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 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:32:36 PM
You know , if you have a damn problem with the women answering this, why don't you just come out and say what the hell the problem is..........enlighten me a bit!
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:33:46 PM
^^^ There's that HELL YEAH!! lol

Don't let the bitter fogies get the best of you.
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:36:34 PM
meaning there's a reason why you women are single! Most men don't want a woman who wants to go to strip clubs! Shows lack of class
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 29
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:38:48 PM
oh... chit.. puts on his hard hat and ducks for cover.. this is going to get ugly..

i feel bad for the women at them places.. I went to school with a few that became strippers.. it messed them up BAD
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:39:23 PM
Who said anything about us always going????.......if anyone needs to grow up it is the ones who assume! Scroll back to the other posts and read carefully.......slower if you need to
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:41:35 PM
yeah okay there "cute-athletic"...read carefully. We say, if the guy goes, then we're gonna go. What woman said she was going to go regardless if the man did or whatever? Read the posts before just glancing at who's posting. That explains why we're single? Yeah, avoiding little boys, like the kind who have posted in this thread. FYI, I'm single because I choose to be, do I say I'm looking for a date on here? I don't know about the others but I'm sure I'm not the only one.
 reynado

Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:43:31 PM
well here is one female that isn't sitting around letting guys treat me like sh*t that is not going to be in a relationship with a guy who patronizes strip clubs.

i certainly would not `forbid' anyone, i'd just disinfect and move on.

shame that for so many, no matter if stripping puts you through college or not, your butt will still be worth more to this culture than your brain.

peace
R
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:45:55 PM
^^^ She said it perfectly...my point in my first post. In what relationship would a man let his girl go to a male strip club while he went and did the same? It would have to be pretty 'OPEN', and those wouldn't really count as a relationship so the solution? Hit the bricks bucko!
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:46:47 PM
Yep I assumed ! Oh well you support it with "Hell Yeahs" and other things which I don't feel like typing.. Why would'nt I asssume this? Bottom line they are trashy places and women who attend them are T R A S H Y. Didn't say you but women! Little boys?
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:48:06 PM

FYI, I'm single because I choose to be, do I say I'm looking for a date on here?
Then why are you here? There are other sites for people like you that are just looking to goof off! Some of us are here for a relationship........people like you just make the threads full of shit that us that are looking have to trip over.
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:49:01 PM
Yes but look at the woman that are answering.....think about it.


biziedizie .... Would you care to elaborate on that statement? WTF do you mean?

*I believe that the only people who have a problem with their partner seeing a stripper are insecure with themselves and in their relationships.
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:50:24 PM

Most men don't want a woman who wants to go to strip clubs! Shows lack of class
Agrees 100%
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:51:16 PM
Um, in case you haven't noticed old man, it does say FRIENDS on here. Some people are perfectly happy with friendships and they don't constantly need someone to be in a relationship with them or don't always have to be looking for one. Know it alls also prove to lack class...and it's obvious why you're still single. Attitude check 1!
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:53:02 PM
Wow! enough with the attitude "little girl"
 astrosky

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:54:38 PM
I'm not too fond of strip clubs, personally. If a man is single, he can do what he wants. If he's in a relationship with me, and still needs strip clubs, he can take his choice. He's not going to have both.
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:55:16 PM
No attitude here, just stating the obvious.
Why don't you continue ASSUMING with other people's posts, don't do it with mine because you make an ASS out of U and ME.
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:55:23 PM

biziedizie .... Would you care to elaborate on that statement? WTF do you mean?
On this site no I won't as I don't want to tarnish your name......in private maybe......


I believe that the only people who have a problem with their partner seeing a stripper are insecure with themselves and in their relationships.


Or the guy has some class and doesn't want his buds to think that his wife is a whore......

Why would a grown up woman have the need to watch guys dance when she can have it at home?

Sounds like trailer trash to me! lol!
 am70sguy

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:58:51 PM
If you are in a good relationship, I don't see how the thought of a strip club would even cross one's mind. But I'm wierd like that, in a relationship, there is 'her', then there is everybody else.
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:59:01 PM

Um, in case you haven't noticed old man, it does say FRIENDS on here. Some people are perfectly happy with friendships and they don't constantly need someone to be in a relationship with them or don't always have to be looking for one. Know it alls also prove to lack class...and it's obvious why you're still single. Attitude check 1!
Hmmmmmm your 69? You look more like about 67......but then again the pics make you look about 12.....
 T,D and H

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:00:10 PM
It's not funny that women are for it and men are against it - it's perfectly normal. It's called a mating strategy....most of the guys saying they never go to strip clubs, etc are, in some cases, completely full of crap and in others, getting off on porn of all kinds anyways. By promoting themselves in the forum as enlightened men some may believe they are increasing their chances of finding the mate of their choosing.
For the women, it's no different. Being open to the idea will appeal to more men and make them more desireable.....Now that I've annoyed just about every single person on this thread...lol

I think the OP makes a good point, going to a strip club isn't all that big a deal. I was dead against it for over fifteen years but in the last three I have been to several and at times, I've really enjoyed myself. The touching issue is over the line though. I could handle my girlfriend going to a strip club with the girls from work (although women are totally out of control in those places from what I hear) but having some dude grind his junk in her face would piss me off....fair is fair.
Also, all bets are off in Quebec! Absolutely anything can and does go in many strip clubs there.
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:01:33 PM
Regardless what some of you think about the dirty ole strip clubs......those of us who like to go , do it because it's something we like to do. it doesn't mean we are dirty. It doesn't mean we need to grow up. It doesn't mean that we are disgusting. Perhaps you like cauliflower. I don't. Does that mean you are nasty? No! We just have different preferences! To each their own. Say whatever you wish about it, but when it comes to being disresepctful to people you don't know, i do not go for that crap. I think that in itself shows who needs to grow up!
 ~Songbird~

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:01:44 PM
You have to go as so low as to trying to insult me on my pics? Oh puh-lease! As for your another lame attempt to insult someone on here, you asked why would a grown up woman have the need to watch guys dance when she can have it at home?

Maybe because if the woman was coming home to you, she wouldn't want to see you dance...lmao
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:04:55 PM
I think they are trashy too, I would never go nor would I want my man going to them, I feel the same as the 2 girls who said " I would not forbid him to do it , I would just end it" and move on. I think it shows a lack of morals and I agree with Jimi I would not even want to touch a table in there who knows what you could catch
 cuteathleticman

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:05:44 PM
yeah she's 12 lol I understand if there is a party of some kind for your friend and you have to go but to just want to go says alot about your type of personality. ^^^^Can you say classy and hot!!!
 T,D and H

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 8/4/2005 10:07:15 PM
^^^^that's why all the guys are scrambling over each other to be against the idea^^^^

(OK....you know what I mean)
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