| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:31:00 PM | | Everyone has such different taste. To be truthful...If I am not interested I do not reply. I think it would be mean to reply. I dont want to lead people on or be lead on. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:02:22 AM | Be a man for pete's sake and quit whining 
I've said it before and no doubt I'll say it again.....she doesn't owe you a damn thing.
YOU made the decision to put a lot of effort (hopefully) into an email to her, not her. If she's not interested, deal with it and move on. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:11:34 AM | [911 girlie girl, kinda hard for you to reply to someone 1000 miles away when they can't send you a message cause you have your message screener screening for people who only live close by...ohhhh...did we catch someone fibbing?...]
Hey longhairedlenny
I just checked and my mail settings show 20,000 miles...not sure why it wouldnt let you send a message...thats odd...
A friend of mine is in New Zealand and he and I chat on here all the time so I am pretty sure its been like that since I signed up...
Now please send me the joke.. I could use a giggle today...
Oh and for the record...Timmins is only 413.13 kilometeres from my place....  | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:14:32 AM | I would expect people who only post pics or thier tits and ass to not reply...
come on...if you contact them then you are just as superficial as they are.... | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 8:29:41 AM | The reasons people are listing are very valid. But in my profile I describe what I encountered many years ago. I've noticed many females use relationship sites to only get 'strokes'; they could care less about a relationship. Maybe if he had Ultra Bucks, was a celeb, or drop dead goergeous he might get recognized. But many are just collecting flirtations as they find it less time consuming than the bars. They really have no need of a man except for 'parasitite ventures' of which they are pros at deception.
Below describes it best from my profile:
"Why are we here? When I was younger, during Travolta's 'Urban Cowboy', being country was seen as cool. I used to spend a *little time* in the Cowboy bars; but I DID NOT BELONG THERE! I noticed this phenomena, that most females weren't really there to dance or even find a man. After close observation, I deducted they were mainly there to just get stroked, whether their egos or symbolically their genitals. They just seemed to be playing this game of "how many males really want me?" Latter the same players can't seem to understand why Karma has given them an unfaithful husband as their fate, as those who play games eventually are visited by Cronus(Greek Pagaen God Myth), the Grim Reaper with his sickle!
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:33:30 AM | | PRobably for the same reason MEN don't reply to an email sent to them...It's a two way street and very common on these sites. I take the time to reply if a man writes as I feel it's only gthe right thing to do..However, some will take the time to reply, some won't, and it's best to not let this quirk of internet dating get to you. You'll get many reasons why someone doesn't reply, chances are most not good ones, so just take it with a grain of salt and keep trying.. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 7/4/2006 2:49:11 PM | | I will usually respond with at least something...the exception is when they are from Nigeria or Africa and they send me three different IM accounts, their phone number, and their personal email in the first message....That to me screams SCAM and I delete it. However, if someone takes the time and thought to write out an actual message and they seem like a legitimate person, I will write them back....(send me a message and I will show you! LOL) | |
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Posted: 7/25/2006 8:09:52 PM | Yep, the no-reply sucks because the lack of closure.
One of the big reasons I feel online dating sites are popular is the flexibility or choice not to reply and not having to feel the discomfort of being put on the spot.
Come on! They've already shown us their photo, told us a bunch of stuff about themselves without us even having to say a word or look presentable.....and now they have to talk to us because WE want them to? Not fair.
I love having the opportunity to try to "pick up" women here, something I don't have the balls to do enough of in person, that might not be interested in me. If I don't get a reply, it sucks but I'm still in one piece.
Keep at it, Bro.
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 7/30/2006 5:41:08 AM | | oh...I just HAD to say something here folks. problem IS all to often, the guy dosent know WHAT any one women will take as a rude, vogular, off base letter. OR if its TOO wimply or not well written your STILL considered out of the game. so 8-10 seems guys cant win no matter WHAT the heck they write. sigh!! OR...there just plain not interested EVEN if you send a pic. phew.... but then if you blocked, your wondering. man oh man...now what did I say to offened this or that one.....no wonder guys are like, is it even worth it anymore to respond....but then women **** about....oh where are all the good ones? | |
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Posted: 7/30/2006 6:11:46 AM | Blah blah blah, women suck.
Blah blah blah, men are asses.
Blah blah blah, blah, blah.
Yada yada yada.
This is the way it is on here. Learn to live with it, find another site, or start your own. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2007 12:14:48 AM | Well, Redemption, if it helps, not sure it will...but you really don't have anything on your profile that indicates much about you so that might be why no one is bothering to reply. If you aren't putting it out there, no one is going to come back at you with anything to talk about unless you are asking some good questions when you inbox them. OP - I just read the threads that you respond to...... I personally wouldn't answer an email from you and I am not surprised you haven't participated again in this thread. I'm amazed it has got to 8 pages?    | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:32:46 AM | Meh, the no replies don't bother me at all.
It is their loss after all, and if they lack common courtsey on the internet, then they are likely to be just as socially inept in real life.
I realize that some women could get lots of emails, but really, is it that hard to have a "form letter" rejection word document saved you can copy and paste? A simple "Thanks but I'm not interested. Good luck!" doesn't take long to type at all.
If someone persists with negativity, then it is appropriate to ignore. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:31:02 AM | Hi I am new to this and trying to put the right things in message, I tried the pay sites last year and gave up at least its not costing me anything to learn , but if people are busy dating they should put thier profile etc on hold, also a lot are the same as guys saying nothing on their profile and we waste time sending them a message these are people playing mind games as we dont know what to say in the 1st place.
Like to add why are ladies agiest ? lots of ladies only want people younger and evenif they are say 49 51 is like too old. others dont want us because they have children and we dont. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2007 9:41:08 AM | | it does seem strange that we profile people to meet living nearby but the message says 75mls or 20000 strange also this site not to bad still has trouble knowing where some places are sometimes a typing error But some people profile says Essex where I live At 8pm at night when we get home from work we dont want to go 75 mls on a date so could we all provide a more local distance. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2007 11:08:35 PM | Well, in my experience i tend to never get a reply, IF i do, all they say is: thanks, but no thanks, i ain't chatting to a minger'
I don't remember the name of the woman that replied with that, but boy, she didn't look all that good herself, i was just interested in how she put her profile.
I can respect a woman for her honesty, but a woman that replies with such rudeness and immaturity doesn't deserve any respect what so ever.
I always respect a woman if they say that they don't see anything happening between me and her, but what i don't like is when they don't even have a chat with me, somehow a pic is enough to tell them what i am like....pretty dumb and narrowminded, if you ask me...but thats just my opinion.
I always reply to my messages even 1 word mails, which i get whenever a woman sends me a mail, which is rarer then getting a reply from one. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/17/2007 10:23:08 PM | Alright since the "Moderators" around here feel its necessary to delete a post that's a rant, I shall rant here.
A. Politeness.
Now, I understand that some women have been flamed after having replied a simple "No thanks" But they must understand its a very small minority of people who're like that. There are many men out there who can accept a simple no. And in my case, APPRECIATE a simple no.
B. Leading someone on.
This irritates me to no end. If you don't want to meet me damn well say so, I don't care if you say straight up "No, I don't want to meet you sorry" But if you say "Sure that sounds great, when and where?" And I say so, then you don't reply and delete my messages. What in hell am I supposed to think?
C. Just general manners etc.
The whole website would be a lot better off and people would in general find a match far quicker. If a few people got some lessons in manners & doing the right thing. All in all i've got one last thing to say, to all you women out there, when a man sends a genuine message, recognise it for what it is and perhaps just say no. There's a big old thing in this world called karma. Think about it. | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/21/2007 3:52:33 PM | Gentleman and Ladies(there trully *May* be a few) it's very evident that the reasons could be:
A) Many girls you have noticed *Never* check their mail nor Profile more than every few months.
Does not this action imply they are either not really interested and just players who want strokes?
B) Ever notice the female speacies is always weaving something?
Maybe a blanket to snuggle up with her in as your 'True bride'? Happiness abounding!
Maybe a few of those who appear as the female fesces are spinning a web like the Black widow, in that after the breeding ceremony you get devoured? You know marry her, have kids, get punished by the warden who may imprison you, then go directly to divorce court, pay alimony and child support, and for all she (that insect you lied to yourself about) cares you can die in the streets!
Naw, I didn't think any of you guys even noticed that beautiful dream!
**Or**
C) Are many of these gals just like those who are so vain collecting strokes while you symbolicly rub their genitals as they 'want nothing more than strokes betwween age 15-40? Then a few wake up, realize their biological clock is running out, and the others can not figure out for the life of them why a man *does not* want a 'Drama Moma' with kids from 3-5 different marriages and her appointments with the 'divorce court' of her so-called loves is as common as spaces in the 'monopoly game' that she jumps through?
In other words, when I was younger, during Travolta's 'Urban Cowboy', being country was seen as cool. I used to spend a *little time* in the Cowboy bars; but I DID NOT BELONG THERE! I noticed this phenomena, that most females weren't really there to dance or even find a man. After close observation, I deducted they were mainly there to just get stroked, whether their egos or symbolically their genitals. They just seemed to be playing this game of "how many males really want me?" Latter the same players can't seem to understand why Karma has given them an unfaithful husband as their fate, as those who play games eventually are visited by Cronus(Greek God Myth), the Grim Reaper who swings his sickle!
Guys wake up, there are these *Tramps* everywhre who are true players!
Like Christ pointed out ' be ye as wise as serpents' and 'beware of wolves in sheep's clothing'.
And don't even tell me you never met a few 'tramps' attending Church who knew the place was a great cover? Or, she edited the parts from scripture that didn't serve her means or agenda?
It's that on the 'personal's they can collect 'strokes' without going to the bars announcing what 'tramps'(there are Biblically harder words for such females) they really are! | |
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| why woman don't reply to a proper message?
Posted: 8/22/2007 2:52:56 PM | | Try fat women they respond. Thats the truth however much people might want to scream about it. What does it tell you? That theres a scoring system at work here and men start lower down because they ARE WEAK FOR BEING ON A DATING SITE AND WOMEN WANT POWER. Men just want looks. Primarily. | |
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