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 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 151
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LOL the final cut...sorry you did NOT make the final cut...but then there is the possibility of being brought back for another chance..hahaha
 joseph322
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 152
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 10:38:14 AM
lol. Good luck man. Ill see you when i become canadian national.LOl I agree im like check the box yes or no if you like me if not and your not attracted to me . Well just go our seperate ways until i call you for second date
 RabidWolverine
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 153
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 4/19/2006 10:45:00 AM
I have always said as long as the woman is honest, I can't get pissed off for that. I know many do anyhow and although sure it may hurt sometimes to hear it but hey it is worse when she is going to bs you I say.
 Country Sunset
Joined: 9/3/2006
Msg: 154
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 10/8/2006 5:24:55 PM
Personally, I think that is a little blunt and would never make such a statement. Most people are here for the same reason, to find that right person to kiss goodnight. The last thing anyone needs to have his or her ego bruised.

Individually we all have much to offer, it’s finding that right person that can see beyond what others deem of beauty to distinguish what means most to them.

If someone were to make that judgement, how could I dispute it….it’s how they see me and that’s all that matters. It doesn’t make them wrong, it makes them insensitive.
 Hottest_of_the_Hot
Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 155
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 4:32:52 AM
No, bc I would be in absolute awe of their honesty. I have been told that I was not their " type " and although it stung, I thought it was honest and I appreciated it even more. I never argued the fact with him...and it's funny, bc in the end, he ended up liking me even more..but by then, the attraction on my end, had completely dissipated.
 Marilynized
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 156
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 11:38:54 AM
Argue what?

That they don't find me attractive? Look, if a guy's 'type' is a short, dark haired, dark eyed, plain/natural looking women - I'd venture to say he probably isn't going to find me all that attractive.

Different strokes for different folks.
 tutu4me
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 157
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 12:08:22 PM
I'd rather argue with myself while the bartender watches
 logicalnonsense
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 158
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:07:15 PM
I'd say.."no, problem, thank you for your honesty"...simple as that. Not every man finds me attractive and I am not attracted to all men. How the heck do you argue with the fact that someone is not attracted to you?????? No wonder you hear about people pulling the disappearing act so frequently! They'd rather disappear than deal with someone elses rejection issues......
 abstinent lady
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 159
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:13:42 PM
That's cool if they don't find me attractive, It aint o.k. to be rude about it, just go onto tha next pic. don't waste my time.....I might feel tha same way about you, who knows....
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 ifulike
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 160
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:32:06 PM
I just think it would be better to say "you're not my type"
 magie62
Joined: 11/13/2005
Msg: 161
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:51:45 PM
Well how about being with someone for almost 8 months and he lives for you for a month and a half and then all of a sudden tells you hes not attracted to you Now that hurts. But during the whole time telling you that you are sexy and beautiful best thing that ever happened to them figure that one. Confused yes lol
 ifulike
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 162
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:59:40 PM

then all of a sudden tells you hes not attracted to you


Now that's jus BS
 merryaquarian
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 163
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 3:32:38 PM
While a lot of people make their judgments based on photos alone, there are MANY factors that determine one's attractiveness to another. The photo is only a part of it. I click on a LOT of profiles with photos that I would consider "hot," only to find that I am not attracted to what they had to say.

You just never know.
 whereowhere?
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 164
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 4:01:54 PM
I have such a big issue with this. I'm the type that yes, will ask for a picture, and then the person asks... "well?" ...and I have to be honest, we are all here to find someone we are attracted to and fits who we are and what we want...bottom line. I've had men bash me, say I’m shallow blah blah blah , but ya know what.....why did they message me in the first place...they saw my picture, now it's my turn to make my choice if I want to talk to them. When we meet someone at a bar or at work ect....we will give the attention to a person who we find attractive and have that chemistry with by first looks...bottom line!!!!!!

So for the guys out there, that get all pissy over girls that turn ya down....GET OVER IT...PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA
 aventurero
Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 165
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 5:33:12 PM
I'd appreciate the honesty. We're all attracted to and not attracted to a certain set of people...we're kinda hard wired that way....and that is difficult to change.
 ButchNYC
Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 166
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:05:59 PM
I don't know, I would atleast mention that its shallow to choose to not to speak to anyone or whatever based on a picture, but not more than that. I've only had one response even remotely similar. I wrote a pretty long letter and one woman and she arote me back saying "Do you really get dates with this?" Interestingly I do get a pretty rate of response when I do write, so I wrote back to her "uhh...yeah. I guess that's why you're still single and clearly miserable." I thought it was appropriate.
 Targus169
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 167
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/4/2006 1:49:21 AM
Haha you cant argue a point when they've told you they do not find you attractive. Theres no where to go here, thats IT. They dont owe you to be forced to waste their time getting to know your personality.

This Is my point with why people dont bother to reply NO thanks. The type who argue about that that people owe them a thanks for finding THEM finding the party attractive, would then start more demands on why they should give them more of a chance even after that.

When someone Ignores us, or makes It more clear and sends a explanation why, believe THEY know what they want or need better than YOU and let It go. This Is only a Internet dating site, the people on here owe us nothing, they dont even know us.

In fact they may not even be the photo or the sex stated, you CANT take any rejection on these systems personally. Just move on and find someone who does think your all that.
 RealisticDreamer
Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 168
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Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/4/2006 2:24:32 AM
If I was feeling particularly quick I might argue the point.

But my argument would consist of putting a finger on each side of my mouth, pulling it wide open, sticking my tongue out and waggling it, my eyebrows, and both ears at the same time. Well, mostly at the same time (I'm only so coordinated).

And then I would ask, "How about now?". After taking my fingers out of my mouth of course. No one likes to be spit on (except maybe porn stars...), and unless she's a dentist, she probably wouldn't understand me.

If you're talking through email, I would just accept the rejection stoically. Making that face at the monitor just doesn't quite have the same effect.

Apparently some women find humour attractive...and really like if you can make them laugh.
 whereowhere?
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 169
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/8/2006 7:47:13 PM
Humour is a big plus in my list of what i'm attracted too. Just good looks isn't gonna cut it, but looks still matter.


 simpleman12
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 170
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/8/2006 11:47:05 PM
some people on here are downright mean. what goes around comes around.
 Shangrilah
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 171
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/9/2006 5:48:27 AM

what did you seriously think? - national debate by email over your looks.


Is that wrong?



 perplexheart
Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 172
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:12:17 AM
Hambone352..
I would not argue with them for being upfront about it, as opposed to being around the bush or be given the you're a nice guy routine..
 perplexheart
Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 173
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:13:36 AM
Well said Molonel
 MrUnattractive
Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 174
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:20:58 AM
Getting turn down on the bases of looks alone is what gets most of us guys all pissy as you so "neat" said.
And I bet your the type of FEMALE that will CRY like a baby WHA WHA where are the nice guys and then have the audacity to turn a guy down simply because he is not Mr.GQ and not even give him a chance to SEE for who he is..

But thanks for proving my point that women JUDGE on looks alone.
 MrUnattractive
Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 175
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:23:30 AM
Either it does or it does whereowhere. first you say it does then you say no but then retract and say it does.

I wouldn't contact you at all, since you look like a high maintenance female
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