| | We broke up and he threatened to report me stealingPage 2 of 2 (1, 2) | ^^^^I don't get the impression that the man is a psycho.
I do think that the OP thrives on drama,
and is a 'bunny' short of being in a sequel to fatal attraction.
The advice to return the car to the nearest police station is good advice.
I called his ex wife and to find out the truth yesterday. she yelled at me saying I scared her 10 year old son who was beside her when i called. It was intense on the phone.
Is the next topic by the OP going to be "My EX got a restraining order against me"? | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 2:55:29 PM | if I can return his car on Monday. He said "are you going to make me report it stolen?"
What's new? Your other thread claims he has called the cops on you at least 10 times! 
he is already divorced 2 years.
It's difficult after 4 years, I'm sure you guys know that.
Well, at least you had four years of bliss - two of them, he was even divorced! 
I was upset and I called his ex wife and to find out the truth yesterday. she yelled at me saying I scared her 10 year old son
O.K. Now you have squelched any semblance of sanity. Calling his wife is out of control. You sound crazy. I hope you get out of this mess before you do land in jail! | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 3:47:43 PM |
What could I have done differently to make the result different?
By not getting back together with him. You broke up the first time for a reason, remember?
For God's sake, bring his car to him, and get this nut completely out of your life forever. Load up any of his stuff that you have in the car, too. He wants to be with his ex-wife, anyway, so let him.
And don't date again until your picker is fixed. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 3:59:05 PM | | how many times do guys break up? the word unhealthy comes to mind,,, perhaps he needs his house because you break up so often?? and i know for a fact that while my ex was using my house and my shower rather than his own it was because he was also using my bed,, if you keep breaking up then why would he leave his stuff at your place and cant you just rent a car? sounds to me like your trying to hold onto someone you have already lost... | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 4:18:48 PM | O.K.....somebody should tell you so I guess it's me:
Return his car to him...it belongs to him - not you. Drive your own vehicle.
He has a family: Wife and Kids....WHY are you calling them and pestering them. He enjoys being with them. He enjoys his family time and they are never going to go away from him. THEY ARE A FAMILY! They will ALWAYS be in his life. Get it a clue! I have never "dated" a man with a wife and kids....it's a dead-end street to NO where because they will ALWAYS be in his life (in some capacity) and personally I don't like to share ANY man so I never pick people with "baggage"....I have ZERO baggage and that's the way I like it!!!
You are single with no kids. Why don't you get a single man with no kids? THIS is the question everyone should be asking!~
Now, go check out profiles of SINGLE men with no kids and your troubles are over. 
BTW: Of COURSE he is still having "personal" contact with his wife (just because they have a piece of paper saying they are LEGALLY not married, trust me, they still are "emotionally" together and always will be). Leave them alone, puhlez!!!!!! GET A SINGLE MAN WITH NO KIDS and get real!! | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 4:57:55 PM | Are you making this all up or is your life that ridiculous? Neither makes you sound good, do you love the drama or making up stories, both for attention? Or are you saying that you and his ex-wife are fighting over this loser because neither of you can do better? What is it, the need to troll and get negative attention or so hard up that you would fight for the loser with his ex-wife?
Get your own car, make sure you get all of your stuff so there won't be posts about how you can't get you things from him or his wife or his kids and stop scaring children! LOL Gawd, what a huge load of BS you spin. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 5:21:00 PM | The self satisfaction of the unencumbered disturbs. If you had to work Friday evening, drive 5 kids to dance, transfer 2 kids for a 2nd party, wait for someone at an eye appointment, do the groceries, and the mail, and hit back to do a 2nd shopping for relatives, and that was a light afternoon-- would you be okay with someone taking the car for a joyride 100 miles away, after they pissed off the chick that was raising the rugrats at a discount?
It isn't easy to be single; I hated it- having no responsibilities and zero draws on my time is not fun - but now on the other side I find it alarming that people imagine its okay to mess with a fragile support structure simply out of spite.
OP- dating does not require you to be disruptive. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 7:06:41 PM | Are you serious?! I posted on another one of your posts and explained to you VERY clearly that this man is still involved with his ex. The answer to your question about what you could have done differently is NOTHING. He doesn't want to be with you. You can force him. You fell hook, line, and sinker for his lies and now I love how you go
contact(Plz don't question this as I know for the fact) . The reality is you don't know for a fact. The only fact here that is obvious is how much this guy doesn't want to be with you and how obsessed you are with making him want that. I get it's hard...but gain some self respect and get yourself out of this situation! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 7:38:24 PM | | This relationship sounds really screwed up to me, as does this man. Why do you put up with him? Let me get this straight.. he lives with his ex-wife and kids in a house he owns. He also owns or rents an apartment for him alone. He is dating you and seems to live at your house as well half the time, where he also used to live before he moved to his house. The whole thing sounds like a huge mess. I wouldn't put up with a man dating me but living with his ex-wife, even if his kids were there. Couldn't he invite the kids over to his apartment? Why the need for him to have basically three dwellings? He just wants his cake and to eat it too - he's basically living three separate lives - one in which he's in a relationship with you, another in which he's acting like he's still married, and another in which he has his own apartment like a single bachelor! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2012 9:04:05 PM | am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Profession sales Do you have children? No
Do you have a car? Yes Longest Relationship Over 1 year
You have a active profile on a dating site, seeking a man for long term.
It claims the longest relationship is over one year.
Sorry, this is either psycotic or a active troll, as the same things are stated 2 years ago ( been with him 3 years etc ) In older posts.
Gees, seriously. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/14/2012 11:19:06 PM |
I don't get the impression that the man is a psycho.
I do think that the OP thrives on drama,
and is a 'bunny' short of being in a sequel to fatal attraction.
I got that impression from her first thread carried it over and validated it in her second thread and wasn't expecting any different when I saw this one. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 12:05:17 AM | | Well whatever he is, he sure has her hooked in with lies and manipulation, and the line is getting all twisted up in knots, she doesn't even know what is real or not anymore. Hopefully these forum threads are helping her realize, he is not who she thinks he is. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 1:16:45 AM | | I read all your posts about his guy and I mean this advice in all seriousness. Get a big heavy book and smash yourself in the face with it, keep doing it until it hurts. When it hurts something in your brain is going to tell you to stop. Continuing in a relationship with this guy is like continuing to smash yourself in the face with a book long after you've decided it hurts. What in the world are you getting out of this relationship? Every person deserves better, whether you think you do or not. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 1:41:29 AM | | So you broke up with him but think it is unreasonable for him to expect you to return his car? I don't get it. You should have returned the car first. Just bring him back his car. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 4:51:46 AM |
This isn't the first post about this guy, from you.
I had to read the history of the OP's postings when I saw this.
However, it coincides with her recent discovery that she is in a toxic relationship...and is seeking opinions.
And..OP..it takes two to be in any type of a relationship.
Here is my opinion, and you get what you pay for.
You are part of the problem with this and any other relationship.
How many times do you have to have the police involved in your private matters, before you get the idea..you are part of the problem? You honestly are part of this problem.
Your actions, willfully or not, suggest that you like to argue and carry on.
You need to work on yourself as well as break off this relationship. And when you do break off this relationship, which you really need to do..do NOT date until you get professional help with your demeanor and how you act in a relationship. | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 6:29:06 AM |
Since my car is in another state right now and he was letting me borrow his car for the past 3 days. When we broke up this morning he asked me to return his car immediately. I asked him since I'm kinda far from him today if I can return his car on Monday. He said "are you going to make me report it stolen?" I told him I'm far right now then he said if he doesn't get it by 5pm today he is going to report it stolen.
This guy has been a jerk to you and you REALLY expected him to play nice AFTER you "broke up" with him.
Broke up in quotes because you WILL go back to this jerk
What could I have done differently to make the result different?
You could have NEVER dealt with him in the first place. How many times you going to write-in about this loser before you FINALLY wake up and realise he is a douche????
I'm REALLY not getting what you see in this guy.
I'm going to have to cancel my plan and drive 3 hours back to return the car to him today, I'm just very disappointed.
Life is hard. Harder if you're stupid. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 8:03:00 AM | I do not go on the forums a lot, but man did i come to the wrong post.
Shes such a drama queen.
Questions to ask yourself:
#1: Are u smart enough to know to not ever get involved with married ppl, period? *shakes magic 8 ball* Try again later
#2: Are u a dumb b*tch for sticking around and crying about it later because things didnt work out your way? *shakes 8 ball* Yep.
But hey, atleast My beds smarter then u. Atleast it doesnt sleep around. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 8:04:21 AM | To sum up, when we are good he is the best bf you can ask for
Let's see:
He wants to watch another man screw you.
He thinks you should get a sperm donor because he's done having kids, but you want to have his baby.
He has called the cops on you "at least ten times" when you have had arguments.
He is "bi-curious" and wants to have a 3-way.
He never showers at the apartment you share.
He keeps his clothes at his "ex-" wife's place (their former home).
You call her and get into intense fights.
He threatens to call the cops when you fail to bring back the car he loaned you.
Yeah. Sounds idyllic to me. I can see why you miss him! | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 8:38:11 AM | Ashleyfor2.....You need help...seriously you do!
This is the 4th or 5th thread you have posted over a week or two concerning this guy, and each thread changes.
Poster's LOOK AT HER HISTORY!
Even in this thread you say you broke up 4 months ago and then say 'you broke up this morning'???
Can you not understand that he want's his family over you?
How dare you call his ex wife.
Give him back his car then book yourself into to see a professional who deals with Drama Queen's.
This is worse than a soap opera.
What could I have done differently to make the result different ...
1. Left him when he suggested you have se* with someone else with someone else looking on.
2. Left him when he suggested you find a sperm donor when you wanted a child with him.
3. Left him when he frequented his ex wife's home.
4. Left him when he said he's going on a weekend trip with his ex.
You love him...He doesn't love you, but you don't seem to get that.
Looking forward to the next thread from you in a day or so....."He's gay and pregnant, but I still want to be with him" | |
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| We broke up and he threatened to report me stealing
Posted: 7/15/2012 9:19:09 AM | IF any of this is true, (frankly, I'm concerned that it's just a load of attention seeking sh*t), you need to walk away and leave this guy alone. If things haven't changed in the however long you've been together (I can't keep track, it changes with every new thread), they aren't going to change now, tomorrow, next week, or ever.
After you give him back his car, find a PhD psychologist and get help for your co-dependency issues, as well as some potential borderline personality disorder or bi-polar. These things are very easy to see for the psychology student (me), but the depth to which these problems run, I doubt anyone but a PhD is equipped to deal with your psychosis.
IF none of this is true (which is my gut instinct), you need to seek out mental health help for pathological lying, possible borderline personality disorder or bi-polar.
Please, grow up and get some mental health help. | |
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