| | Did Him Now MIAPage 2 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | ^^^ And I was thinking it was just cynical old me seeing that.
EDIT - Darn it 'Wants to travel' - you jumped right on top of me ! My comment was in response to FlaxenBlonde. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 10:44:34 AM | hehe... sounds like she hooked up with my friend.... j/k.
but really, this kind of crap seems to happen alot. why do these women allow this type of thing to happen to them?? hmmm?? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 10:48:52 AM | I almost mentioned the bathing suit pic too!
Having a pic advertising the "goods" will only attract the type you are complaining about!!
** yes, it's me....and I'm not blond.....still silver as could be, just a lighting thing!!
Thought that was "you"! (Hugs) | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 11:11:04 AM | you obviously were a nice girl.......
christ you obviously shagged him both times, he's happy and scarpered before he had a bunny boiler on his hands.
leave it lie, enjoy the fun and dont expect relationships with cheesy opening lines like he used | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 11:17:42 AM |
Let's make it memorable. :)
Was it? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 11:27:34 AM | | WTF? I continued to be blown away by people. Who knows what that dweebs issue was. Maybe married, maybe stupid, maybe he thinks he's a player (he's not). You hadn't dated in years and I'll bet that it was pretty nice while it lasted. Learn from the experience and go forward a little wiser. All of the responses that you have received so far are good one's, but definately run like hell if a guy tells you he loves you soon after meeting him. | |
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Law212
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Posted: 7/11/2012 11:59:17 AM | WEll I guess thats a lesson for you.
The guy pressured you because he wanted to get in as soon as possible with the least amount of effort and or money spent . Once he did, he was over it and is looking for someone else to add to his list.
As for pictures. When I see women post pictures with lots of skin, it makes me think that that woman doesnt feel she has much to offer other than a good body, and that should more than make up for how boring she is. Unfortunately, guys who want a serious relationship want to be able to have have and feel connected to the person they are with even after the sex is over | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:10:55 PM | | Whats there to figure out? He obviously lied and you believed him. Next time maybe dont expect such a fairy tale. Best of luck. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:20:33 PM | | I think this is the type of guy that lurks around hoping to get lucky. He is always hiding his true intentions and makes it harder for men to find the right woman. Finding the right woman is about making a connection and taking a chance. If a woman is now unwilling to trust a man because she was lied too, we all lost something. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:21:51 PM | Just from the look of your profile pic i must say.
his loss **** him. Hes obviously a fool | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 12:40:02 PM | | I've known guys that use these lines. Really weird the way they lay it on, but I'm always amazed that most of the time it works. The one guy I know could spot women that might be receptive to the approach from a mile away. He was right about 75% of the time. He would use the approach on multiple women in a day. We would joke to him about how many women he proposed to on any given day. Then he'd vanish after hitting it...off to the next one. And once a month he'd be getting another STD test. He was always like, 'you catch a few here and there, but everything he'd caught was curable'. | |
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| Did Him Now MIA
Posted: 7/11/2012 1:01:49 PM |
What are typical red flags I should look for.
Well, to be quite honest...your pics are a red flag to men right there! Only two pics and they are of you in a bikini and a horribly ugly bathing suit showing all you apparently have to offer. He played you, simple as that. He got what he wanted. And you let it happen. Think of it as a lesson learned, you don't sleep with someone before you know them well enough to know if they are full of s*** or not. Try to get some different pics up, it's quite alright to be sexy...but keep it classy. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 1:35:23 PM |
well, if she would have been a very, very naive, young girl, I would say
ok, he was a jerk, and used her
but a 40 some year old woman!!?
she had sex with him, because she wanted to!
she had a one night stand....
now she is complaining!!!!
it is just this type of, 'victim' attitude that really just need to go.....
everybody seems to be cashing in on this
what ever happened to common sense, responsibility
and good and bad behavior!.
I agree with want to travel..
She has no one to blame about herself. Things are as they always have been in the dating world. | |
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| Did Him Now MIA
Posted: 7/11/2012 1:39:25 PM | | You're 43, not 23. Really? You had what's called a one night stand. There will be no love or marriage. Sorry to disappoint you. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 1:42:51 PM | Can't be you -- he is obviously a serial dater (joke).
He could have been lying.
He could have become infatuated quickly, and changed his mind just as quickly.
Point is not: Why he acted as he did.
Point is also not: How could you not know better?
Point is: What did you learn from this, and how will you use what you learned, going forward? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 2:02:36 PM | I dont get it...you are in law enforcement, so must kmow a thing or two about the big bad world....yet, you don't drive so that confuses me.
As other have said, your pictures are suggestive. Yet your profile reads for long term. So see the confusion here right?
You and I are the same age, same area (sorta) and I was married forever too.....we likely receive messages from the same people as well. Just know that things have changed out there since you last were in the pond. Don't fall for the lame lines that are thrown at you. Do only what you feel is right for you. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 3:06:35 PM | No lie! Totally honest her. I didn't know what to think.
Yeah, he was very good-looking & the impression of a lot of $ was there. I was had.
He finally sent me a message today telling me he got back with his ex-wife. Because they have a history.
I'm sorry too-for being so trusting!
Thanks for your sympathy. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 3:07:31 PM | | Oh yeah-being dumped for his ex-wife is something I won't forget! Thanks for reminding me of my poor choice of words. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 3:34:38 PM | | Sweetie you are certainly a nice person and attractive too.... the pics you post are really like raw meat to a hungry lion in the jungle.... lots of crazed men and mental cases will flock to you... a man of true character will seek out your character first and flesh second | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 4:12:49 PM | A man of true character will seek out your character first and flesh secound
But
A true character of man, will seek your flesh first, man is a natural hunter and if you put meat in front of a lion will the lion eat? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 6:57:48 PM |
Yeah, he was very good-looking & the impression of a lot of $ was there. I was had.
HUH?? All a guy has to do is give the impression he has $ and you are had???
Well that speaks volumes about YOU!
sheesh.......no wonder men have bad views of women...... | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 8:10:08 PM | | Hope I don't get much heat for this but I will be honest. I used the same exact lines on a girl a few weeks ago and BINGO! Then I started to fall for her....Strange enough she broke it off a few days ago. Maybe we were both playing each other?? Who knows. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2012 8:13:24 PM | So what? You had sex with a hot guy. Boo hoo
You probably had a gut feeling he was talking shit but went with it anyway- you're making a huge deal out of nothing. Just admit to yourself he was a wierdo but he was a just a goodlooking wierdo, and goodlooking wierdos are for a good time not a long time unless you like drama. Be greatful he didn't respond to your texts lol! | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 12:32:22 AM | | He is an expert he knows that the word marriage has a magic effect on women and he is using it on all his first dates. I am surprised he took you to his place. May be he was moving. Any way you lost nothing unless you spread your legs wide. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 4:27:37 AM | Yeah, he was very good-looking & the impression of a lot of $ was there. I was had.
And there's the actual truth.
If you market your availability based on their bank balance alone, you'll be treated like a transaction. | |
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