| | What would you do?Page 2 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | Good Lord. This ex of yours has a hide. "Willing to come back if (you) put his name on your house." Wow, incredible. What a user!!! I'm so glad you refused his "kind" offer. Yes, it's very odd, very off. Have nothing more to do with him. Absolutely nothing. Don't even talk with him again. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 8:18:51 PM | What seems odd to me is you posting about it... you obviously say you don't want him back, so there's no question really.
What is your motivation for discussing this here when you're not looking for answers? | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 8:27:05 PM | If this is your ex-husband and/or the father of your kids, I would tell him absolutely not, and in the future he may only contact you about matters concerning the kids.
If he isn't, I would tell him to not contact you again, period. ( and I wonder why you would have any contact with him to begin with.)
Don't put the name of someone to whom you're not married on the deed to your house. That way lies no end of trouble for you when (not if) you want to take him off and don't have the force of a divorce decree behind it. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2012 12:18:06 PM | | Go for it. What's the worst that could happen!?! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 2:49:09 PM | Ugh even if you were still interested what are you a doormat? hopefully this will be a great reminder of why he is your ex.
Request?!! PAleeazze sounds like a scrub | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 5:07:58 PM | You don't know it's a ridiculous request? You really need strangers to tell you this?
But I know, some women would do this and then act all surprised when they lose their home. I had an uncle who conned at least 4 women (that we know of) out of all of their savings, their home, their car, their credit, everything he could get his hands on. Not only were they that desperate to have him around (and no he was not at all good looking and not at all a great charmer to be around, there was nothing about him that should have lured them in) but they even took turns taking him back. The only thing that stopped him from ripping off silly women was that he died. He even conned my dad out of money saying he had MS and needed medical care, he then bought a motorcycle with the money. But he only screwed my dad over once. no taking him back into the fold.
My point is, there are people out there who would steal everything they can, feel nothing is wrong with what they are doing, and even come back for more. I think we all know people like this exist, what I don't get is why anyone would fall for it. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 5:30:32 PM | | Are you going to put his name on your bank account too when he asks? | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 7:24:03 PM | | I don't understand the purpose of this post either. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 8:15:30 PM | There must be more to this then you're telling. Is there some reason he feels you need him back? Are there children involved? Do you owe him something? Is there some other family related reason?
Or, is this for HIM to read (all the responses refer to the stupidity of the situation). Did you intend to post this to get the responses you must have known you'd get, only to show him the general consensus after having told him so yourself?
If you posted it out of sincerity, then I hope you read all the responses carefully. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 8:21:47 PM | Be very careful and never do this. I brought this house of a lady many yrs ago - who in april had signed half over to her younger partner ( apparently together for some yrs ) and by early sept it was on the market as he wanted his half the equity in it when they broke up. Coincidence? I personally doubt it.
Please be very careful anyone put in this situation. Although now in australia a defacto would get half the equity anyway, after a very short period of time. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 10:48:19 PM | | oh boy that just screams "I want to use you" to me... | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 10:59:23 PM |
So my x texted me the other night and said that he was willing to come back if I would put his name on my house.
That's the ballsiest thing I've ever heard!
Psycho maneuver, for sure, but one has to admire the epic scale of the event. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 11:39:49 PM | | Surely you wouldn't consider putting his name on your home, not a very good idea I would think. Sounds like he needs some collateral. And you mentioned he would be willing to come back, which leads me to believe he left you. So..... | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 4:48:01 AM | | This guy is a moron, does he think your stupid. Tell him to fork over 1/2 the value of the realeaste.... then kick him to the curb | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 6:35:19 AM | Personally I would be at the bank already signing his name to the deed.
Is this an odd request?
Dear girl, of course not. It's completely normal.
It actually ensures a heathy relationship.
So I advise, do it.
Just get down there as soon as possible, sign those documents and the screw his brains out.
I mean after that, he'd be your sex toy for life.
I say thats a good payoff :p | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 7:02:21 AM |
What would you do?
Drink. And I don't mean the good stuff. This would be the time to hit the nastiest bottle ya got hidden in the cupboard. And make sure ya finish the whole thing!!!! After that, if ya still got any unanswered questions, I'd then hit the good stuff. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 4:14:16 PM | | he doesnt have a home.. He currently lives in a hotel in Texas. I didnt ask because I needed direction or an answer .. I just put it out there because I totally can not understand that selfish request of his. I already knew the answer.. I was just in aww that he'd ask that.. and yes it was done through a text message. This is the same guy that though I should pay more bills then him because I sometimes got child support .. Seriously? | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 4:15:02 PM | | This guy is not the father of my children. Just an x of 3 years... | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 4:18:48 PM | | I would spend zero time thinking about this. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 4:28:53 PM | This guy is not the father of my children. Just an x of 3 years...
^^
You spent three years with the ex who asked you to put his name on your house... for security reasons?
Three years?
You learned your lessson...... right? | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 5:07:22 PM | | There are good guys out there. I think we can safely say that this fellow is not one of them. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2012 5:22:30 PM | OP,
He is an ex..for a reason.
My gut tells me he has something brewing, and you are a vehicle for whatever it is that he is cooking up.
Again..he is an EX for a reason...leave it at that, move on..why are you even talking to him? | |
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