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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/3/2005 6:41:45 PM | I find the men that contact me very respectful,funny and just dang nice.I've no issues with any of them.
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MrsLucci, I think *Mr*Lucci is sneaking into your Inbox when you're not around and deleting all the pervy e-mails... cuz I've sent you a ton of "wANna ShAg?!?!" messages... (J/K)
But u do make it sound as though u have an army of Angels protecting your 5 senses from the 'filth' of this forum... stiking 'em dead before they can hit 'send'... throwing rose petals before your feet...
It's refreshing to hear though cuz reading some of the comments from women here, you'd think all men are pigs.
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/3/2005 6:59:47 PM | Sometimes you can just see by the profile without even one exchange someone is a psycho.
Sometimes someone is just not your type and you don't want to bother. Sometimes it sounds like so much BS. You decide. | |
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/3/2005 7:47:58 PM | | Redemption - it isn't we women that have that market cornered, sorry but I have to disagree with you. I've emailed fellas before, telling them what an awesome smile they have, I mention a few blurbs about their profile and tell them to check out my profile. You know what? There have been times I don't get responses. Guess what? It doesn't ruin my day and I move on. There's more things to get my knickers all waded up in a knot than someone not responding to me. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 3:56:29 PM | Touch me: if you honestly think that a guy who tries to e-mail you is a loser then you have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are just as hatefully ignorant as your ad clearly shows everyone.
I love girls like you...they seem to have this defensive shield up like they're something special. It's always fun to pop their bubble and bring them back down to reality. The look of shock when they get a taste of their own medicine is PRICELESS. Now, I'm far from perfect, but I tell you what, I wouldn't date you if you were the last woman on earth...in fact I wouldn't even give you the time of day. It's girls like you on your self-created pedistal that make men timid and doubt themselves in the first place.
Don't get me wrong, you're cute...no doubt in that...but just by your ad alone shows that while you may have the face and body of a supermodel (IF THAT IS ACTUALLY YOU...remember this IS the internet)...your attitude changes it to where you look like Roseanne Barr's ugly twin.
Pretty faces are a dime a dozen in this country...what makes you so special? Judging by what you wrote, it almost sounds like you get a little kick out of it when they freak out. You complain, but deep down it seems like you enjoy the power that comes from rejecting others. Allow me to offer some friendly advice to you m'lady...what goes around comes around...this much is true.
Nice ones???? You mean you don't completely hate men??? Wow. There may just be hope yet for you.
I'm sure you'll write back a hateful message and try to bash me and blah blah blah...whatever floats your boat there Admiral. Sounds like you need to check yourself before you speak. I just wanted to put you in your place. You have yourself a good day now! | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 5:41:59 PM | | i have had my pic up and off, very few women even give me a second glance. but im happy with the 9 women ive chatted to for 6 months or less and meeting new ones weekly, ive sent an email to a gal that who stated "lookin for a nice guy who can appreciate a girl"...read deleted...did it break my heart? nope because soon as i went back to my inbox i got a sweet how hae you been from a great young lady i plan on asking out as soon as we both get settled into our own new residences. i have a 35 yo, we email each other constantly, but i get the uniform chasers that scare me and thats when i dont respond....so dont worry dude great women are out there. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 6:42:40 PM | Wish I knew the answer. It's the case on every dating site I've tried. On this site, I've checked the SENT emails folder and it tells me over and over again, READ-DELETED. So I guess they don't have to tell me "Not Interested", I can just get their reply that way. But what REALLY drives me crazy is on those rare occassions when someone DOES reply, we SEEM to develop a pretty good rapport thru a few e-mails, and then they disappear without any explanation. AAARRRRGGGHHH!!! It's happened over and over on this site as well as others. I have analyzed my sent emails and found nothing offensive in them so your guess is as good as mine. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 9:05:30 PM | posted by: smithjc97
Touch me: if you honestly think that a guy who tries to e-mail you is a loser then you have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are just as hatefully ignorant as your ad clearly shows everyone.
Well hun, read the rest of my profile. I actually had a nice one, all sweet and sugary, and after having a TON of people call me a slut and a whore and a b_itch and whatever, because of my pictures, I changed it to that. You don't know me, and you don't know what's happened on here prior to your "insight" in my life. So don't act like you DO know me.
My profile is there to show the jerks of this site (trust me, there's TONS, men and women alike) that I won't put up with their s_hit, and you know what? It WORKED. I don't get those msgs anymore. So do me a favour and anaylze someone else.
I'm sure you'll write back a hateful message and try to bash me and blah blah blah...whatever floats your boat there Admiral. Sounds like you need to check yourself before you speak. I just wanted to put you in your place. You have yourself a good day now!
Actually no, I won't. I'll say the same thing to you that I say to everyone else, and if you don't believe me, search my posts:
If bashing me makes you feel better about yourself, then go right ahead hun. I don't care at all what you think of me. So don't assume that I do. So you have YOURSELF a good day, because trust me, my days are already good! | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 9:37:32 PM | What I see a lot of here is these women that flaunt their bodies in a sexually explicit and provocative manner, yet sound like they hate men in their profile, and still get added to hundreds of people's favorites list and attract all the weirdo's with their tongues hanging out besides.
If they posted classy, not trashy pictures of the bodies they're so proud of showing off maybe they'd attract a higher class of men.
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Posted: 8/13/2005 10:12:00 PM | Geez, you guys...
Who cares what a person's pictures are like, provided they are not obscene or offensive.
If a person has a profile that you don't like, whatever. But if they're not going out of their way to attack you, it's not for you or anyone to judge them, begrudge them, or bash them for being who they are - if in fact, their POF profile is exactly who they are (which I highly doubt).
This thread has gone seriously sideways....enough of the pissing matches - email each other if you wanna be "one up" so bad....the rest of us couldn't give two f***s | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 10:21:55 PM | Personally I don't care what a person's pictures/angry profile looks like. It doesn't affect me nor concern me. Not the point.
But as I pointed out it obviously lures the weirdo's and the unwanted attention that follows that the women are complaining about so much. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 10:32:24 PM | | It's simple..No sense of common courtesy, they have no manners and anyone can say what they like..But if someone takes the time to write, you should at least reply even if with not interested....YOu can make excuses for anything, lacking manners even and from what I read in these forums EXCUSES are a Dime a dozen....Just don't stress it..You took a chance and found out that gal you wrote to was not all she said she was in her profile, or maybe she was..lol..There are as the say POF out there...Smiles | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 11:28:41 PM |
But as I pointed out it obviously lures the weirdo's and the unwanted attention that follows that the women are complaining about so much.
Actually if you read a few pages back, you'll see that the "weirdos" will say anything to anyone, regardless of what they have as their picture. We covered that whole thing already.
And thanks, calgarydude! I appreciate someone saying that. Aside from what people assume about me, I'm not a man hater. I'm an ass_hole hater... BIG DIFFERENCE!!!  | |
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mymoko
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Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 67 | |
| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:39:10 PM | well touch me...you & calgary dude got it! I can't figure these people/guys that feel it's their business to comment on a woman's picture in any manner other than a respctful way, regardless of how little or much she is wearing. Let's face it, there are a lot of strange fellas out there, and they sure don't make life easier for the "normal" guys with some decorum and manners.
I still don't know why though, a woman won't reply to a proper message. That's called common courtesy and manners. If he responds again being an ##shole, he is surely a lost cause and should go put his head in a toilet and flush it till some room is made for some sense to fit in. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2005 11:57:20 PM | @ mymoko
would you reply a mail from a lady 2 decades younger than yourself that just says
"wanna tawk" ?
you click on her profile...it is full of prefer not to says................
her only description of herself is ,,she thinks all men are b@rst@rds...because her boyfriend slept with her mother..
I sure as hell didnt.
a properly written mail....almost always gets a respose...I testify to this | |
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mymoko
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Joined: 8/11/2005
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:16:04 AM | @carribeanking7
of course I wouldn't reply, because let's face it, the email wasn't even a proper one. If she had written something, then i still would have replied...with a thanks, but, no thanks ,. then again i'm sure a few guys would jump at that kinda offer | |
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Posted: 8/14/2005 12:22:16 AM | It goes both ways, you know.
Since I've joined, I got a grand total of 3 messages.
One said 'You're hot!' and nothing more.
One said 'U R hot, interested in younger men?' (WTF, I'm 21!)
I'll admit I didn't answer those, but I'm afraid I didn't consider those 'real' messages.
I answered the third with answers to his questions, and a couple questions on things he'd mentioned in his profile. I haven't heard from him, and it's been 3 weeks.
Matter of fact, I haven't gotten a reply to any of the couple dozen emails I've sent. Most of them, I was trying to start a conversation - asking questions, telling a little about myself. And not a single answer. Makes a girl feel real crappy, y'know that? | |
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Posted: 8/14/2005 8:16:41 AM | Sometimes I dont even bother reading the profile before sending a message
That's so wrong! People deserve better then that. It's sad to waste everyone's time here.
Too many people here, especially men go around sending all these messages to the same hot looking women without reading their profile hoping to get a response from some of them. Some women are doing that too.
That's so shallow! | |
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Posted: 8/14/2005 8:45:44 AM |
Aside from what people assume about me, I'm not a man hater. I'm an ass_hole hater... BIG DIFFERENCE!!!
Check out slutbynite's profile as one example and you'll see what I'm getting at. A man hater, posts a sexy pic, still gets added to a lot of favorites list. Probably gets a whack of responses from horny men. It's obviously true that a lot of men only think with their penises. Sad. | |
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