| | Non-virgin sexual camels Page 2 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | Wow, learned something new. Guess I'm one of those camels too and that is by choice. The drive is there but not willing to settle for just any f*ck. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2012 7:40:59 PM | I guess I'm a camel now. It's been about a year for me, which happens to be the last time I was in a relationship. I have no shame in it, and it has nothing to do with a lack of sex drive or options. But now that I'm getting older, I'd rather be in a real relationship instead of focusing on getting laid.
I've had a few of my friends basically give me the option of doing whatever I wanted to do to them with no strings and I just can't do that anymore like I could when I was younger. And I've had pof dates where I know I could have gotten some had I stuck it out for another date or two, but I'm not the kind of guy to lead a girl on.
But I'm content in waiting for a real relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2012 8:05:23 PM | I don't know about the camel thing,
as this sounds more like a general strike.
:-P | |
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Posted: 7/17/2012 8:18:40 PM | I have gone a few moderately long periods without sex...
The key is to make up for the lost time when you have a good partner.
In answer to your question, my celibacy was by choice (I think). I am pretty sure I could have gotten laid if I had wanted to, but I can't say for certain because I never went out hunting. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2012 10:01:19 PM | It has always been a stupid assumption that folks who are sexually inactive by choice must have a low sex drive, or something else is wrong.
Two enthusiastic thumbs up. There's a lot to be said about self control.
Edit: Oh, oh... I like these too:
The drive is there but not willing to settle for just any f*ck. Dittoes here...my drive is REALLY strong, but not stronger than my selectiveness. Gone are the days of the ONS - I want to be able to have a conversation with the guy - and "respect him in the morning". LOL. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 1:43:43 AM | | So nobody with a low sex drive is a sexual camel? That's not a possibility? Otherwise, I can't say I grasp the other sides argument here. I protest. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 3:32:29 AM | | Geez folks, judging by this thread is there any sex going on in the world? Somebody must be having sex, the worlds population continues to expand, just not any of us. @ 61, I must admit my desire to have sex has diminished a bit. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 5:07:36 AM | The only time I can remember feeling like a camel was during the last few years of my 18-year marriage...
Once I was divorced, I realized I hadn't lost interest in sex at all.
So, I don't think someone who chooses to refrain has less drive... more like less opportunity or motivation/inspiration. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 5:29:58 AM | | I do agree that with women, it's less likely to be low sex drive. Many different factors with them. Now with men, particularly those in their 20's and 30's, I think it's far more likely that there is some lack of "something" that prevents them from having the desire to put forth the effort to get laid. Could be low testosterone or some such thing. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:14:05 AM | I'm a 'sexual hippo.'
Hippos are awesome.
Don't know how much sex that rakes in though.
Maybe I should switch to 'sexual bunny rabbit', they seem pretty horney.
I'm definatly not a camel..I don't go years and years..but maybe months and months I can do ...
So now on I call myself the 'sexual bunny rabbit hippo' :)
Translation = awesome and horny...LOL...ok, nevermind...
Exit stage left... <----------- | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 12:46:58 PM | Some people just like to select who they get intimate with
the whole "Im hot your hot lets go!" doesnt always work for everyone, people are different. It mostly has nothing to do with sex drive and that goes for men and women.
I really cant stand when people try to catagorize things and put everything they dont understand into that one damn catagory ugh!
Not everyone in this world thinks, looks, or acts like you so it can be possible.
There are women and men who choose to only get intimate with someone that they can connect with on a more deeper and spiritual level.
I am one of the mofos
Those who arent spiritual wont understand...
I dont understand why someone elses sex life is any of your busness anyway especially if your gettin some but to each his own :) | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 1:42:28 PM | I guess I'm a camel.
Moo.
Nothing else to say really.
I won't lay with anybody, but the one I lay with better have endurance... | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 4:35:37 PM | | With some.....the heart, soul and sex are all interconnected. Last night a friend of mine, visiting from out of state offered me sex knowing that I am single, his intentions were good and it didn't offend me one bit. Actually I took it as care and concern for my well being and hormone balancing lol. I explained I'm wired differently and can't separate sex from feeling a deep connection with someone and that needs to happen when love is in the air not just lust. He thinks it's religious childhood programming that inhibits me, but he's wrong, it's hard wiring due to a different sensitivity level than he experiences. Most people won't understand that unless they too have a deeper sensitivity. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 5:02:25 PM | | Age 27 here partially voluntary sexual camel. I say partially because were a woman that interested me to come along I would be all over it there just don't seem to be any of them out there. It might partially be due to the fact that talking about television, football, and just about anything gossipy that typical non-geeks talk about is an immediate turn off to me. I want a relationship but I'm not going to torture myself with hours of chatter about nothing that interests me just to satisfy my carnal needs. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 7:33:20 PM | op, what a good post that generated a lot of good responses.
sexual camels..sheesh. well, i agree with a lot of the other camels that i definitely don't have a low sex drive.
i believe i do self control. i consciously choose to. i've turned down a few "opportunities" recently because i knew it wouldn't be right for me.
in order to be having sex one needs to be in relationship (of some kind) at least, i will need to be in one.
and i (we?) wouldn't be here if i were in a relationship.
that's how i feel at this point in my life anyhow. so how i think of "these types of people" is that..i understand.
camels unite ;) | |
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Posted: 7/20/2012 10:04:07 PM | Sex isn't necessarily very easy to get for everyone.
In my case, it's sort of by choice, but not really. I mean, if I really wanted to have sex, I could act interested in some girl that I'm not really into, just for the sex, but I am not really into exploiting women, so it's not something I could see myself doing. That's basically the only way for me to have sex 99% of the time. So, if you like, it's by choice, but if you don't consider being immoral a choice, then, no, it's not by choice. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 9:48:23 PM | | I never knew there was a name for it...I am a sexual camel...It has been 3 1/2 years, I was in school and working and raising my son and I am still raising him...now things have happened in my life (Car accident, new car payment) and I am going back to school in August...I will tell you this my sex drive has increased over the last few months and I have no idea where it is coming from. LOL | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 10:34:55 PM | I second your statements Cap'n.
As for me, I'm a bactrian camel: two humps for two long waiting periods.
BTW, camels don't moo. I think they bray more like donkeys. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2012 8:22:41 AM | | I've known people like that. It has to do with their personality rather than sex drive. They just do not care for social interaction. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2012 9:27:00 AM |
I second your statements Cap'n.
As for me, I'm a bactrian camel: two humps for two long waiting periods.
BTW, camels don't moo. I think they bray more like donkeys.
I know. But I've always been considered an original (politically correct term for nutz)  | |
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Posted: 7/23/2012 9:28:54 AM | Camel Club
I was part of that sad pathetic lonely club. 7 long years waiting for some one to come and resuce me. NOTHING. Being part of that club is like being in an anorexia club. I am sorry me and the bird have done our last masturbation dance. And NOT that piece of plastic does not come near to satisfying my need. MUCH like looking at plastic fruit will replace the real thing. I respect that I am a big girl with big girl needs and walking in the desert and straving yourself is NOTHING nuns take pride in.
And how does self respect and sex connect outside of the socially bull women have been indoctrinated with their whole live??? We are putting moral limits on women's sexuality based on social ideas. AFTER 7 years I do not feel more respect. PERSONALLY I would have had better results if I had gone without food that long. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2012 9:58:11 AM |
We are putting moral limits on women's sexuality based on social ideas. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't make decisions based on what society expects. I do what feels right for me.
Speaking strictly for myself, I would vastly prefer a 'piece of plastic' to either being used or using someone else as some sort of masturbatory tool. Sex for mere physical release is completely lost on me, I know how to do that pretty well all on my own after all.
It's the soul connection I'm after. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2012 11:53:13 AM |
These types either tend to be very selective (and thus perhaps more evolved than your normal breeder) or have a very low sex drive.
I think a lot of sexual camels will cry out it's not a low sex drive. Most people don't know they have a low sex drive because "hey, I'll get off once in a while, it's not like I don't have sexual thoughts. I'm just selective! (thumb pointed to chest)". It makes many feel like less of a man or woman if they have too low of a sex drive, and again, many won't know it because it doesn't go low overnight.
- Sex Drive (if it's high, yes, they will have non-relationship sex if they're single for a decent amount of time)
- Issues/Concerns with non-relationship sex (doesn't mean one-night stand; just means not in a relationship or at least a decent possibility there won't be one in the future)
- Social Skills (in the outgoing manner; not tied to pen paling online)
- Options (are there people more or less in their league available around them?) | |
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