| | How do you last longer in bed???Page 2 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | cosmo says women chose 8-15 minutes of penetrative intercourse as ideal in a typical sex session.
the questions coming to mind are:
a) is that because they WISH their partner could even make it that long?
b) or is going for hours just beating the crap out of their mate's genitals and causing unnecessary stiffness and trouble walking, that anything over 15 minutes becomes overkill?
i personally believe in variety, that there are times for one-off quickies and times to draw it out and tease and repeat all night long. but the thing for me is that, i want my pleasure too. why is the guy trying to deny himself to get to the prize? definitely we don't hear of women trying to avoid or delay their orgasm, why should i delay getting my nut busted? and don't get me wrong, there is always the real possibility of round two, which inevitably goes on longer without the feelings of urgency.
my thing is, i don't want to be thinking of margaret thatcher naked on a cold day (nice reference @ poster who said it) during sex. when my 8(expletive) finds its way into a moist (|) my brain is racing with lashings of the ultrasexy. no way in hell i want to remove my mind from the act of sex, it's our most powerful sexual organ.
and to answer the OP, try the other stuff people have suggested. but my best suggestion is just ensure she is already really humming along before you even try to mount. if you don't do good amounts of foreplay and really getting into the moment, then of course she is going to be bummed when you get it in and pop off after five minutes. but if she already came thrice and is bouncing off the walls, and then you get in and bang it like crazy for as long as it takes you to thrust your way to orgasm, you can both collapse in a heap of flesh and fluids, completely satisfied.
also, for temporary relief of early onset orgasm, switch positions when you are starting to tense up. and don't use a rubber mallet, but take it out and slap it on parts of her anatomy (or with your hand) to both disrupt and desensitize yourself.
*here i wish to make a smiley of the devil grin guy* | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 6:34:35 AM |
Its a brand of bagel.. 2 a day and you will be a sex god!
Yes. TAke each bagel and stick you johnson there, move back and forth until bagel disintegrates or you reach orgasm. Repeat again with the second one. Within two weeks you will be a sex machine. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 8:27:01 AM |
The average is 2 to 5 minutes
maybe for a 17 year old!!
I haven't known a grown man that lasted under 30 minutes in a very long time........thank god!!
OP.....yes, edging and keegals are the answer to your question. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 9:09:39 AM | right before you come think of your father and mother having sex...depending on your location..(State) that mite be a turn off....If you live in Alabama this might be a turn on....lmao
masterbate in the morning....that mite help
I have no problem lasting as long as I want....I dont have to masterbate in the morning i had to learn to control when I cum. You can do it...Its all mental and control..... | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 10:08:42 AM |
..... when my 8(expletive) finds its way into a moist (|) my brain is racing with lashings of the ultrasexy. no way in hell i want to remove my mind from the act of sex, it's our most powerful sexual organ.
and to answer the OP, try the other stuff people have suggested. but my best suggestion is just ensure she is already really humming along before you even try to mount. if you don't do good amounts of foreplay and really getting into the moment, then of course she is going to be bummed when you get it in and pop off after five minutes. but if she already came thrice and is bouncing off the walls, and then you get in and bang it like crazy for as long as it takes you to thrust your way to orgasm, you can both collapse in a heap of flesh and fluids, completely satisfied.
*fans herself
OP.... It takes two people to have great sex, not one. You need a partner that makes you feel as stated in above post. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 12:50:43 PM | | OK...your getting jokes and advice,although the yardwork oen was good....look your a young kid these things happen....OK they say its mental,but I DONT buy it....so here is what you do,wear condoms,its makes the penis less sensitive so u can last bit longer.......if that doesnt work there is a desensitizing spray that you can buy,you may just be overly sensative in your ahem area...but here is the trick,only spray it on your frenulum...look that up its common for circumsized guys to have this problem...just spray that and not your whole member,because if you do you will lose sensitivity and lose your erection and thats a whole other issue you dont want to think about.but spray it only on that and go to town,you should last....third thing to try,is to masturbate before you even have sex...if you know there is a chance that you will have sex tht night,masturbate to climax before you go ut,getting off \that first time will for you to get to that point the second time around,and remeber that it take at a MINIMUM 18 minutes before you can have a full erection again...so it gives you ample time to recharge if you will...and last thing,simply masturbate until you are on the verge of climax and stop/////nd then do it over and over again,this will train your mind and your body to work together to last longer,and if it helps,think of betty white naked,or yard work,as your trying to stop.it will take time but can be achieved....an practice....the more sex u have the more repetitive it becomes,and you will get better we all do.and if you have a good gfexplain to her your delimma,and im sure she will help with whaever as you learn.hope this helps and good luck!!!! | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 2:53:54 PM |
but here is the trick,only spray it on your frenulum
and wear a condom......because that stuff will also "desensitize" the woman and she won't give a damn how long you last cause she won't feel a thing!!
and remeber that it take at a MINIMUM 18 minutes before you can have a full erection again.
LMAO.....you obviously haven't read the thread where all the men are saying they can get it up again in less than 10!!
,simply masturbate until you are on the verge of climax and stop/////nd then do it over and over again
this would be the "edging" we have all been advising him to do. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 3:01:22 PM |
How do you last longer then like five minutes.. does it have anything to do with stamina or health...
any advice??
It doesn't matter how long you last the first time.... take a short break and go at it again and again.
each time will take longer, the women will love it. why should you stop the first time? c'mon man pull an all nighter lol | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/5/2012 3:04:02 PM |
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID.. but that****that commented on this first.. thought I was trolling and he said he was going to delete me.... what a douchebag.
but anyways... thanks people
The responder can't delete you, he was referring to your thread here..being deleted as redundant. I have no idea if he thought you were a troll or not..didn't say that in his post. I think you are jumping to conclusion that isn't there.
Keegle exercises.. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 3:05:17 AM | Huh??? Last longer in bed!
I don't know what all these kegel stegels are ... I just hit the alarm clock with a baseball bat. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 7:39:55 AM | | Much more truth & credibility in an anonymous scientific study that verifies men pop their cork within 5 minutes of straight intercourse than the bogus opinions here. I assume man-boys to be inexperienced at changing things up to put off the eventuality of an orgasm & are looking for guidance, but not to be bashed for what we all know to be typical though. Men's vanity I can understand... pounds chest, Me Tarzan You Jane, tear others down to build themselves up or me big dog you little dog, but women coined the phrase "minuteman" for a reason & know better from experience though. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 8:57:48 AM |
Much more truth & credibility in an anonymous scientific study that verifies men pop their cork within 5 minutes of straight intercourse than the bogus opinions here.
Hey, if believing that makes you happier, that's great....
However, the rest of us, will continue making woman happy... | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 9:02:22 AM |
Much more truth & credibility in an anonymous scientific study that verifies men pop their cork within 5 minutes of straight intercourse than the bogus opinions here.
Scientific study? That is a joke right? Maybe for a 19 year old. I don't mean to brag dude but my problem is trying to actually HAVE the orgasm. And for many guys that can take some time, a lot of time. So I do not get it where you get this notion that 5 minutes is max. That may be your story, that may be some people's stories, but it cannot speak for the rest of the guys out there, that quite frankly have no need or interest in exaggerating or telling you that "Yeah I last 4 hours." No need for that.
Also, if you read and learn, you can either learn Kegels or simply when you are getting there, stop. You, or that study that you site might not know about what is called the dry orgasm for guys. You can have several of these ones so by the time that you are ready for the last one, it is huge. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 9:10:22 AM | I don't mean to brag dude but my problem is trying to actually HAVE the orgasm.
Brag ????
That's not a problem I would want - you can keep it !
And as for thinking of disgusting things to keep from coming is ludicrous - that's what I did when I was a teenager for cryin out loud !
You want to be able to ENJOY the experience to the max and thinking of someone's gramma naked , for example, to prevent a climax is hardly what I would put in the enjoyment category .
Again I say , EDGING - preferably with a partner, is the solution . | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 8:01:58 PM | | honesty if your having sex with no condom and the vagina is wet and tight and your not trying to prolong sex for the women pleasure it should honestly be 2-5min max.the best p***y is the type its hard not to cum quick only because you want to prolong pleasure for the female and make sure she gets off .learn how to take slow pace strokes,relax your muscles in your butt you never notice when your about to cum you tense up around the butt area,wear a condom,let off the first nut if your going to have sex later because the second one takes longer to cum,and put more time into oral sex | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/6/2012 8:23:16 PM | Think of:
Who won the batting title
Who was the last triple crown winner
mom and dad doing it
dead meat
Fishing
Hunting
Singing in the church choir
Get the idea yet? | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/7/2012 5:51:22 AM | Five minutes? Huh? really?
I will say Physical fitness and mind control.Know how to control your one ejaculation, slow down when you are about to come , Squeeze your butt and pelvic area , hold, when you are about to come to reverse the ejaculation.I can go from 30 min to an hour w/out feeling to cum or controlling my ejaculation. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/7/2012 8:32:38 AM | Some suggestions that have often worked for me
Slow your pace
Use cowgirl position
If possible have sex more often
There are have been some occasions when I lasted only 5 minutes or less because I was overly excited or because I didn't have sex in a while. But when I had sex the next day or even a few hous later, I lasted 45-60 minutes. | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/7/2012 6:43:13 PM | | Sometimes I get frustrated with how long it takes me to orgasm when I masturbate. Guess thats a good thing then, if I put my mind to it though I can 'get there' in a few minutes lol. Maby just take your mind off it? | |
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| How do you last longer in bed???
Posted: 7/8/2012 9:48:31 AM |
Think of... dead meat
WTF? I don't want to be with a guy going there in his mind during sex.
A study showing 2-5 minutes is average is believable, although unfortunate. The average penis length is also something like 3.5 inches long. Both of which only prove that somewhere out there is a man with a 1 inch c0ck that will cum on your leg before he gets it in.
Most men I've been with have lasted 10-15 minutes of actual intercourse, with another 45 minutes to an hour of foreplay. If you know you are quick, draw out the foreplay and make sure she is totally satisfied before intercourse. Or my personal favorite, cum during foreplay and then rest a minute, and then keep going. My personal experience is that orgasms get more intense as you go along. | |
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