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 dodgerdan

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 126
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:10:05 AM
Lavalife "SUCKS" Your money away to.

When I got hooked up with POF, what a difference. So easy to fallow along,
for the most part.
Still exploring new things on this site.

POF RUELS


But i know what you mean Kitchna3. I live just out of T.O. to and had the same problem when i started.

THAT SUCKS

I have met a few fishes here some wierd but all fun. Hope to met lots of new ppl and friends here and at alot of the POF partys. I even caught a few my self.
I USED MY NET LOL


In all this sit rocks, keep up the good work and I will keep telling my single friends abut the,


BIG FISH WOOOHOOO
 Paradox2006

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 127
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 7:16:06 AM
I think lavalife is by far a superior dating site. POF is more of a "meeting friends and hangout" type of site... it's always the same people... and it's a haven for specific types... Lavalife on the other hand because they charge money, they advertise, and they have a really good web team. and there's all kinds of women, from all ages and walks of life... and there's always new people signing up. Sorry to say it, while I really like POF, I think lavalife is a far more superior dating site.
 blueeyessmile

Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 128
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 8:52:09 AM
There is more diversity on Lavalife, and it is a bit more polished. Which does attract a number of people.

They also seem to be a bit more serious about wanting to find and meet someone on that site.. while here on plentyoffish they like to chat alot.. lol I do like the forums though.

But, I've always a firm believer in using whatever tools are at your disposal and I'm happy to be on this site as well. It all boils down to meeting that special someone and it doesn't matter if it happened on this site or that one :)
 Derps

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 129
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:10:02 AM
POF totally beats out lavalife, its free, has a forum which allows group mingling, loads faster, the list goes on...
 susieq321

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 130
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:43:44 AM
I don't mind lava... I never buy credits, I tend to find the guys read the profile and contact you and are a little more serious on Lava.

Although I do love the POF forums.
 SBS13

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 131
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:31:44 AM
I used lava for all my online dating, yes it cost some, but no more then if you were to go to a bar, buy someone drinks and go home empty handed...LOL
I had somewhere between 20 and 30 dates from lava in just under a year on there. It's where I met my girlfriend.
New to this site, and really this site seems to be more about forums, group activities and less about dating....
For the ladies that want to try lava, put a profile up, and you will never have to buy credits...LOL
I agree it seems to be more for the serious people looking to hook up with someone, instead of the group atmosphere here. But the forums and discussions here are a treat.
 Froggy007

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 132
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:24:26 PM
Everyone is simply saying the same thig over and over (it's free compared to Lavalife). That's fine and dandy but I think this site needs major work. It's unorganized a compplete mess with ads everywhere and in-consistent in contents per page and navigation. Sure it's free I guess that's what we have to suffer with. Lavalife isn't free but the layout and organized features and consistency (menu bars etc..) is very nice for me as a user to use. I still put up with all the problems this site has because it's free. It would be 100% better if POF had a better layout and was easier to navigate around. I don't know how many people i know come to this site and have no idea where the forums are. And felt completly confused in using it. A better forum layout and features would be good also.

-Froggy
 spoiledsambo

Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 133
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Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:27:39 PM
Ya get on Larva and the nights start flashing, backstages poppin up, people lined up to chat.....to complicated and frustration for me!!!! POF rocks. Found great people on here without breakin out a sweat.
 lonely46

Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 134
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:52:13 PM
On POF, most women do not even bother replying to my messages, I got 'blocked' just for sending a nice 'hello'

I think that matchcontact is a lot better
 The Un Cola

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 135
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/24/2006 4:23:33 PM
i would be happy to pay for this site "Ple Of Fish" nothing worse than a high percentage of freeloaders with no credit "in so many ways" entertaining themselves.
 Admin

Joined: 3/27/2001
Msg: 136
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Lavalife.
Posted: 2/26/2006 11:28:10 AM
Plentyoffish is now 4 times the size of lavalife.

43% of all users in canada on plentyoffish have paid for a dating site. That percentage is low because plentyoffish is so big and has brought so many users to online dating. In the USA 68% of all signups have paid for using the site. I'm sure on lavalife they have similar percentages because women never have to pay unless they are unpopular. Hot girls will get hundreds of messages and it costs nothing to reply.
 theeyeofsilence

Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 137
Lavalife.
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:48:31 PM

43% of all users in canada on plentyoffish have paid for a dating site. That percentage is low because plentyoffish is so big and has brought so many users to online dating. In the USA 68% of all signups have paid for using the site.


So does this mean that Canadians are cheaper than Americans.... or wiser
 Caper55

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 138
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:33:11 AM
I agree ... "nothing worse than a high percentage of freeloaders with no credit "in so many ways" entertaining themselves." You forgot to mention users, abusers, people who wantonly disregard the feelings of others to get what they want. The necessity of a credit card on other sites gives a bit of credibility to the user, it may not be much but better than nothing ... which is why I am registered on another site now in addition to this. And in 2 days have found that men there are very serious ... this site is more like (probably becasue it's free) - a free for all and people are getting hurt. I think if you pay for it you take it more seriously ...
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 139
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:38:25 AM
I beg to differ Caper55...I was on lavalife for a long while (too long...women just don't want to give you the chance on there), and when I did talk with a woman about how her experince was like on the site she would always spill about the guys on there that would drop them after so many days. This is true of any online dating website, men and women act the same way no matter if its on a free site or a paying one. And saying that someone has a credit card gives them better crediblity is just rather naieve. Credit Cards can be forged, stolen, be used by teenager thats not legally within the age to be on the site, or on a joint account with their wife/husbad. Should he/she be trying to say they are single. The point is you never know, free or paid, the internet can blanket the truth from people at times, but much like all things in life...its gamble one way or the other.
 The Un Cola

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 140
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:35:21 PM
hey you live in London dont you its 3 women to one man . all about life insurance
 The Un Cola

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 141
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:37:10 PM
i just stand up and put on my coat and rest my case
 MissCheviousOne

Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 142
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Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:08:35 PM
Well put Jet, could not agree more.

I've been doin the lava thing for a while too, meh, nothing to write home about.

I love the forums here, like the vibe around the site, find it easy to navigate and I'm goin to my first POF bash in Oshawa tomorrow night, so that's a big bonus I would never have found that elsewhere. Have been a member here for only 2 months but I feel like I've known some of the folks here for a while already, it's very friendly on many levels.

I was wondering, I heard about this site from a friend, word of mouth so to speak. What is the percentage of people that sign up that way? Seems to me it's quite high.

Good job guys, I love it here.
MissC
 barefootcora

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 143
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:55:38 PM
POF is a million times better than lava.

The major thing is that it's free- which means I find many many more people my age on here because when you're a studetn who can afford 30$ a month extra for a website?

the forums are great, I love the layou of the whole thing. You're IM actually works!

all and all I'd never go back
 Sexysassy46

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 144
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/4/2006 6:14:24 AM
Lavalife sucks for sure ....POF ROCKS.....theres no site that even comes close to this one....all my singles friends are on pof now and they love it....All the other sites are just out for the money i joined lavalife a while back you cannot even email anyone unless you have there credits to mail someone......And as for all the other so called FREE sites on line have all went to pay sites now.....They all want a piece of the all mighty dollar but they will not get my dollars cause my kids get to them first lollollol ........Happy fishing everyone....three cheers for P.O.F....................
 Admin

Joined: 3/27/2001
Msg: 145
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Lavalife.
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:52:55 PM
I think paying money = quality is more about perception then reality. From my experience, doing affiliate stuff, a good 45% of all people that signup for lavalife are looking for sex. Lets also not forget the MSN study, that said 30% of poeple on lavalife and yahoo canada were married.
 Ceileigh

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 146
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:58:04 PM
ok...just to clarify...if people pay to be on lavalife, yet 45% are looking for sex....wouldnt that make them....ummm....i dont know...not even gonna say it..umm, starts with a P and ends in a P?

ETA: sorry, didnt know that this was a thread started by admin...ok, well i dont really know how it compares, i personally havent used Lavalife, but i wouldnt pay to have to email somebody, thats just dumb...its enough that you have to pay on a date, maybe even long distance telephone calls...but to send an email? i dont think so....I really like PoF...been going to parties lately, great way to meet people... the only thing i dont like on here is the IM service, but i just turn mine off....love PoF!
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 147
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/13/2006 7:59:06 PM
Partypoopers? Hmm..maybe.
 LL3

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 148
Lavalife.
Posted: 3/13/2006 8:03:28 PM
Hmmmm...lets see here, I"ve been on Lava, still have a membership and guess what? Since meeting some awesome people from there.....(and not in the Screw Me side), I've brought them over to here.....Now, guess where I heard about Plenty of Fish? Hmmmm. One guess....Yep, that's right, Lavalife.... So, just because you've had a bad experience or two from there, doesn't mean we all have... Like was mentioned in a thread here in the last few days......it's a tool...Use it how you wish...We're going to get the bad experiences from any site we venture on..... POF is no better or worse than any other site.. Ya, it's free, but there is a lot of unwanted mails to sift though... Big Fish has a good thing, but Lava, or any of the other sites have their niche as well....
 mystrygal

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 149
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Lavalife.
Posted: 4/3/2006 7:02:11 PM
this site rocks....what more can I say...checked out lavalife
but found most of them are right here in our fish pond so
why venture out of the pond...
 RalGash

Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 150
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Lavalife.
Posted: 4/3/2006 7:19:35 PM
I tried Lavalife and found them way too complicated.

You spend 30 minutes just filling out registration crap and questions when you first sign up.

Certain simple details on your profile you can not change on your own. You have to email them what you want changed and wait a few days.

You can only reply to messages if you don't pay them.

Thier customer service seriously sucks as well. Thier really nice but they really haven't a clue what thier doing. Not to be insulting to blondes but that is what I actually picture. Some blonde chomping gum going 'I dunno, can you tell me your username and email again I can't seem to find it'

Compared to many dating sites, and trust me I've tried quite a few free and paying. Plenty Of Fish is by far the best one I've tried. I've been enthusiastically advertising it to friends and on my own sites.
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