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 Cleverkitten
Joined: 5/17/2008
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he’s said why he’s busy is because of long work hours and from what he said it sounds like he’s feeling stressed from them. He said could he cancel today as he’s not in the right frame of mind


Isn't that exactly the RIGHT time to go on a date? Take your mind off the stressy, work stuff and have a little fun. If he's local to you then it's not as though he has to make a HUGE effort to travel etc. How hard is it for a bloke to do the 3 S's (sh!t, shower and shave, as a much loved male friend of mine used to say) ......... we women put in way more effort to look naturally gorgeous (tongue in cheek smiley emoticon thingy).


 MrGoodManUK
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 7/7/2012 12:48:04 AM
^^^^^^^^

All the more reason to conclude that 'He's just not that into you'

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/

 dotinglab
Joined: 1/28/2009
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Posted: 7/7/2012 4:08:34 AM
cant you just ask him, simple as....
 Clam80
Joined: 2/6/2012
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Posted: 7/7/2012 6:01:14 AM
Thanks for all your replies again.
I sent a text to him asking how is he was feeling now? Was it stress from work? etc. He said yeah kind of and other things had got to him. He said it had all got a bit much lately and not a in a good frame of mind. He said he'd really like to do something soon. So I just sent an understanding text back, hope he feels better soon, be nice to meet up agian etc. At the moment I will just keep it as friendship with him. Does sound like he's going through a tough time.
 mary_jane1963
Joined: 1/10/2011
Msg: 55
Bloke seems very busy. Difficult to get to know him.
Posted: 7/7/2012 6:03:33 AM
Hate to say it, but sounds like he has someone else he is more interested in...and you are his 'back burner'.
 Mephistone
Joined: 7/3/2009
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Bloke seems very busy. Difficult to get to know him.
Posted: 7/7/2012 6:13:12 AM
Why is this thread still live? It's as obvious as tits on a fish what's going on.
 _nx_
Joined: 6/8/2012
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Posted: 7/7/2012 7:39:14 AM
^^ i agree... the bloke is busy and has limited time and whilst the op was busy making up her mind and letting him "grow on her", he took his limited time elsewhere...
 ft.Trevor
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 58
Bloke seems very busy. Difficult to get to know him.
Posted: 7/7/2012 7:39:17 AM
Quite simply he is playing you; save yourself the hassle and move on I would say.
 aus182
Joined: 5/22/2011
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Posted: 7/7/2012 8:08:14 AM
If he was genuinely interested then he'd make time to see you. Simple as that really!
 essexbob
Joined: 5/14/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2012 2:20:52 AM
sounds like your plan b or even c .
men like to sample women just as they like to getinside a car and rev it up before they buy!

choices choices
 Ahunklol
Joined: 7/10/2011
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Posted: 7/9/2012 2:51:25 PM
Sounds like he,s got a wife, If I had met you and liked you I would be wanting to meet you everopertunity I could, at l;east phone you If I couldent get to meet you, move on darling , dont wast your time
 Clam80
Joined: 2/6/2012
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Posted: 7/10/2012 3:10:52 PM
Thanks again for all your advice. Yeah I think the people who are saying move on are right. I haven't heard from him since Thursday, so I don't think I will hear from him again but if I do I will wish him good luck with finding someone and say bye to him.
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