| Why are you single? Posted: 2/7/2007 7:14:22 PM | I just haven't met the right woman. I don't even know a single one that I'd like to date. I guess that means I'm picky, but I can't really change that. I also have a nice life and don't really feel any desperate need to find someone.
Well, I guess I'm desperate enough to try this site, but that's about it. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/9/2007 12:37:50 PM | | Cause people don't like quiet, introverted people apparently. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/10/2007 9:32:02 PM | | If you want your pockets to jingle, stay single. Also leaves out the drama for your mama!!!! | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/10/2007 10:37:11 PM | I am single because no one has come along and realized what a great catch I am.
Wish they would though. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/12/2007 4:32:32 AM | | Single out of choice. Lot's of opportunity but I want to find the right fit, getting tired of this game. Though, the forums are great | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/13/2007 1:14:56 AM | why am I single? Because you can only scream "this is who I am!" so many times into the silence before you say "aww, forget it." Actively questing to get out of singledom requires too much time and energy that I'd rather devote to other things.
if it happens, it happens. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/27/2007 2:30:37 PM | I choose to be single until I find the right one. I will not settle for second best. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/27/2007 6:03:39 PM | | i guess technically it is by choice that i am single lol but at the same time i havent found anyone of any interest to me to start a relationship(at least thats what i keep telling myself lol) | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 2/27/2007 6:04:41 PM | | cause i havent found anyone who interests me to the point where i want to be with that person | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 6/25/2007 2:09:02 PM | I'm singel becaues the only girls that have every been interested in my were a little over the top.
Every girl I have ever had any interest in wouldn't even give me the time of day.
I"ve always been single, so there's prolly something pretty wrong with me. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 12:32:36 AM | I dont have time for anyone. I juggle enough things. If I add another thing, I might fall.. :) And I am picky!
But I'm on a dating site.. well see "que sira sira" | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 1:36:20 AM | I love this question ...lol ......here is my answer to why I am single and loving it. Men are like candy. There are so many flavors and seeing life is so short , why settle for one , come on ladies , you wouldn't walk into a candy shop full of samples and test just one would you.  | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 12:29:40 PM | | I'm not single by choice, someone else chose to end my husband's life. I've met a few guys, but there hasn't been any yet that sparks my interest. However, the past few years it's been my choice to remain single. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 5:03:50 PM | Not everyone had the choice...
But it's all coming back together now...
I think, I hope... | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 5:18:57 PM | Why am I single............cuz I was never asked to get married!!
But seriously folks, out of curiousity.....is it really worth the time an effort to find that *someone special* using on-line dating sites? I would appreciate any insights.. Thanks in advance! | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 7:36:56 PM | I didn't "Choose" to be unattached . . I've been actively searching for the Last Partner that Either of us will ever need . . ever-since [recovering from] losing my wife, in '98 . . I made her a Promise . . and until I start actually start _FEELING_ my age . . I will continue to find someone that I can ' . . Love . . as strongly . . and as completely . . as I did Her . . !!! ' ~ It's my ' Choice ' to search for Life, Love and Happiness . . ! ~ | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/26/2007 8:26:00 PM | There are several reasons...
* I need to learn how to be strong on my own... figure out who I am and what I want... love myself before I can love anybody else
* Relationships bring a lot of unneeded stress... I have enough of that in my life as it is
* I don't want to get hurt again
* I don't want to accidentally hurt anyone
* I don't really trust myself right now... am still getting back on my feel trying to make sense of things.
* A relationship is not one of my priorities... Family, Education, Friends and Health is.
* I'm not over my ex... not so much him... but how he impacted my life and turned my entire world upside down. I'm still dealing with the emotions attached to the memories.
*I don't really trust too many people right now | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/27/2007 8:16:54 AM | | i get headaches that make dating impossible and relationships intolerable. so, i've remained single and quite happy about it. of course, i'd enjoy it more without the headaches. | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/27/2007 10:54:49 AM | Got married once, almost twenty years ago now, found out that it was all a rather meaningless gesture. The marriage lasted less than two years. She had an unannounced agenda that came to life during our honeymoon, no less. That, was that I was to be her slave, more or less, but, preferably more! Suddenly, I found myself without a vote in my own home, and life. Her way, or the highway was how it was going to be.... So...after having my life trashed out for two years, she bailed...only because I didn't. I think that was what she was after, then she could be victim! As it was, she had to settle for trashing me, and, twenty tears of work went down the tubes....not too mention my stomache lining and mental health. Now that I've been educated, properly, in the realities of what it is to be a husband and a father, and what my legal rights are as such, single is preferable! It's taken almost twenty years of work to get back to where I was, financially, mentally, and even healthy again, emotionally, as I was in my twenties. Not terribly anxious to risk going through all of that again and don't have the years of life left to do it all again, anyhow! I'm in my fifties now, past my "best before" date. I used to want for a "relationship" but, really don't give it much thought anymore. I have my galpals, and, do date from time to time. Sex is nice, however, I've learned that there's usually, a fairly hefty price tag attached to it. Thinking of starting a new business venture soon. That will keep me most occupied and, rule me out for many females anyhow, most seem to hate start-ups, too time -consuming and risky. If, and/or when, it becomes successful, there will always be lots of interested parties, once all of the heavy-lifting of getting there, is done! In the meantime, I'm quite enjoying the forums!  | |
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| Why are you single? Posted: 10/27/2007 5:27:19 PM | Single because i'm too shy to ask a beautiful woman out that i talk to.
Also, for fear of rejection from the woman mentioned above. | |
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