| | how would you respond?Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) | | Hmmm...that's a tricky one. lol But ultimately I would probably be somewhat ticked off whether it was another woman OR another man. I don't care to have sex with complete strangers and that's what it would be. Sorta disrespectful if you ask me. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 12:41:26 PM | Two words... "Press... Charges!" Guess what... Non consensual sex is rape... even if you didn't know you weren't consenting to it. If someone put a blind fold on me and told me to pound them as hard as I could and I took of the blindfold to see a pig once I was done... I would consider that a forced sexual act. It would be no different in my mind if someone tricked me into getting a BJ from some gay guy.
Pressing charges at that point would probably be the best the two of them could hope for. It the great words of Stewart Griffin. "Well I guess this is the day b*tches gotta die." So yeah... Tell your friend he's sick in the head and might end up in jail or the morgue if he doesn't respect his girl's body and rights. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 1:14:22 PM | Two words... "Press... Charges!" Guess what... Non consensual sex is rape... even if you didn't know you weren't consenting to it. If someone put a blind fold on me and told me to pound them as hard as I could and I took of the blindfold to see a pig once I was done... I would consider that a forced sexual act.
Guess what, this is trickier than that the above statement. It infers you let them put the blindfold on and told you to pound them as hard as you could and then took off the blind fold to see a pig once you were done....and then state "I would consider that a forced sexual act". Again guess what you left out the point where they had a gun to your head to force you or put you into a position of where it would become a forced situation or suffer what may happen if you don't. The mere fact you let them put the blindfold on and then"told you" to pound them as hard as you could and you do, is not a forced sexual act as you could say no as it was just asked of you. If anything I see animal cruelty charges coming from it, not as a joke but the way the law works.
It would be no different in my mind if someone tricked me into getting a BJ from some gay guy.
This is the direct opposite here from your statement above, as now you are not the aggressor but the receiver. You are no longer doing any pounding that you did not have to do in the first place, you are merely on the receiving end of a horrible trick that is not funny at all, and quite possibly might just be looked at as a prank by law enforcement only because you were engaged from the beginning and a willing participant and this does not fall into the likes of hurting someone with bodily contact or brutal force providing it did not escalate to that once the blind fold was removed. This is a very tricky play on words as well as if it were really playing out and I don't think it would end as most of the posts have stated. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 1:37:04 PM | | I think you are allowed to use deadly force against sexual assault now in all states. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 1:48:21 PM |
fact you let them put the blindfold on and then"told you" to pound them as hard
"told YOU" not another person, animal or thing... told YOU...
That is the difference...
Similarily... Telling someone to shoot you with a water pistol is vastly different to shooting you with a .45 colt... | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 9:10:01 AM |
Sigmund Freud knows why he did it and how you should respond!
As a toddler he had a fantasy about his mother and wanted to murder his father (this is normal for all toddlers). Therefore as a toddler he is supposed to perceive his father as a threat and panic that his father might castrate him for wanting his mother. This panic is supposed to surpress the inappriopiate desire towards his mother and lead to bonding with the father.
I fail to see how the oedipus complex is relevant to the OP.
To the OP, I can't say for sure how I would react, I suppose I would feel a little let down because although I would have "gotten off" there is more to the sexual experience for me than that part. (to make it relevant to me, I am speaking as if I where blind folded and discovered a woman to have sucked me off since I am gay) After discovering a woman to have done the deed I would just kinda feel awkward, not because a woman got me off, but because I'd be thinking "okay.... now what do I do? And I'd probably let my partner know how awkward that made me feel. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 9:47:36 AM | lol
thats great!
would yo mind doing it again...! love this comment! lol
very cute! | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 6:54:49 PM | If a guy asked me that as a hypothetical, i would not drop him as a friend for asking. I would give the same response I gave here already...
and then I would probe a little as to why he's asking.
It could be what he's really trying to ask is if a woman didn't plan on being with a chick sexually, but circumstances made it happen, how would the woman feel (i.e. would she be bi now, date women, woould she like it, etc)
or maybe he wonders if you are open to 3somes with him and another chick.
Who knows... and again, yes, it could be that he had this happen to him.
or hell, maybe it's his fantasy to watch a woman get eaten out by another woman, blindfold or not.
I wouldn't assume my friend is evil just based on his asking the question. But if it occurred and wasn't hypothetical? yeah, that would be very very bad...definitely a type of rape. I would feel very violated. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 7:48:59 PM | this
i would consider it rape and would not want to ever see that person again. the point not being that he brought another woman onto the scene but that he brought another person in, deceived you and used you simply to fullfil their own desire. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 10:57:50 AM |
Say you are with a fella and things got kinky. He puts a blindfold on you then begins oral on you. You have the best orgasm in your life. He removes the blindfold and you find out a woman did the oral on you. What would you do?
I have had this conversation.. many times.. with my partner. I'm the only straight woman he's been involved with, the others have been bisexual.
He's teased me with the idea of seeing me with another woman, has at least one in mind too. I'm not interested in being with a woman, however.. it wouldn't be anything more than oral. I wouldn't be reciprocating, just receiving.
Because we've already talked about it, I'd be less likely to feel like he'd broken my trust... if that makes any sense at all. I trust him not to spring things on me that I wouldn't be ok with. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 11:01:49 AM | | just cant even begin to understand how anyone would not know!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 11:58:20 AM |
Anyway, how would you respond??
First of all, I think I would be in a state of shock Not sure what I would do after that but I would not call the police. That would just be too embarrassing!! However, I do know I would leave ASAP.
At least you learned something about your 'male friend'..Ha
I have never been blindfolded and now I NEVER will be...Yuk! | |
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