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 SXXXYLICIOUS

Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 26
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/6/2005 12:28:12 PM
- Watch his behaviour around you. If he is flirtatious in a subtle way, then he might like you. If he flirts with you outrageously, it might not be so genuine. If he doesn't do that at all, he could be just shy. But at this stage, watch to see how many times he glances at you throughtout the day and looks away.

- Watch his ears. If you talk to him, then it goes bright red, there might be a little bit of nervousness and shyness. This is not really a bad sign. It might actually mean he thinks of you in a positive light.

- Dont do anything rash. If you work with him, arrange a normal lunch hour with him. Just to hang out and talk.

- If you don't work with him, ask him out to lunch. Not dinner. But lunch or coffee.
 stats

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 27
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/7/2005 7:01:54 PM
Dear Spellbound

This is a million dollar question,alot of people have.Do you take the risk of looking to forward or perhaps not knowing if things could work out?I wish there was a clear answer,but god knows ,i think you have to go with whats in your heart and take the risk some time in life.Good luck and hope it works out.
 stats

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 28
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:32:27 PM
OH GOD ,YES IT IS HARD,BUT YOU HAVE TO GO WITH YOUR HEART,TELL HIM AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS OR YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.AT LEAST MAYBE YOU WILL BE FRIENDS.JUST TELL HIM YOUR ATTRACTED TO HIM.
 Blastfemme

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 29
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/29/2005 8:03:26 PM
This is simple. "Hey, I find myself being really attracted to you, would you like to go out some time?" What are you so afraid of? I don't get it.
 happening

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 30
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/29/2005 8:17:01 PM
Hey Darling, if you like this fellow and want to let him know you like him in a subtle way, then allow him, or give him, the opportunity to sit close to you, and when he does, brush up even closer to him! If you can get him to touch you, say on your leg, then you have a green light to, say, put your hand on his hand, which is on your knee; or being more aggressive, to a blind oaf who doesn't pick up on your signals, try to touch him in subtle ways, like brushing up against him even closer so you are actually touching him, say your leg leaning on his. If he doesn't get it - forget it!! Touch was, from my past experience, always one of the best ways of a woman clueing me in on the fact she liked me!! That, and buying me frosty!!

P.S. Subtle touching is probably one of the most powerful tools for evoking emotions and response from a potential lover! If you can get him to touch you, he will be yours!!
 Hockeygirl777

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 31
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How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/29/2005 9:13:23 PM
My heart goes out to you hun, I'm in the same situation. I'm just going to show him and then tell him, i've come to the conclusion that if I don't I will spend the rest of my life wondering "what if" and regret it. Regret is worse that rejection. Go for it, what's the worst that can happen.
 Blastfemme

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 32
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 2:50:11 AM

Sure!!....wanna go for a coffee


I don't drink coffee, and you shouldn't either.
(it makes your semen taste bitter)

I'm such a helper.
 teddybare0

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 33
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 3:15:32 AM
If you eat oranges for a month it is said to give your semen a citrus flavor.
 AI03™

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 34
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 3:57:22 AM
him over the head.. might give him a clue
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 35
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 3:59:35 AM
That's why my head hurts ... still didn't get it
 AI03™

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 36
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 4:00:26 AM
Still don't think you do.
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 37
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 4:11:26 AM

but someone in the same building who I have dealings with on a regular basis

How about suggesting a 'booster' = coffee (half way through the morning)?

Good luck!
 Lilkym77

Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 38
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 6:42:52 AM
i am very hypocritical because i can never take my own advice but definitly find a way to let him know. its definitly better to at least know then to always wonder what if.
 Tony411

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 39
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How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 11:37:54 AM
Why not, "Hey, you know, I like you. What do you think we start dating?"
Any guy who turns that into an awkward situation is gay. If the guy turns out to be gay, you've saved yourself lots of time and turmoil.
 Blastfemme

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 40
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 12/31/2005 4:45:34 PM
If you're a coffee drinker, I suggest you counter that with a tall, cool glass of pineapple juice. Just a little consideration goes a long, long way. I'm just trying to prepare you for that mind-melding session, you know?
 teddybare0

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 41
How do you let someone know you're interested?
Posted: 1/10/2006 3:55:00 AM
Way to keep it going blastfemme, so do you like oranges.....lol. So if a guy eats a pineapple a day for a month straight, would his semen taste that way?????
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