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 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
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It didn't work on the Seinfeld episode "The Contest" I don't see me making 90 days much less 90 minutes. I'm OUT!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 9/6/2012 11:24:18 AM

there is no way anyone can convince me that going without an orgasm for 90 days is going to reduce my stress level....

This is me as well.

Sex and orgasm releases good hormones into your system that help alieviate stress as well as moderate your moods. I'm less likely to kill someone when I'm getting off on a regular basis.

I can go 90 days without watching porn... that is the easy part. Going 90 days without masturbating.. sure.. it can be done too. I've gone up to 5 years without sex.
 jasonbr
Joined: 8/5/2012
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/6/2012 3:39:26 PM
went without anything for 25 day... just loved getting a BJ from my ex on the 26th day
 wantcha
Joined: 3/15/2012
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/6/2012 4:24:37 PM
No way I cant even go a week without having some sort of sex
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 9/6/2012 8:15:47 PM
I don't watch porn and I don't masterbate I have thick fluffy soft p^ssy I am enjoying every day so I guess this takes me out of your theory.
 _Full_of_Awesome_
Joined: 6/26/2012
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Posted: 9/7/2012 10:42:16 AM

...Internet Porn! That's right, its this idea spoken about on TEDtalks called "The Great Porn Experiment". The task is simple. Go 90 days without watching porn or masturbating. If you can do that, apparently you should begin to notice less anxiety, more confidence, better focus, and better sex among other things... Its an interesting idea, and I'm wondering who is willing to try it and if you think its even worth while?


Here is an interesting article that discusses this subject:

Porn, Masturbation and Mojo: A Neuroscience Perspective
http://yourbrainonporn.com/porn-masturbation-and-mojo-neuroscience-perspective
 junkfoodjunkie79
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/7/2012 1:45:10 PM
Maybe if I try this, I will be on time to work everyday....
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/7/2012 2:22:02 PM
well i guess i can double up on sex and do that but might be be very ****y at the end of the 90 days
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/7/2012 2:25:59 PM
well i guess i can do that but will have to double up on the sex but at the end of 90 days i might have to just go wild and hope my partner for the night is up for wild kinky freaky sex
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 9/7/2012 3:29:13 PM
me thinks the op has already probably faped wanked an beat himself silly since posting this thread..10 days over?
 nikkisenko
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 36
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Posted: 9/7/2012 3:42:24 PM

there is no way anyone can convince me that going without an orgasm for 90 days is going to reduce my stress level....


I'm with MsMicki on this one.
 Looking4bi
Joined: 3/28/2012
Msg: 37
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Posted: 9/7/2012 5:32:50 PM
Reminds me of the movie 40 Days and 40 Nights.
 AspenJack
Joined: 4/17/2012
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Posted: 9/7/2012 6:03:24 PM
It sounds reasonable, having sex with a partner not be part of the abstinence. Porn and masturbation are both known to inure one, at least somewhat, to the intense sensations of real sex with a partner. If not for yourself, do it for your partner!
 byak
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 9/8/2012 6:58:36 PM
I did this once 20 years ago. 13 weeks in open bay barracks during boot camp didn't give you much "alone time".
 Googleplus
Joined: 8/22/2012
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Posted: 9/8/2012 7:31:25 PM

And I'm pretty sure its okay to masturbate with your partner only if you don't use porn.


Nope it doesn't work that way. Here's why especially for men. When a man and woman have sex they exchange nutrients through the fluids. Masturbation there is no exchange in those fluids when nutrients so you're losing more.
This is according to Chinese medicine and before you laugh it off it's been done successfully. Anxiety and depression is due to lack of nutrients. Of course there are other factors like diet, life style, etc. Watching too much tv can cause depression.
Have an urge to masturbate? Try taking a bread cold shower. Too much meat and spicy foods can increase sexual cravings.

http://www.yinyanghouse.com/forum/depressed-after-masturbating-other-stuff


http://www.losethebackpain.com/healthysex.html
 JustinCassidy
Joined: 4/3/2012
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Posted: 9/8/2012 7:38:08 PM
Anyone else normally suffer less anxiety when they do masturbate? I know I do.
 jennink26
Joined: 3/11/2012
Msg: 42
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Posted: 9/8/2012 9:33:34 PM
less anxiety/stress? Bull Sh!t lol I can go that many days without but I would rather not
 Jideuism
Joined: 2/12/2012
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Posted: 9/9/2012 2:23:02 PM

me thinks the op has already probably faped wanked an beat himself silly since posting this thread..10 days over?


Nope, I'm still going strong! it is extremely tough though
 dartmouthjames
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 44
Fapstronauts... 90 Days without...
Posted: 9/9/2012 2:25:34 PM

...Internet Porn! That's right, its this idea spoken about on TEDtalks called "The Great Porn Experiment". The task is simple. Go 90 days without watching porn or masturbating. If you can do that, apparently you should begin to notice less anxiety, more confidence, better focus, and better sex among other things... Its an interesting idea, and I'm wondering who is willing to try it and if you think its even worth while?

Say again, I was fapping too loudly.
 Jideuism
Joined: 2/12/2012
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Posted: 9/12/2012 2:42:47 PM
I'm just curious. has anyone started... I'm Day 15 and its absolutely killing me right now! gaaaaah
 HaydenFan
Joined: 10/19/2011
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Posted: 9/13/2012 9:06:43 PM
Not a chance dude. I'm still a 3-4x a day man at 31, I'd be eatin a bullet or a wal-mart greeter by day 5 lol
 kayliecat
Joined: 12/8/2007
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Posted: 9/17/2012 8:30:14 PM
This is the stupidest idea I've heard of in a lONG time. What good could possibly come fromt his? I mean, you don't gain calories from it. It doesn't make you smell. Or lose friends. Masturbation,that is.

If I do it, it is when I'm in bed and alone and horny. I'm probably thinking about someone or a story in my head and it's making me, well, want to masturbate. So I do. Then I orgasm, then I roll over and go to sleep.

We aren't talking rocket science here. The only downside i can think of is that it meant I went to bed 20 minutes late that night. That's it. It doesn't cost me money, and not a whole lot of energy. I was "using my brain" while I fantasized, so it was actually *good* for my brain health. And I probably burned a few extra calories, which is a good thing for me, probably the most exercise I had all day.

And looking at porn? So what? So instead of sex occurring in my head, I looked at it...so it doesnt' exercise my brain quite so much...that's the only difference I can think of.

If my partner was with me, I would have had sex, thus burning more calories and having some good skin to skin lovey time. But, if he's not, it's not like my masturbating will change how much I want to have sex when I see him again. We always have sex...whether I masturbated daily for the week prior, or whether I didn't feel like masturbating the week prior.

Ok, I'm out of advantages and disadvantages to masturbating and porn... yeah, i'm not seeing that abstaining for 90 days is going to help me actually. And in fact, I think it'd probably just piss me off. Because if I DON"T masturbate, I probably will have trouble sleeping, due to the fact that I"m horny as hell and not doing anything to relieve it.

So after 90 days you're gonna have a really really pissed off chick... um, no. No thanks, I'll pass. I don't think the world could handle me any more moody than I already am!
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/17/2012 10:13:25 PM
^^^This is the stupidest idea I've heard of in a LONG time.

Ah, you’ve been away :-d

ot: I've been on the program a week now – a half day at a time.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 9/18/2012 10:13:28 AM
the longest I have ever willingly went without sex is only as long as it took for me to find a willing partner..and in times in my life when i was in a relationship with a willing partner the longest I have went with out sex was as long as it took me to find a place and get her in the mood ..for other times when a partner was not there is masturbation and fantasy ..but it will never take priority over real sex ..and while I like porn as a prop for said times porn will never substitute for a warm woman
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 50
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Posted: 9/22/2012 4:49:31 AM

there is no way anyone can convince me that going without an orgasm for 90 days is going to reduce my stress level....



I didn't even realise the challenge had been set... Very nearly there... my last intercourse {dudsville} was July, porn is not my thang... haven't masterbated at all.

But golly, I wound up tighter than a spring on a windup toy....

I may have a possible meet next week and I may very well break my 'no kissing first date' rule because I gonna snap if I don't get me some skin to skin sensual contact... soooooon.

Uptight?? you betcha...
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