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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 28 | |
| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/10/2005 12:30:52 PM | | that would be fun to have 50 first dates over and over always making something completely different , it would be always refreshing to see a person amazed about me for the first time everyday . | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/10/2005 6:36:08 PM | | Certainly, First dates, 50 times. Nothing like be able to impress someone over and over. I'd spend my life loving someone like that if I had the opportunity. Just waiting for the right partner now. lol | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/15/2005 12:46:00 PM | Hmmm it could be something new and exciting everyday with the same person....
Maybe! Cant say for sure! Hmmm wack some sexy man over the head so he'll have memory loss everynight.... | |
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Celyne
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Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/15/2005 12:49:34 PM | Shouldn't you do that whether or not the person remembers you? You should always be considerate and do things for the other person to keep them in love with you and it should be reciprocated too.
That would be sweet if something like that happened.
I had a guy i'm sorta seeing (not sure if we are exclusive or not yet) take a ferry/drive a total of 3.5 hrs to jump start my truck (thought there was more than just that wrong...dude that tried to jump originally did it wrong)
I told him that was the nicest thing someone has ever done for me. And it was. He's a keeper :P | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:02:39 PM | | Actually I think in a way we all do this. Even when we are with someone we love everyday we are the person that they fall in love with, as soon as we change or whatever then they may fall out of love with us. I think love is something that we have to take one day at a time. | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 8/15/2005 6:03:18 PM | | you betcha........ I want to have that kind of love that feels like the first time EVERYTIME with him..... | |
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potion
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Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 38 | |
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| 50 First dates ... would you do it?
Posted: 2/15/2008 8:01:52 PM | | nonesense. In some cases being a good lover just happens naturally. Some people inspire strong feelings and maybe you have such good companionship you're not about yourself all the time | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 2/16/2008 5:33:01 PM | | I think I would...the "new relationship" butter fly's would never go away, that would make it soo exciting. Of course it would be frustrating sometimes, but it would be all about finding a way to make it work :) | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:30:23 PM | " [Would you go out of your way everyday to make the same person fall in love with you?/quote] "
uuhhhh . . . . what if she has professed to having ALREADY fallen in love with you . . . . but she prevents the potential relationship from developing?
And WHY is she preventing the relationship from developing? Because she professes to be a "functional alcoholic" . . . . and YOU do not drink.
Tell me . . . . NOW how much would you pay? But wait . . . there's more . . . . the 2 of you click, like you've never clicked with anyone before . . . . complete and total compatability, all the way across the board. Intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and your senses of humor were made for each other.
For months you have stressed to her that YOU feel the relationship would still work, despite the "lifestyle differences". You have a fantastic career, incredible benefits, unbelievable income (not too shabby for an un-educated, skinny little white dude) and you know, deep in your heart, that you bring a wealth of life, love and compassion to the table.
She concedes that she knows she will never meet another man like you, but is still willing to throw it all away. So finally, 14 weeks after the initial meet . . . . you decide you've had enough. Yet somehow, deep in your mind, and your heart, you find yourself wondering if you should still give her another chance.
NOW . . . . . how much would you pay? | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 2/16/2008 8:51:26 PM | In regards to the OP's original question, you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you . . .
But going "out of your way" every day to stoke the love-fires? Absolutely . . . that, to me, is an inspiring goal. It shouldn't really take us far out of our way to let our partner know how much we love them! After all, if that's not "on the way," I think the map's been misplaced . . . | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 2/17/2008 4:45:11 AM | I would absolutely go out of my way to 'make' someone fall in Love with me.
waaaaaaay out of my way......
aloha,
Kimbo~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 5/15/2008 12:16:23 PM | What can you do people walk away from love all the time. They may regret it later when they realize what all they have lost but they have to figure it out on their own. And who's to say when they come to their senses that you will be around or available.
Maybe she's an adult child of an alcoholic. Even even if they don't drink they can sustain damage. Maybe she's trying to spare you because she can't give love like she thinks you deserve or she's just afraid of intimacy. Alot of people are.
You can't put your life on hold and you control yourself only so you can only let go.
Why be in pain.
Desire creates suffering when you don't get what you desire so it is best to desire nothing. Esp when you have no control over outcome perhaps you should also not have much attachment to the outcome. It isn't real after all just a thought. It isn't within your power so recognizing your powerlessness can be liberating.
The past the future they can't touch you when you are in this present moment. And for now you can only live in the present because it is here. It is what you have for sure only NOW. | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 5/15/2008 2:35:02 PM | | I recently saw this movie. Kind of had me wishing that brain injury was really that "easy" to deal with. I speak from experience. My ex survived 5 brain injuries during our marriage. My middle daughter survived 4 brain injuries in a 6-year period. I struggled 24/7 for more than 17 years. It's a great movie, but I doubt I'd be able to go through something like that again. | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:10:42 PM | I'd like to have the same person fall in love with me every day for the rest of my life...
wouldn't that be something ?
I once had a first date that I'd be glad to repeat 50 or 100 times......maybe on date 101 I'd be able to breathe and maybe say something semi intelligent....
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:01:51 PM | I don't think you should have to go out of your way for the same someone EVERY day. You're allowed to have a few days a year where you've worked 16 hours and you are just a regular person without having to set up a huge event and propose.
In the movie, he didn't either, she woke up to a recording every morning...so, he could go on a business trip and just have her waken to that for a week and she'd have no clue, anyway. Hell, he could tell her he'd be back in the morning.
I can't imagine choosing to be in a relationship where you are unable to compromise, though. If the person can't remember the day before you're not a partner you are a care taker. If we're just going to compare movies: it would be like the end of "the notebook" without the sappy crap in the middle where she was a contributing member of the relationship. | |
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| 50 First dates...would you do it?
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:41:08 PM | | Heck yeah I would... I would try eveything I could think of, just to see the responses I would get. If it goes wrong no harm done. Its like hit'n the reset button on you Playstation when u messed up. Yeah that could be fun! | |
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