in the past week and a half, since we both have busy work schedules, but seeing that im off of work for the next week im really devoting myself to work on either getting back with my ex or getting to know this other girl..Do you think I should call my ex? | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/12/2012 2:01:14 PM | | She dumped you (that hurt) and a year later contacted you (might hurt). "we really havent talked much in the past week and a half". We make time for those that are important to us...period. I suggest that since she initiated this contact that you let her follow through. I wouldn't chase her at all. I'm not saying ignore her...I'm saying let her show you that she cares by following through on what she has recently initiated. If it doesn't work out I guarantee you'll feel a lot better and your dignity would hae been saved. | |
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pfif
| | Joined: 6/11/2012
Msg: 60 | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/13/2012 11:53:00 AM | | I'm coming from the other side of the fence; I started dating a great guy and things got really intense quickly and I pushed him away (as I was afraid of being hurt again) , after being apart for 2 months I realized I made a huge mistake and couldn't picture myself with anyone else! I him and explained myself and apologized and asked for another chance, but now I feel like he's just stringing ME along, keeping me at arms length until he finds someone better. My advice is to hear what she has to say and then decide if you feel she's genuine and you can forgive and forget, if not....it probably won't work. | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:33:22 PM | | We've been talking alot lately and she cleared things up as to what happened and whats been going on with her life lately and i'm fine with it, we started talking about what we're both looking for in a relationship and he honestly told me im what shes looking for. The last thing she told me is that we should talk more and get to know each other, relationship wise and/or friend wise. | |
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pfif
| | Joined: 6/11/2012
Msg: 64 | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/18/2012 4:22:26 PM | | If it was me I would get right back with her but then again I am a hopeless romantic. It is obvious you still want to be with her but you are trying to be very careful about the whole ordeal. That is very positive that she is willing to talk to you about what went wrong and that you both can talk about how to make it work better this time. My advice is to take it slow if you do get back together. I had an experience where we just jumped right back into it after a year of not seeing each other and ended up just running into the same old problems and we never talked about what went wrong before. | |
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| Almost a year later and my ex apologizes for what happened in a past relationship
Posted: 7/23/2012 8:01:11 AM | | Okay well it went well I thought! now the question is when do i contact her again, we were both drinking, she ended up going back to her place and I ended up getting a ride home and later that night and as I was laying in bed i honestly couldnt keep it to myself and i told her since we both decided to keep open with each other i told her i've been thinking about her alot lately and she replied with the same. Now do i wait for her to talk to me again or should I keep communication going? | |
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