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 Author Thread: "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive"
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 101
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 7:32:39 PM
Darn king, YOU don't have to beg, but I'll let ya do all stuff anyway, okay?
 Skylar1Again

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 102
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 7:34:57 PM
Skylar...I find you disturbingly..and alarmingly attractive

Disturbed and alarmed, eh?.......Welcome to my mind.
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 103
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 7:54:47 PM
Ahhh Bucks...you are not supposed to let me off easy....how am I supposed to practice persistence when you ladies give in to me so easily...


Skylar-I am a multidimensional madman......not the kind of mind many people find attactive.....
 Hambone352

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 104
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:19:00 PM
I am a legend in my own mind, and to the fans that are the voices in my head
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 105
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 8:26:01 PM
king Ahh...you misread me, love. I said you don't HAVE to beg, I didn't say I wouldn't enjoy it...hahaha and I will let you service me in many ways. I think I could fall in love with a man that would mow my lawn and wash my car, shampoo my hair and rub me head to toe is a nice herbal lotion. You would have to do all those things persistently and with much dedication. I don't let ANYONE off easily...hahaha
 EdmJewel

Joined: 8/1/2005
Msg: 106
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/8/2005 9:48:51 PM
Don't take it personally...and what's the use in arguing, then you make the other person think you're completely off your rocker!! LOL
 POF123

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 107
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/9/2005 1:37:08 AM
no matter how good looking u r there will ALWAYS be someone out there who does not think that u r good looking. The point is that u cant please every1. Some will find u attractive and some wont...deal with it
 astrosky

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 108
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/9/2005 11:30:55 AM
Hey Hambone - nice new pics! I think you're on the right track here.

OT - Attraction is in the eye of the beholder, and someone will find you attractive while someone else will not. Its a numbers game, keep trying.
 fellfromheaven

Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 109
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/9/2005 11:35:43 AM
Not everyone is going to find any one particular person attractive.I dont care how hot they are..Everyone has their likes and dislikes...I think personality can carry a person a long way in the attractiveness department at least with me.
 Mrslucci

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 110
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 8/9/2005 11:59:05 AM
We all can't be beautiful,leave that to the movie stars ,they pay to look that good.We are mostly just average looking at best.To some we r the most beautiful creature ever,to others we are dog vomit.

I think my bf is gorgeous,inside and out.He thinks i'm pretty.Love can be blind,thank gawd.

I see some very beautiful women on here,,,bucsgirl,blastkist,to just name a couple.NO,I"M NOT LES OR BI.(Not that there is anything wrong with that).They are outwardly beautiful and inwardly gorgeous.

As for men,my guy is the hottest one here .But i'm not daft to notice others qualities.Hungry hippo is a fave of mine,his smile is breathtaking and his humor is stellar .Guitarman is cute but hmm don't hunt.

It's all in the eye of the beholder
 MikeTtoki

Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 111
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 11:28:18 AM
Goog point Harley..we can't deny looks do influence us...but it's how caught up we get in them that matters.
 Marilynized

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 112
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 11:35:13 AM
No - why would i do that? If someone does not think i'm attractive they are moronic - I wouldn't waste my time arguing with someone who obviously does not have a lick of sense.... LOL!!!!!!
Nahhh - I jest - different strokes for different folks...
 Belly Drummer Girl

Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 113
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 6:29:44 PM
If you are not attracted to someone you don't have to put it out like that so harshly. We need to remember that there are people's feelings attached behind these profiles. You can say you are not interested without being SOOOO direct.
 Trooth

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 114
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 6:56:12 PM
I started going bald at the age of 17, talk about a self-image crisis. It worked on me for a number of years (I would say a good 8 or so until I just decided to start shaving it off). I have found that some women find me physically attractive and the majority don't. If given a chance their are many more women that will find me attractive in ways beyond the physical realm, and at times that changes their view of physical attraction. I have learned that beyond cleanliness, syle, and self-confidence physical attraction is something I have no control over. If I don't do it for you then so be it.
 pfh210

Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 115
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:12:45 PM
Honesty is good. Being cruel isnt, so its how its said that makes the differance
 ripley65

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 116
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:14:40 PM
I could never tell anyone that they are unattractive,,ever! That to me is just plain rude. But if someone told that to me (and they have! lol), no id not argue about it. Just shrug my shoulders and say,,,,allllllllrighty then. lol

Trooth,,just so ya know. I think you are attractive and thats my honest opinion. My brothers started losing their hair also in high school and ive dated a few men with hair loss so to me,,ehhh,,,no biggy! I think its super sexy!

 wikkidd

Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 117
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 7:22:07 PM
I would not argue with someone over "attraction"...what is one man's trash...is another man's treasure
Our diversity in what appeals to each individual is what makes each and every person attractive in some form or fashion and in their own unique way
 ~Juggernaut~

Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 118
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 9:04:06 PM
It always comes around good , pictures don't say enough .
 Trooth

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 119
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 9:05:18 PM
Thanks for the compliment Ripley, and for anyone to say you are unattractive completely baffles me. I have my preferences, and a lot of my basis on attraction revolves around demeanor. I have known girls who modeled and I just found them to be completely unattractive because of their demeanor. A soft smile and bright eyes does wonders for me, the "I am better than you look" just doesn't work at all. I guess we all have our preferences, some guys really, really, like the body building look on women, I don't find it attractive at all. Either way I could never tell anyone that I thought they were fugly or what have you. My momma raised me a little better than that.
 sayonara7

Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 120
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 9:23:46 PM
No I wouldn't argue, you win some ,you lose some, life goes on, so move on.BUT, whenever I say "Sorry, I'm not interested, take care and goodluck" to an email, I usually get an email from the person trying to force me to accept his whatever, God knows what.It gets annoying after a while , so I block those users.However, there are some nice people who won't bother you after they are told you are not interested, just depends on the craziness of people emailing you.
 Tansi

Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 121
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/18/2006 11:03:09 PM
I would never argue someone's opinion of me. What they think of me is "none of my business." I would , however, think that people should not have to be unpleasant when responding to someone. I would simply say that I don't think it would be a good match and let it go at that. Block if I must to prevent being bothered. All that should be expected is one polite reponse.
 26yearoldguy

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 122
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 12:00:13 AM
I would appreciate the honesty. At least your not left wondering what was wrong with you. I would be more scared if it was how I conducted myself or acted that made me lose a chance with a girl than if it was based on my looks.
 TigerWoods0924

Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 123
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 5:55:50 AM
Depeding on the person I'm rejecting, if I believe they can't handle the actual truth, I try to take the self-deprecating route and politely say "I don't believe I'm your type" or something to that effect, trying to place the fault on me to spare their feelings (I'm a confident guy, so I don't mind letting them think I'm the one causing the problem )

If they just won't take the subtle modesty hint, then I politely tell them: "I don't feel we have suitable physical chemistry", i.e. I don't find you attractive in the slightest, but I'm going to be polite in how I say it

There's never a justification to be outright rude and call someone fat or grotesque, everyone's got feelings after all and I hope to receive the same courtesy in return from those I approach...
 DacaInaru

Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 124
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 6:01:14 AM
why the heck would anyone waste time arguing with someone about them not finding the other attractive.. seems like a big waste of time to me.. would they think the person would change their mind???

not
 kmhstx

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 125
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 6:09:35 AM
lol really I think its kind of sad to argue that point. I mean the person isn't attracted to you, big deal! I wouldn't write back and say well yes I'm attractive, give me a chance haha. That would be pathetic.
There are alot of people in this world that fall into the "average" looks category.....so to some people they might be attractive, to others not. Its all about personal tastes.
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