| | in need of some serious advice...Page 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | He is rebounding and he's putting out feelers to see where he can get some play. He isn't concerned about destroying your friendship because he is in a selfish phase. You really do seem like you know what's up. It's probably time to walk away and let him go through this rebound phase. If your friendship is meant to be, it will reconnect at the right time. If he was really never a friend, it won't. The other option could be, although I am not a fan, is to ask him, "What do you expect to gain by having sex with me?" Still, I would just walk away for now. | |
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| in need of some serious advice...
Posted: 7/21/2012 9:14:09 PM | | Dismissed!!!! He is not worth your time. He is disrespecting your friendship, therefore you have none. He is beneath you anyway. | |
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| What Kayliecat sez!
Posted: 7/21/2012 9:41:54 PM | This guy wants to F you. And that's probably it. You've been friends for a while. You're in HIS friend zone. He's in yours. You'd like more, perhaps. He's testing. He's horny. My guess is you are not the only female he is trying to get with.
If you find all of his sexual talk and innuendo offensive, what makes you want to have sex and/or a relationship with a guy that doesn't respect your feelings. He won't talk to you unless it's about sex?? HELLLOOOO!!
Listen to your gut instinct....and go with it. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck; It's a DUCK!!
Friends don't treat friends like that. | |
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| in need of some serious advice...
Posted: 7/21/2012 10:19:21 PM | | I could not handle that kind of crap from a friend of 7 years. I would straight up tell him "Please, if you don't have anything other than sexual things to talk about me with then please do not talk to me until you can have a normal non-sexual conversation with me. I value our friendship more than talking about just sex." | |
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| in need of some serious advice...
Posted: 7/22/2012 7:46:34 PM |
How exactly would you categorize someone like this...?
Why the need to categorize him?
He's been a close friend for 7 years and it would suck to lose him as a friend.
Has he been an idiotic jerk all this time? Why would it suck to lose him? He's acting like a total azz.
What can I do?
Tell him you don't like it and it's got to stop. If it doesn't, then dump him. Sometimes we have to dump friends just like we have to dump boyfriends. Who wants a friend like that? | |
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| in need of some serious advice...
Posted: 7/23/2012 11:32:45 PM | | What is important to you his friendship or trying to make it a go. If you sleep with him and he meets other girls then that would be hard for you. Go out in public with him and see how he acts around other lady's. There you will know. | |
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| in need of some serious advice...
Posted: 7/24/2012 5:44:08 AM | | People want what they can't have. You created a "can't have" situation, so "getting you" is the one thing prioritized in his mind at the moment. That's why it's often much easier for (many) men to have female friends in which they either aren't attracted to them in the slightest, or that they already had a physical relationship with. It takes away the part of the relationship that triggers the "go getter" part of instinct. | |
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| in ne
Posted: 7/24/2012 4:07:55 PM | | Everyone seemed to be hating on this dude above.... He is trying to move on. I do the same. I don't believe in rebound. You have to replace emotional bad thoughts with good ones...it is a fact. He wants to take your friendship to the next level....that is between you two. | |
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| in ne
Posted: 7/29/2012 12:17:58 AM | Update:
I told him I'm not down for that.
Haven't heard from him all week since I first posted on this thread.
last one of my friends told me He went to an ex girlfriend of his who He dated before this one.
So the bridge is basically burned | |
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