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 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Trust me.....If a female is interested in you, she will let you know, and then you need to find out if she is worth the effort to know.......especially if already with another man.

Right now she seems to be treating you like an option that will be added to her collection of Ken Dolls until needed.....and the real question becomes.......do you really want to be an option when her dance card is already full?

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 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 7/31/2013 9:20:15 AM
I always say if you have to ask if she is she probably isn't, or she's so socially dysfunctional you don't want to bother.

Options:
1. She enjoys the fact that you two get along.
2. She's keeping you on ice as a future prospect.
3. She's looking for attention.

Could be anything...but at the end of the day, she's not free to pursue any of it, so watch yourself...
 YesALOLOMG
Joined: 3/17/2013
Msg: 28
how you know a girl is interested
Posted: 7/31/2013 8:02:13 PM
simple.....
if she looks like this
http://static6.businessinsider.com/image/50dc7d68ecad04342000000e/the-overly-attached-girlfriend-explains-what-its-like-being-a-wildly-popular-internet-meme.jpg
she is interested
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 29
how you know a girl is interested
Posted: 7/31/2013 8:32:57 PM

Options:
1. She enjoys the fact that you two get along.
2. She's keeping you on ice as a future prospect.
3. She's looking for attention.

All of the above. She's taken so she's not in any position to jump ship any time real soon unless it's easy to pick up on that. She may be open to all-out cheating but you can't count on that.

Most likely, she's liking him as a potential prospect.... a have-your-cake-and-eat-it-too, although the BF would not be amused. She likes him but doesn't want to lead him on to think there'll be anything but doesn't want to scare him away either. She wants a "don't ask questions, don't think about it, let's just flow".

Asking her if she's interested etc is only going to push her away. If ya got a crush on her and don't believe in hooking up with a girl with a BF (which most people shouldn't) -- just go with the flow and don't worry about it. Use it as a sandbox for polishing up your "game" in a non-chalant manner. Tease her, since she's not "allowed" to cross physical lines. Have fun with it AND don't expect anything.
 remaining_optimistic
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 30
how you know a girl is interested
Posted: 8/1/2013 3:05:13 PM
just go and hang out with her and see what happens maybe she is tired of the current boyfriend and shopping around before cutting him loose. Maybe she just likes your company who the hell knows. Dont go in with expectations and you wont get hurt.
 Beaufuz
Joined: 9/24/2012
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/5/2013 12:39:49 PM
Sounds to me like she's not happy with her boyfriend or she wouldn't be acting so flirty. So you have two options:

1) Be honourable, and pursue her.
2) Be dishonourable, and don't pusue her.

In the course of my adulthood I've learned that if someone is really unhappy in a relationship and is flirting around it's only a matter of time before they split... so helping to expedite the process isn't entirely evil. However, people who "cheat" tend to have cheater tendencies, and it could come back to bite you in the ass one day.

So if you like her, ask her out and see what happens...
 DudleyDuRite
Joined: 8/31/2012
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/12/2013 10:42:46 AM
She has a boyfriend and is flirting hardcore with you? Guess what happens if you get her to dump her BF and she begins seeing you?
 HChristH
Joined: 5/26/2013
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Posted: 8/19/2013 2:05:26 AM
Your an Option and there could of been a deal breaker to get LAID!.!. Of course she has a man, she's not going to dump him to get with you, even if she did (don't you think, she could do it to you)... Either she likes you like a friend or wants to also get laid and just that.. She gave you the initiative to come to the pool and suggest you to dress in a certain way.. She wants you, but typical young woman that doesn't make up her mind and is so so with her man, leaving options, but obviously you don't want to be a left over option or the maybe, you need to have the mindset of getting laid or just becomes friends, say hi and bye, but don't waste my time mentality....
 jfwayne
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/17/2013 1:04:15 PM
To make her want it, take it away, make come to it. otherwise, leave her with the "boyfriend" BE THE MAN!
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