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Posted: 8/15/2005 2:26:04 AM | I must say, that I have never, ever seen SO MUCH, comaudreship in my life, with so many people, and I think it is great, that there is this much strong support for the Mr. Nice Guy.
The Mr. Nice Guy, has got a lot going for him, integrity, love, the will to help out a downed partner, when that partner is in dispair, and also, lets not forget that Mr. Nice Guy has values, as well.
Mr. Nice Guy, just LOVES, to help out, when their is just call for it, and he puts his heart into everything he does do, to make it turn out well.
So, Mr. Nice Guy, is the TRUE Embassidor, for the good will of ALL man and woman kind.
It is a tough job, serving, yet the benifets can be reaped, of knowing that a good job, was a well done job, that turns out positive results for everyone.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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Posted: 8/15/2005 3:43:33 AM | Hi Reaper,
Been there, done that, cryed on the tee shirt. You should tell this woman if she wants to play mind games she should start with a full deck. I hope her new guy treats her as she deserves!
I know it hurts but I think its the users and abusers that lose out in the end Just look what she's missing!
stay as you are man your not alone.
Take care and I hope you find THE ONE soon | |
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| Nice guys finish last.
Posted: 8/15/2005 7:41:06 AM | | Yea, the good guys always finish last. Girls say they want us, but end up getting with the bad boy type and then get abused by them. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 12:49:59 AM | Girls abuse men too, how many serial gold diggers are out there? You have to watch out for those scrofulous harpies...
Why be nice or a bad ass, just be yourself.
The right girl or guy has a better chance of finding you that way.
Or be a nice bad ass, if you must, don't let them kill the nice guy inside though, save him for the right girl. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 2:54:57 AM | from one nice guy to another.
we will get our chance. maybe not today, not tomorrow but we WILL get our chance to shine in the sun. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 3:49:56 AM | From another Nice Guy, to ALL, you nice Guys and Gals out there, "ALL OF YOU ROCK", and as you say, and it is true, Apollyon, we ALL WILL get our chance, it may not be today, nor tommorrow, however, we ALL WILL get our chance to SHINE IN THE SUN.
And by GOD, we ALL WILL WIN.
Our niceness, WILL SHINE BRIGHTLY, that we ALL can be DAMN PROUD OF.
ALL Nice Guys and Nice Gals, are not the thr TRUE Embassidors of SERVE and PROTECT, for the ladies, and guys for nothing, don't you know.
And some of the ladies, are slowly coming around, and finding the TRUE VALUE, that the
Nice Guy HAS to OFFER.
And slowly, but surely, the Nice Guy, IS, WINNING the battle against the Bad Ass Bad Boy, over the ladies.
So, I say, KUDOS, to ALL you Nice Guys, and Nice Gals, where ever you may be, and a GREAT BIG CONGRADUTLATIONS to ALL of YOU.
And may we ALL, keep fighting, for our RIGHT, to FREEDOM and GLORY as the Nice Guy, and Nice Gal in this online world of dating.
Because, we KNOW it IS, a WORTHWHILE cause, to be fighting for, and OUR SHIP WILL SOON, be coming in, it will be a matter of time, but OUR SHIP WILL SOON be coming in, and WE WILL WIN.
TRUE Niceness, and Kindness, ALWAYS, ALWAYS WINS THE DAY, no matter WHAT the situation is.
Let me repeat that again, TRUE Niceness, and Kindness ALWAYS, ALWAYS WINS THE DAY, no matter WHAT the situation is.
And it HAS, been proven, time, and time again.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 4:15:02 AM | MP20, is it NOT the TRUTH, dude, is it NOT the TRUTH.
It seems like some of these girls cannot make up their minds, and then they come to us after being used and abused by the Bad Ass Bad Boy, with their broken hearts, cry and complain, cry and complain, until, we the Nice Guy have mended and healed their broken little hearts.
And then, they kick US, in the head, and go out and do the same DAMN THING, over, and over, and over.
Ahh I tell you, that the life of a Nice Guy, it seems like we never get the chance at WINNING the girls heart that we have just mended and healed.
However, onward, forward, Nice Guy Soldier, we have got a worthwhile job to do, of serving and protecting, and one day soon, we WILL, WIN that girls heart, that we had just mended and healed.
Because, she WILL FINALLY NOTICE, what WE, have REALLY and TRUELY done for her, in a LOVING and CARING manner.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 3:09:37 PM | | If that is what you belieive.Then go for it.It is your choice.But do not get me wrong i use to be the fool in my 20s.No more.I gave up on the fools game at 30.I use to be the guy to be to a woman that was in the distress.Never again..Remember life is choices.If a woman wants a nice guy then she will be with a nice guy PERIOD!If i see or hear of a woman that will love a man that treats her like crap,Then i will have nothing to do with that woman.She will never respect me as a man.There must be some truth to it.Look who she worships the ground he walks on. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2005 6:46:20 PM | Nice guys finish last.... .... in bed... ...
Some one say that already? | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 3:15:36 AM | | Sounds like this girl is using you not only for material things but for sex too. Letting go is one of the hardest things to do, especailly when you love someone. You deserve better than that. A man that thinks of pleasing a woman in bed and really knows how to do it is hard to come by. I say let her go, car and all and one day you will find someone you love again that will appreciate you. Until then have fun!!! If you need someone to kick her ass just let me know!!! | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 4:39:37 AM | wow!!!!!!what a cold hearted ****......she just led you on like that.....you know were not all like that....and no nice guys dont finsih last.......im in my earlier 40s and its not easy finding a nice-decent guy.........im soryy but guys my age or older seem to like women who are in their 20s and look like barbie....i dont look like barbie......nor do i want to......ive been told im a good person and have a good heart....yes ive mad mistakes we all have,,after all were only human.......take some time and let your heart mend...keep talking to your true friends...just dont dwell on it forever.....there are good women out there....dont give up on us...most importantly....dont beat yourself up over this....her mistake..not yours.....shell learn the hard way..then it will be too late because youll have moved on to bigger and better things in your life.........keep smiling | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 4:45:47 AM | Yep it's just a prime example of how women can play men just as well as men can play women.
I learnt that there are going to be times in life where you think that's the one but it isn't due to many reasons and you just got to keep on driving forward and learn from it. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 7:07:13 AM | Original Post: 8/9/05 definition of what a “nice guy” means.
Hello Nice Guys,
Have you ever been in this situation?
You’re out at a nightclub...dancing and have fun with your friends...then magic happens.
You meet an attractive girl...and you hit it off right away.
The conversation seems to go well...good vibes are in the air...it feels like a sure thing.
Then she says “Hey, would you like to get a drink?”...you’d say “sure...what kind of drink would you like?”...she says “Chocolate Martini!”...you would say to the bartender “Chocolate Martini and a Bud Light!”...you gladly pullout your wallet and paid for the drinks. Then she says, “thank you!” and about 10 minutes later...she’s gone!
Do you feel taken advantage of...course you do!
Why does this happen, because men are programmed to pay for women affection in hopes for her returning the favor.
At bars, I watch men walking up to women and giving compliments...or offering to buy drinks...and the woman smiling politely, thinking “Oh, another nice guy...he’s buying me a drink for my approval!”, and excusing themselves...
I know of women who bank on guys buying them drinks. Sometimes they would get dress to the nine, hoping their beauty would get them FREE drinks. Hell, there are occasions when women would not even take money with them...now that is POWER!
Remember guys women know their beauty has POWER over us and that is why you see men giving into this kind of behavior.
Game over...just say “NO!”
Nice guys don’t have to finish last, just take away the POWER!
However, I do not want men thinking I am promoting to have POWER OVER women, but just to take the power from them. I am not promoting that “nice guys” need to turn into JERKS either! Men want I am promoting is STOP doing things that let women know she OWNS you!
This is what women want...not a “nice guy” or “Bad Boy” but a MAN! The MAN has the qualities of the “nice guy”. However, he knows how to bring desire to women by being wise to the “Bad Boy” attributes without being abusive to women.
But, But...Orlando (that’s me) I need to buy something for a women’s approval!
Then do this, walk into Barns & Noble bookstore, and look for attractive girl you find interesting and walkup to her. You would say, “What coffee would you recommend here?”...she would tell you and now you would say “thank you!”...then you would turnaround and walk away and order two coffees base on want she told you. Then walkup to her and say “Your right...this is good coffee...here I got one for you”...she will smile and then say “thank you”! Now this takes BALLS! This shows her you have confidences...NOW that is a MAN!
You must not let women take control of you and disrespects you. Nevertheless, you have to make decision now that I am not going to be “doormat” anymore.
Remember this...the prettier the woman is, the more “nice guys” she has at her feet.
Nice guys don’t have to finish last, just take away the POWER and become a MAN! | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 12:38:16 PM | Yea nice guys do finish last, but sometimes it's nice girls, too.
I meet nice guys but they seem to be always taken, married, or gay. DRAMA...
Now for me it seems all the available guys are too far away, too. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 1:42:39 PM | Nice guys finish last? Don't know... even when I'm a big jerk I still finish last.  | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 2:10:55 PM | | Women are not kinder than men at all. In fact just like men they can be sadistic. The fact is that a lot of women don't have the guts (a lot of guys too) to say it the way it is. Use your gut feeling it'd there for a reason....to weed out emotional, needy and insecure jealous women. Hey, being hurt is the best thing for a guy...if he lives through it. And to be honest don't we men say a lot stuff that is slightly exaggerated or gasp! Untrue. I admit it. Guys just like women want to feel secure and hold on to are "options", but there is a normal curve and this women needs medication to help her back within that normal human curve. White lies and flattery are different then emotional sadism. Hey, you know she is miserable person (poor thing) and she has just found another host to bleed from. As far as nice goes...hold open the door pull out her sit (so she can sit down) write sweet messages to her...but keep score!!! because that is how most women think...men tend look at a few big things and score big points women tend to have daily scorecards as thick as deck of cards....well I'm exaggerating there it's only the thickness of a restaurant server order card. Remember a sick lady can bite but she can only drain your blood as long as you let her...and the longer the harder it gets to leave since she is in a since emasculating that poor man. Hey women know men want a sweet nice lady (most men) so they all act sweet especially in writing!! Use your gut and it will serve you well....and don't do what a lot of people do and go out and hurt someone else in order to boost there ego....it will only make you feel worse. Nice guys finish first once they learn the hard way a few times then they dig in there heels and put up there own "normal psychological warfare" hey, we can't change the world right? Oh, there's nothing wrong with you if you think a women is a witch....there out there also, there are warlocks just to be even. I hope I didn't offend anyone...but I have read over this letter and don't have a problem with it, so I could care less. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 2:53:52 PM | It's not the fact that nice guys finish last, it's the fact that nice guys are with the wrong women.
I mean you can say that about women as well, nice women finish last as well. I can name a few women that were great to the ones they loved and ended up getting screwd over in the end.
So maybe the people that are getting screwd over are just finding the wrong people in the end.
I find it if you get away from the Bar scene your odds of finding someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with is prob much greater then finding the love of your life in a bar. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 4:10:03 PM | OK!!!!.that is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!.I'm tired of being a Nice Guy...Woman just do not seem to be looking for them...think I'm gonna be an azzhole like alot of other fellas on Here........
I'm gonna kick over some garbage cans......drive in the ultra fast lane really slow.......
flip the bird once in a while.........Do the odd attack post!!!(opps I do that already)!!!..
Think I'm gonna be an azzhole for a while see what happens....................  | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 6:34:37 PM | Well make sure you are flipping the bird to the right person cause you there are many of phyco paths running around that one little thing could push them over the edge. :)
I don't think being an ahole will solve anything it will make things prob worse. I think you need to take a deep breath and try to let women come to you this time. Hey there are 6.3 billion people in this world you are bound to find someone that is going to love you and want to be with you the rest of their lives. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:48:31 AM | Hey StoneChild.
Thought that was a pretty cool posting, yet funny as all get out. It just about had me rolling off my chair, form laughing so hard.
I liked you last comment, "Think I'm gonna be an azzhole for a while see what happens"
Amazing what a creative mind can do.
Sincerely
Neill | |
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:57:17 AM | think I may join him on that quest to become and azzhole..
think will become unemployed. drink beer 24/7 beat women, and cratch myself in public. Wear my armour too tight, and crucify little kittens.
But thats not me... sigh...
We will get our day in the sun, maybe not today, or tomorrow, but we will shine. for hope is not a bad thing.
Live with honor.
Be Without Fear In The Face of Your Enemies
Be Brave and Upright
Speak the Truth
Safeguard the Helpless
That is Your Oath
Rise a Knight! | |
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Posted: 8/18/2005 6:28:29 AM | Just look at the jerks...and learn from them.
They are confident, and direct, and assertive.
They don't worry about hurting women ( some nice guys do, so they don't do anything out of that fear) , and they don't care if a woman rejects them. If they get a no, they keep asking (without missing a beat) with other women.
They take every chance to meet women, and ask them out. They do that in a direct way.
They aren't shy and nice about wanting sex.
They present themselves well. They wear clothes that fit, and purposely take care to look good.
That is why they succeed with women, and nice guys typically don't. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2005 6:55:39 AM | An example :
Typical nice guy, setting up a first date:
" I don't know, what do YOU want to do ? I am not sure of where we should go... I can't decide ...I don't know...."
Typical successful guy ( could be a jerk, or a nice guy that has got his game together)
" O.K. I know this really romantic little restaurant. The foods really amazing, and the staff is so wonderful and professional. It's very quiet, and we could get a nice bottle of wine there and just sit back and get to know one another. I'd just love to have dinner with you this Friday, at around 7 PM.
How does that sound to you ? "
Guess which one is going to actually have an interested woman show up ? | |
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:35:49 PM | Hey to all the NICE GUYS OUT THERE>
Don't become ***holes PLEASE there are already too many of them....
Nice Guys don't always finish last , often times it just takes us REAL WOMEN longer to find you once we've filtered through all those ***holes as formentioned. (ha !ha!)...
We've all heard of CROWD CONTROL . someone should come up with ***hole CONTROL.Don't ya all think?
TO the original MR NICE GUY. I have something to share with you and everyone else. but as you are the one who began this thread I'm addressing it to you..................
Let's Make A Deal
You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.
You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.
You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.
You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.
You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.
You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.
You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.
You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.
You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.
You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.
Forgiveness brings inner peace.
Do we have a deal?
Northern_Blueyes
October/2004
May you all find inner peace and Happiness, take a few moments to say Hello to that certain someone whom you would just walk away from or not give the time of day to, she could just be the ONE you've been longing for..
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