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 Janet_Always
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 25
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You are all over the place and have a history of such drama... wow.

Stop dating, stop having sex, get some girlfriends and therapy...
 mrsforums
Joined: 6/14/2011
Msg: 26
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Struggling to cope with feelings
Posted: 7/10/2012 4:48:52 PM
Cat,

All of the issues surrounding the ending of the relationship with the man who fathered your child, and the ending of that pregnancy, must be dealt with before you pursue another relationship.

It may feel like you have a great big void from these losses that you are trying to fill by pursuing another relationship.

Unfortunately, until you take some time to heal, you are going to continue to sabotage each new relationship in the same manner as the last one with the lad who was "pretty fantastic".

Advice: take a break from dating, spend some time healing (with counselling if you are able), and look after yourself physically and mentally so that you can get back to being a healthy, positive person.

Cheers,
MrsF
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