| Relationships and Strip Clubs
Posted: 10/30/2006 4:12:43 PM | | Strip clubs arent a big deal... touching strippers though... thats where I'd draw the line. Doesnt matter if its the girls or the guys going. Looking is fine, touching is no no. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2006 4:28:31 PM | Personally I have no problem if a guy I am with goes to the titty bar however I am not too keen on the butt naked clubs. Typically I also make it very clear that if you want to tip them on stage thats cool but if you start getting dances or anything more I am out the door. I have just had too many friends that were strippers and I know what really goes on. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2006 4:36:54 PM | strip clubs are for singles, unattached,,no reason to go...my men never did, I can do a strip tease dance just as good,,,LOL,,,but you are right,,NO TOUCHING!!!,,,
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Posted: 2/13/2007 9:59:40 AM | mmm.this is a bit tricky. i think it's important to look at context. i know some of my guy friends frequent such places often. i've joined them occassionally- and you're dillusional if you think nothing can happen there. look at who they're going with, how often, under what circumstances (occasional celebrations versus every wednesday), and ultimately- their character. most guys are smart enough to realize that strippers make a particular type of girlfriend and that they're usually walking STD buffets.
oh! and one more insight...if guys are trying to score with a stripper, they aren't going to spend a lot of money, they won't buy dances because then they move from 'potential boyfriend' into the 'client' category. there's a whole game plan with this stuff.
my apologies if i inspired further paranoia amongst the women...lmao...  | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 11:40:50 AM | | My girlfriend and I watched porn together. It's much better experience than go to a cabaret. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 11:54:33 AM | Personally I don't care if someone looks at the menu as long as they eat at home... that being said though, if its a regular habit then I think its a problem. If it is a once in a while thing for "special occasions" then fine.
I used to work with american clients who always wanted to be taken to strip clubs... so if you want the business then you gotta play the game sometimes... it just seems to be their thing.
I dont think it is right to be in the champagne room when you are not single though. Its one thing to be in the strip club but another league entirely when you are groping. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:19:32 PM | | You can look but you can't touch! That's how I feel anyways. I have no problem as long as it isn't an everyday/everyweek thing. Gosh, the girls are harmless there compared to your average bar. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:29:57 PM | | As long as he isn't making a habit out of it , I don't care if my boyfriend goes to strip clubs. Looking isn't touching! I'm not threatened by the presence of beautiful women, and have known a few strippers. Those girls are there doing their job and want to make money--they aren't interested in stealing anyone's man. I have gone with boyfriends to strip clubs in the past---it's just another sexy way to spend an evening, if that's what we're in the mood for! | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:30:14 PM | This is not an over-generalization: half the strippers in New York, are from Hungary and they speak broken English.
Examples: "No touch" or my favorite "We can go to champagne room, but we no sex." | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 1:42:47 PM | Not to mention that about 2/3 strippers are lesbians anyway LOL
(not saying that because they shot me down... my friend is a stripper and gives me the inside scoop ) | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 3:19:57 PM | | but what's the point in being in a relationship if ya can't be respectful and loyal to your partner? You might as well consider yourself friends with benefits. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2007 3:32:36 PM | | If you are in a relationship there is no reason to go to a filth hole like that. The female should be putting on her own lil shows for her lover. Strippers are dirty nasty and I dont even go when I'm single. One more thing, its pretty hard to go and just "look"..... | |
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Posted: 12/10/2007 2:24:30 PM | | yes i think that it is very disrespectful even if they dont get touched they are still paying to go in and watch i couldnt be with someone that would still go to strip clubs when we are in a relationship | |
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