| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/14/2005 9:48:27 AM | Women are just so damn popular! I struggled with this myself, but after assessing the situation, I realize they can't. Don't worry ladies, I aint mad at ya! I still you all! | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/14/2005 10:10:54 AM | | Probably 80 percent of the women I email don't reply. No big del to me. It they're not interested why waste their time when a no reply will suffice. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/16/2005 6:02:59 AM | I just think touch me has a big mouth and a little tiny butt.
***Cant wait to see how ET this one is going to get on me now!***
Secondly, if women dont respond to your messages, why do you men bother them?
I rarely if ever message women. I dont even take this site seriously. I have an amazing real life, Its summer time fools, get outside, even if youre by yourself!
Third, its not just women that dont reply. I dont reply when I dont see any reason to.
I"ll open a door for my mom, but not for some girl who can open it for herself. HAHAH!
I"m here just to have fun. And Fun does not mean to PLAY with someone's head, I dont do that.
Ah.. what else, to all you guys out there, Grow some BALLS. or atleast ACT like it.
Man, I am starting to think these women are more manly than some of you are. Some of you act like youre hard core, but a little punk Capital B with an Itch when it comes down to women!
Thats why most of the time, I let women loose on you guys. A woman can bust your basketball image to a tiny golf ball so fast.
I dont mean to diss ALL the guys here, but come on. Get your hands off your Sausage when you are typing and maybe something from your brain will make its way onto the Screen rather than from "down under" HAHA
As for the ladies, Some of you having too much fun with Guy's brains, as you know, many of these guys dont have much brain, so atleast try to have some mercy.
Ladies, GROW UP. You are just as bad! **hint hint**
Anyways, I am done for today. If you have something to say, Say it, then wash your tongue with some MR CLEAN!
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 12:22:27 AM | I think nobody and everybody is right. hehe
First of all, females do have the right to delete an email. It's there prerogative as human beings. Perhaps they could be a little more courteous but who cares, really? Its their choice.
The way I see it, if you're confident that you're putting 100% effort into your emails (that's 100%!) and they're still not responding...then the solution is quite obvious: they're not worth your time either and you should move on. There's "plentyoffish" out there. Now...if you've sent out like a million messages and nobody has responded, then perhaps its time you consider making adjustments to your approach. Maybe you're coming on seeming too 'needy' or desperate. Or perhaps you're just not effectively providing an environment of excitement around your personality. Who knows? The point is, it's not the end of the world and there is always room for improvement. 
On the topic of "letting the little head think for the big head"...(-"Mean Streets")
This is a little tricky...as a man, I need what a man needs. This I cannot doubt. I come from a mammalian species that has it built into its evolution the need to reproduce. But women have this need too (and tend to second place this need for a much higher emotional order) but sometimes it is easy for us men to forget that (and I know, as it has happened to me as well). You must be civil. We live in a society where certain social standards demand a higher level of decency and control than good ol' cro-magnon man. That translates to--->Don't act like a pathetic drouling dog  and they may not see you as one. But, on the other hand...if you're confident that you have the right amount of sexual appeal for the job (and I mean only if you're confident), then I see no need for a man to restrain himself from being sexually 'playful' (that's 'playful' and not 'explicit') in his messages. After all, as everybody keeps saying, this site is also for having fun. But only do this if you're prepared for the possibility of a big "read....deleted" message showing up in your outbox.
(Oh shit, this thread was asking "why women don't reply to a proper message?" and not "why women don't reply to impolite messages?", sorry for the slight deviation from the topic).
I'm going to have to agree with Mr. Clean on this one. Some of us really do need to grow a pair of balls. Come on, you can say it with me: "I'm a man. I'm independent. Nothing can crush my balls! Nothing can crush my balls dammit!" LoL (oh and ladies...I know its difficult sometimes to relate to these "a$&holes" that send you obscene emails. But if you're offended, maybe you should let them know. I mean, you never know, they may just be extremely naive or uneducated in the field of behaviour and need a good blow to their ego in order for their mind to activate. It's only a constructive suggestion.)
(I apologize if I've offended anyone.) | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 7:55:42 AM | call me weird redemption25 but i respond to all emails. feel it is rude not to even if it is not the most positive of responses (thx but i am not really attracted to you. best of luck to you). like the pics and your profile btw  | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:43:14 AM | Redemption~ I reply to everyone that contacts me.
This is defiantely a thread that has gone around. Some people don't acknowledge the fact that there is a person (with emotions and feelings) on the other side of the computer. Online is very impersonal and whelp, the lack of responses to someone contacting them is evident of that.
It's not that hard to say "thanks for the E-mail but don't think we have anything in common"
BTW You may need to realize that when you contact someone they may look at your profile and see that you're just looking to hang out... and you can see the last 5 posts you've done.
That might turn them off a bit... 69.. sex with a pofer.. that kind of thing. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:51:25 AM | Touchme~ You are a very pretty girl. You're profile says you're looking for intimate encounters so it would only be normal for guys to see that and try to contact you.
But I do have to say... that it is VERY condescending to start off with "hun" in a thread.
Best of luck to you.. not sure what ur looking for? You're profile has look at me.. but don't contact me.... | |
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Posted: 8/22/2005 12:22:05 PM | it drives me crazy all these women have love to meet new people or just msg me to talk to me on there profile then when you im them they dont respond and ignore you atleast just say no thanks damn women (their all liers)) | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 1:19:09 PM | | Ive noticed this too, its really annoying, i say about 80 percent of the ladies on this site dont really want to meet, they just like the attention of having a full mailbox :) | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 1:28:13 PM | a couple of things
first of all, you're attractive, so i dont think thats the problem
i will say though.. that you state what you're looking for is to "hang out"
i think most of us are on here to try to find someone to date and maybe have more and its possible women dont reply because they view your ad and your response instantly rules you out
that being said, i know you're gonna say, "well why dont they at least get back and say not interested"
let me answer that
i USED to answer all emails
i used to say thank you but i'm not interested (but in much nicer words)
i would say at least 1/2 the people you say "no thanks" to, end up responding by sending you a nasty offensive message
that being said, why should i go to all the bother of saying "no thanks" if i'm rewarded with vulgar messages
personally i just dont want the drama | |
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Joined: 5/22/2005
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 1:44:21 PM | | I've had much better luck on another dating site where I pay to communicate with a woman. My impression is that because this is a free site, it's probably like being in a bar around closing time...with about 20 guys hovering around anything female that moves. As a result, women are inundated with messages and IM's because it doesn't cost anything to send them or message them. Therefore, any guy can send out literally hundreds of messages, kind of like a shot gun approach to it, and women are often overwhelmed with the hits they get, and cannot respond to all of them, even the good legitimate ones. Am I wrong in this assumption? | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 1:46:23 PM | Well, they might be "shooting" at the women with the T&A shots or the ones under 30.
I have found that I got a LOT fewer responses here than I did on a pay site. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 1:55:47 PM | hi..i've been following this thread for a while mainly because its interesting. I think...people get what they think they will get. I have a great female friend who has perfected the art of dating...jerks. A self-fulfilling prophecy.
To answer the question: women are selective and in charge of the mating ritual. Men are not.
the other thread that runs through here is a microcasm of today. For the most part, not all, but many women think men are jerks. Put four single women together and half their time is spent bashing males. I have never heard four men do that to the opposite gender; maybe thier ex's, but not the whole gender.
So when it comes to the respect issue...women do NOT respect men. Its pretty obvious...
Frankly, I believe its rude not to answer. But then, my mother taught me manners, and I am old-fashioned. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2005 1:56:24 PM | @61guy,
You have just enlightened me to a whole new, different way of thinking about this site, I couldn't quite put it into words, but I think you have. Thanks! | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 6:00:15 PM | nodomesticdiva-
here, here sister! however, don't even lower yourself to their level. this is what seperates the boys from the men and don't you know it.
on the positive side, i can honestly say i had one guy apologize after going psycho which totally took me aback. wow. i thought i had died and pigs were flying...he,he.. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 7:08:35 PM | Funny, when I don't reply to the obvious "jerks" that message me (not that there are many), I'm a rude, ignorant little pi$$ant.
If I don't reply to the friendly, yet totally creepy messages (actually.. there's many of those), I'm still a rude, ignorant little pi$$ant.
If I don't reply to a member of the self-styled "nice guy" brigade... yes, you guessed it, I'm still a rude, ignorant little pi$$ant.
If I reply to a member to tell him 'thanks, but no'...
... oh wait for it my little tulips... *drum roll*, I'm still a rude, ignorant little pi$$ant. Or Worse. Mostly worse. Sometimes even in a forum thread! Gosh!
No reply IS an answer and depending on how you approached making contact with me, likely the only reply you're going to get (unless, of course, you give me a vibe that rejection won't make you loony). Pretend for a minute that all people are sane and deal with it.
FYI, that last bit's directed at anyone who's angered by no answers.
I don't send out a whole heaping LOT of messages to guys who tickle my fancy, but when I do and then no reply is forthcoming, common sense tells me "he's not interested". I don't require a reason and he most certainly owes me (a stranger) NOTHING.
Now feel free to chime in about the whole me = "a rude, ignorant little pi$$ant" thing, but I know better.
Oh, don't forget the whole "yeah, I can see why they don't reply to you" thing, because I never get tired of that insult. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 8:07:28 PM | | You know what the worst thing? You take your time going through a person's profile and then you decide "Hey this person is good and would be great to get to know" then you go through the hassel of writing them an email. They never even have the gratitude of replying saying thank you for the touble of going thorough their profile. It sucks doesn't it? | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2005 10:28:54 PM | SDDude: I agaree...
Fortunately I would never write to someone that calls others "losers". She has salacious pics, is looking for an intimate encounter and then says "don't contact me". What a frigg'n egotisticle tease! 
For a long time we were taught to believe that women look for honorable qualtities like stability, honesty and loyality. Wrong answer... Women are just as superficial as men. Ironically in this age of equality they still rely on the guy to make a move. Why should they risk rejection when they can sit back and pick & choose. It's just reality... | |
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