| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:23:36 PM | Well dkd15 !!
Yes that does work on some women but not on all women!!
Some women want you to let them be them selves around you !
And some love to be treated with respect and kinda special alot so yeah learn the signs as they let you know them.
But mostly talk to them and listen to what thier saying to you.
Oh and yeah some ladies don't want you to tell them they are not thinking clearly on any thing or thier history with you !!
Best key is be your self always with the lady and if she wants you then she wants you if not forget it !!
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/29/2005 12:03:13 AM | | If you listen carefully usually you can identify the key to a womans heart within the first two or three dates, or two or three times meeting the person..whichever...you just have to find something that you can both identify with...i think that is the key, just to identify with a woman, or a man..whichever..lol.. | |
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/29/2005 10:06:00 PM | | Ryan, all this advice is fine and good AFTER you get the girl. Trust me, advice like "be yourself" and "listen to her" will do you no good in the beginning. You want a woman to want you? Ignore her. They cannot stand it. Be elusive. It drives them up a wall. If you think I am just some cynical old guy posting this, go and read some of the threads by woman complaining about men. Take note of what they are complaining about and do those things. | |
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Viper1
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 1:13:35 AM | The true key I would be making a guess but here it goes.....
Romance (spontaneous)
Understanding
commitment (and no not the white straight jacket kind)
Listening (yes to what they say)
Comunication (yes actualy talking to them even if it is about your feelings)
And of course flowers never hurt (but make sure it is her favorite flower)
Ok now that was just a guess!!!!! | |
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G.S.R.
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Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 2:20:42 AM | | There is no ONE true key....just as we are not all the same person....but eventually, by just being you, you will find a heart to that matches your key... | |
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 3:57:33 AM | Be honest, be yourself and if you REALLY like her TRY TRY again! Humour is great! If she is smiling you are right the odds are definately better....
You sound like a nice guy! I am certain when the right women comes along you will find the key to her hear without a doubt! ;-) | |
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 5:33:01 AM | Thoughtfulness.............I dated a guy who brought me a gallon of milk and a gallon of ice cream for my kids. I thought that was the sweetest jester in the world.
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 5:49:08 AM | As it turns out, I think that MOST guys want what I want when it comes to "women and dating", but they just haven't thought about it long enough to be able to say it.
I think that what 90% of men are looking for is a GREAT long-term relationship with a GREAT woman. What do I mean when I use the term "Great Woman"?
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful, who takes care of herself physically, who is
emotionally and financially stable... who doesn't "need" you, but "wants" you, who can take care of herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here. But guess what?
Women like this are VERY rare. I mean like one in a thousand or so. And they are NEVER at a loss for a date. I digress... but I'll come back to this later.
Now I want to talk about WHY it's such a big problem.
There are two main reasons:
1) Not knowing what you want, lowers the chances of GETTING what you want.
2) In this particular situation, when it comes to this type of woman, not understanding what you want makes your chances of getting one almost ZERO.
Let's talk about these two issues.
- NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT LOWERS YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING IT
If you've read any "self help" books at all, then you know that it's important to set goals in
your life. Why?
Because setting goals makes your mind work on getting them.
When you think through your goals, and take the time to figure them out, write them down, and make plans to get them, you put a set of processes in motion that dramatically increase your chance of getting what you want.
If you don't know what I'm talking about, go read "Think And Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.
Just do it.
- NOT UNDERSTANDING THIS PARTICULAR TYPE OF WOMAN MAKES YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING ONE ALMOST ZERO
This is the big issue here.
This is the one that most guys just don't get...and the one that, by itself, really leads to
failure. The fact is that most guys would really like to meet a great girl.
The times in my life when I've had an amazing woman as my girlfriend have been FANTASTIC.
There is nothing quite like having a stunning, intelligent, well-dressed, interesting woman in
your life. Nothing. To put it another way, if you meet a really interesting, exceptional woman, you can bet that she has been approached between 150 and 300 times
in the past month ALONE.
Think about that.
Imagine what it must be like to be a woman who is approached so often.
Even if she WANTED to spend time with many of the men, there would be no way to do it.
It's just not practical. So what's a girl to do?
The only thing that an exceptional girl CAN do is use TIME MANAGEMENT principals.
She has to decide almost INSTANTLY if a guy is "worth" spending more time with.
And she has to make her decision based on very little information.
AND, she can't make the mistake of being "too friendly" and giving a guy the "wrong idea"...
because if she does, he'll probably call her 100 times over the next month.
Unusually attractive, exceptional women become very good at ELIMINATING men based on very little information.
If you're a man who hasn't made it a goal to attract one of these women, who doesn't understand this particular fact, and who doesn't understand how to get past this initial "test", then your chances of attracting one of these women is as close to zero as anything is in the world.
The REALITY of this situation is that you are not the only guy in the world who wants a woman like this.
EVERY guy would like to meet her.
There are a lot of guys out there that are willing to call her more, spend more money on her, do more things for her, and pay her more attention than you...
You can't get a girl like this one by doing the "normal" things.
And here's the KICKER...
The next girl you date probably isn't going to be this girl.
In fact, you're probably going to need to go out with MANY women before you're going to run into one of these rare women.
But as they say, "Every cloud has a silver lining". And this cloud does.
The fact is that spending time dating other women is EXACTLY what will TEACH you how to
attract one of these exceptional women.
You HAVE to do it.
So let's wrap this up.
First, take some time and figure out what it is that you want. Write it down, and make a list.
What are the physical, intellectual, and emotional qualities that you're looking for?
Be specific, and get a clear picture in your mind.
Next, become the guy that she'll feel ATTRACTION for when you meet her.
There are two parts to this one.
The first part is preparing yourself to date many women to find her... and then getting out
there and doing it.
The second (and most important) part is to LEARN what you need to do in order to be the guy that she'll be attracted to. | |
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| WHAT IS THE TRUE KEY TO A WOMEN'S HEART???
Posted: 7/30/2005 10:42:28 AM | The main problem I have with Men trying to fit into an image (besides the fact that they're being fake), is that a Man will always have to jump through hoops and leap over sharks...
... Its not worth it. If a Man has to fit into the ideal image of what a Woman wants, than he should be reevaluating himself and trying to figure out what led him down the road of becoming a phony. In other words, this is a bigger problem in itself than not being able to find this ideal Woman.
Every Human Being on this Earth needs to be themselves, and if others can't accept that then they are better off without them. If not fitting an image means a person being alone, then so be it.
Its better to die one day with honor, than to live each day with shame. | |
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| What is the true key to a women's heart???
Posted: 7/30/2005 12:07:32 PM | I can't speak for all women..we are all different..I read here where someone said the key to a woman was money, a car and stuff like that..It's too bad these are the types of women you've had in your life.
The key to this woman's heart is honesty & laughter..there is nothing sexier than a man who can laugh and tease around and be silly with you and not think it's un-manly.....
I have this quote on my profile and it's one I believe in..The first step is touching her mind and getting her interest, this means you get to know her and don't make generlized assumptions due to the women in your past..EVERY woman is different and it would be a good lesson that all men, no matter their age learn this...
"Touch a womans mind-you get her interest. Touch her heart-you get her love, touch her soul-you get passion beyond your wildest dreams. Touch all three and you have found your soulmate for eternity!"
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Jorale
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Joined: 7/29/2005
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| What is the true key to a women's heart???
Posted: 7/31/2005 1:23:13 PM | | I agree 100% with you, the key to my heart is to make me laugh, sense of humor is first on my list of what a guy must have. Everything else is a bonus, but if he can't make me laugh it will never be anything more then just a friendship.as for money and stuff like that, it doesn't bother me either way, I can take care of myself so for me money isn't an object although having a job is important to me, that just shows ambition. | |
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| What is the true key to a women's heart???
Posted: 7/31/2005 4:06:12 PM | try talking to them.
ask about there feelings.
find out how they are doing
be the shoulder for them to cry on when they need it.
than your pretty well in like flint | |
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| What is the true key to a women's heart???
Posted: 7/31/2005 8:49:14 PM | | You are kidding right? If anyone follows the above advice they will be relegated to "friends" status and have zero chance of anything more with the woman. | |
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| What is the true key to a women's heart???
Posted: 8/1/2005 9:25:36 AM |
You are kidding right? If anyone follows the above advice they will be relegated to "friends" status and have zero chance of anything more with the woman.
What crock!
Crock-pot
Mmmmmmm crock pot chicken it is for dinner!
Thanks RDtoo :) | |
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