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 fireman1990

Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 1226
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/28/2008 9:47:27 PM
i honesty have no idea
probably cause im too shy to ask a girl out
i mean i have been told im handsome sweet funny hot cute all those things
i mean im athletic and all that stuff
 WanderingRonin

Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 1227
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:55:51 PM
Because I'm a baaaaaad person!!! wooooo!!!
 CuteChick4u

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 1228
Why are you single?
Posted: 11/29/2008 7:52:32 AM
Why are you single?........hummmmmmmmmm

a question that's been asked to me over and over, and overrrrr again, lol

Well, it's probably because I cannot seem to find the man I would like to be with for the rest of my life, or I haven't really fallen in the way I want to.

Therefore, I think it may be time to give up now !! and find my own way as a single woman, and forget about all this stuff.

It happened once, and it looks like it will never happen again,
 brn_eyed_gyrl

Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 1229
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/29/2008 8:53:20 PM
I am single because my ex-husband and I had a big disagreement. He thought it was ok to have girlfriends during our marriage and I disagreed.
 raxarsr

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 1230
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/29/2008 9:47:37 PM
i'm single because my ex likes money.when i goy hurt and couldnt work any longer..she left
 laughing_fire

Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 1231
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/29/2008 10:18:47 PM
I'm single because the guy I was dating
1) didn't have enough time for me because he was a workaholic
2)cheated on me then proceeded to avoid me for a whole week after the fact
3) he was hung up on a girl from his past and wanted to sleep with his ex when me, a perfectly good person was waiting to give him whatever he wanted/needed (something is obviously wrong with me lol)

So yeah, I wasn't about to subject myself to a relationship that wasn't really one at all, and to playing second fiddle to another woman. Even to this day he avoids me and acts like a prick.
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1232
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 6:41:04 AM
Most men do not prefer a woman of substance who is educated, feisty, and who has not been married and has no children. The things that I view as attributes seem to be seen as negatives to men.
 angelmeforu

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 1233
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 2:54:59 PM
Don't want to be but cannot find anyone suitable?
Where the heck are they?
Normal, just normal, seems simple enough, but so tough to find.
 psycosocial

Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 1234
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 4:04:35 PM
Lets see. I work alot out of state for months on end, and my ex has a bad habit of cheating on me whenever I leave for some reason. She always wants me back whenever I go home, but not this time.

She left me for a woman this time. Its kind of insulting......and......sadly aroussing all at the same time

The thought of a three way has crossed my mind a time or two so dont bother asking. Sadly I really loved the girl, but it was her or my career apparantley. Their are no solid jobs where Im from so I really didnt have a choice
 Tesla Roadster

Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 1235
Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 4:08:33 PM
So that I can keep my eye out for someone I can respect ;~)
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1236
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 5:29:20 PM
I just cannot find an Italian man who has a stellar sense of humor who enjoys cooking, singing, dining in eclectic restaurants, looks smashing in a suit, and is crazy about me.
 ipfreak

Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 1237
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 5:33:49 PM
who do you define the term of "being single"? never married? divorced? live together but not married? have kids but never married and now have no partners either?
 DonnieM

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 1238
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Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 6:28:04 PM
Hummmm, thats a good question. I got tired of all my ex-wifes boyfriends I guess. Thats what happened there, but now. I have no freak'n idea........
I can think of all kinds of excuses but i guess the real reason is the right one just has not come along yet.
Being extremely shy does not help much either.
 read only

Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 1239
Why are you single?
Posted: 11/30/2008 8:17:48 PM
"She left me for a woman this time. Its kind of insulting......and......sadly aroussing all at the same time"

Toooo fricken funny but oh so true!!!!!!


Well lets see why am I single.

1. Recently laid off. Not exactly a way to impress a possible lifetime mate.
2. I tend to be quite a bit shy, so I am afraid to make that move
3. I also tend to be a bit picky. I love sporting events and would love to find a woman who enjoys them as well.
4. It is very difficult to find genuinely good people these days so I am a bit cautious especially having a child I am highly involved with.
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1240
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Why are you single?
Posted: 12/3/2008 11:11:08 PM
My job entails working with children who sometimes have a lot of problems, both physically and emotionally. This means that I wear several hats at work, one being my social worker type hat when dealing with all the trauma and drama that their families seem to enjoy creating and thriving on at times. It is draining, although I give 200 percent of myself at work and love my job. Men who do not require me to deal with an excessive amount of drama and trauma in their lives are the ones who interest me, and these seem to be hard to find, being that I try to maintain a personal life that is free of drama and trauma...i.e....does he complement my life or complicate it?
 Silver Vixen

Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 1241
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Posted: 12/4/2008 7:37:55 PM
Why am I single? Well, if I was in a loving, committed relationship, then I would miss all this sitting alone at night, staring at pictures on my computer, sipping my Black Russian, reading profiles of men who say, over and over again, that they are waiting for women to contact them, fun loving, beach hiking, gourmet cooks who prefer to watch a girl-flick with a box of tissues. This kind of sublime pleasure just wouldn't be the same if a thoughtful, emotionally generous man was sitting beside me at the computer saying things like "that one looks promising - why don't you contact him?", would it?
 mosin

Joined: 12/1/2008
Msg: 1242
Why are you single?
Posted: 12/4/2008 8:42:57 PM
Ooh, that's a loaded question. I could write a multipage essay on the reason I'm single.

I could make a bitter remarks about an ex (Why that lyin' cheatin'...)

Or make humorous observations. (In my family tree, I am considered to be the sap.)

Instead, I'll go with the way I see it.

I'm single because that's how life has turned out to be for me. Decisions have been made and lines have been drawn. I decided that I would be happier to be single, than to put myself into a bad relationship just so that I could "be" with someone.
 Tisha Mc

Joined: 9/7/2008
Msg: 1243
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Why are you single?
Posted: 12/4/2008 11:29:36 PM
A bunch of reasons:
I'm too shy to approach someone that I am attracted to
My personality is so all over the place that there aren't many people that have similar interests
I'm not willing to have sex before marriage
I will not compromise just to be in a relationship (I'd rather be single)
I have no idea how to flirt
According to this site, I'm only a 5 (that's my pic rating)
And I'm sure many other reasons
 Pattyw286

Joined: 8/28/2007
Msg: 1244
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Why are you single?
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:46:09 PM
I am single cause I haven't found a good man to have a healthy relationship with
 Tesla Roadster

Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 1245
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Posted: 12/9/2008 4:19:11 PM
My hot water bottle jus dumped on me!
 Lilith_1

Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 1246
Why are you single?
Posted: 12/9/2008 4:33:30 PM
Confidence and often my lack of it! Not beliving in myself.
 CuteChick4u

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 1247
Why are you single?
Posted: 12/9/2008 5:01:00 PM
Why are you single? Another reason, could be I m often in alot of pain, and don't want to burden anyone,

Yeah that's life, what can you do,


 read only

Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 1248
Why are you single?
Posted: 12/9/2008 11:07:42 PM
"Why are you single? Another reason, could be I m often in alot of pain, and don't want to burden anyone,"

Yes the name matches the chick.

I know what you mean though. I won't go into my details, but I feel I would be a burden on someone right now. So I will continue to look and read!!!
 7rainbows

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 1249
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Why are you single?
Posted: 12/10/2008 1:05:23 PM
my ex of 14 years was boring, nothing in common, no communication, no attraction any more so i ended it. Got rather attached to a guy i discovered to be a drug dealer so got out of that, then found a really nice bloke i had loads in common with, fell for his charm, believed his lies, got spiked by him for his own entertainment, treated me like shit, compared me to his ex, told me i was too fat, complained my hair wasnt curly enough, told me when my nail varnish didnt match what i was wearing, critisised my accent so i dumped him

Now im single again and happy, confident and starting to enjoy life again. Who needs to be attached ffs.
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