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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 52 | |
| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 12:55:40 PM | yeah ,
I fixed a problem before for my best friend female , she is stupid and always crashing cars , she broke her mom's car , I bought another one , now that is very stupid , I regretted it , she never learned her lesson and I stopped helping her in that fashion , makes , irresponsible people more irresponsible. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 1:20:54 PM | Wow! This is a tour de force in irrationality!
She comes in here looking for advice on where or not she should commit a crime and file a fradulent insurance claim for some mommy's boy. Joy, filing a false insurance claim is a FELONY in most places and will at least cost you your insuurance. Furthermore, they won't cover the loss on a fraudulent claim.
When people tell her "don't do it" she RAGS them like a CURmudgeonly old mutt.
Joy, go ahead and do it.
DO IT! c'mon woman! Be a better man than your man.
When you insurance goes up for the next several years you'll remember the advice of the SMART people in here
When the cops come knocking at your door and cuff you up for insurance fraud, you'll remember
When this irresponsible, sissy little mommy's boy dumps you like a bad habit while you sit in jail on the fraud charges and you're still paying his bills if and when you get out, you'll remember
When you child tells you a lie and you try to correct her for same, you'll remember
When thecity/water company sends you a bill for $2,000 for the hydrant, you'll remember
When you child does something irresponsible and refuses to accept responsibility and wants you to take a fall for her, you'll remember
When you child steals something and gets caught, and insurance fraud is stealing, you'll remember.
What kind of scumbag (alleged) adult "man" takes him mommy's truck without her permission, knowing that it is in poor mechanical condition (what must HIS be like?) and then wrecks it (one of many from the sound of things) and expects a woman to take the fall for him because he's afraid of his mommy?
You say his mommy is his "best friend"?
What kind of sissy-boy lies to his mommy and to his best friend?
And what kind of LOSER has his mommy for a best friend?
Nevermind. I think you just showed us "what kind of loser"
And what kind of woman would have children with a lying, sissy mommy's boy who expects her to commit crimes to hide him from his mommy's wrath?
I honestly don't know which of the two of you is more nauseating, but in any event, you deserve each other so just DO IT.
The world needs more criminals, doesn't it and this will be a fine role model for your daughter. Kids need to see their parents cuffed and stuffed for felonies. It makes them much happier children....NOT! | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 1:24:16 PM | Sounds to me like joy and lil have some things in common, they both allow others to 'use thier space' and then taint it....in the 90's his was called codependency, and a disease. Where we were somehow unaccoutable for our actions and needed 'treatment.'
In this decade we call it something else entirely. We call it like we did in the old days, being responsible.
I would have told your friend to start her own profile if she needed others' opinions so desperately. And after getting the opinions, actually thinking about them, instead of demeaning anothers place here, all in being defensive, and listening to the few people that were in reality trying to help. May you have some respect for both of yourselves and those that commented here. Now lil is doing a lot of apologising, perhaps there was more than one lesson here.
But I remain opinionless on what to do about the whole truck thing, some people need to learn their lessons first hand. That is their right. And perhaps this young man, can continue his life having others take accoutability for it/him. Tralalalala... | |
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MikeJ
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Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 55 | |
| Would you do this for your man???
Posted: 8/11/2005 1:38:59 PM | | You'll never be able to maintain the lie. It's hard enough when you actually did the deed.. but you didn't do the deed and you WILL BE CAUGHT INTHE LIE EVENTUALLY. At that time, things will be worse. Not only will his mother think you're kind of an idiot, she will also think you're a liar and she will NEVER trust you in the same way again. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 1:43:21 PM | no no no your driving rac, is good it should stay like that, and no MAN in his right mind would do that to someone they love, so say you where in the car with him so you can have your open, with his mom, ooooo and crayola is hot and she be hot on a pole and make more money then you or your ilresonibil man sorry,, | |
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| Would you do this for your man???
Posted: 8/11/2005 2:35:45 PM | | Lies never stay buried, and think how upset she'll be when truth comes out, it will be much much worse than him just being a man and stepping up. Your not helping him....but making it worse, think about it. Is he out of diapers yet? | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 2:43:15 PM | HELL NAH!
This is his responsibility, not yours. I do not care if it was an accident. By you being so quick to take the blame , seems like you are hiding something. Your flawless driving record has nothing to do with honesty. He needs to grow up and take responsibility for his own actions. I am sorry, but any man decent enough would not allow you to take the blame for his wrong doing. You are asking for trouble. This guy needs to grow up and you need to stop making excuses for him. You said yourself that he has a bad driving record from drinking and all. How are you going to sweep this under the rug?
You are allowing yourself to be used. That sucks! No way! How far will you go prove your love? Possibly jail, for fraud! Good luck! LOL | |
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 60 | |
| Would you do this for your man???
Posted: 8/11/2005 3:40:17 PM | Ladylil - NO, you shouldn't take the rap for it, pure and simple. If he is over 21 years of age, he needs to be responsible for his action. He needs to tell her the truth, let her know the brakes were bad, what the weather conditions were like, etc. If they have the good relationship that they do, the storm will pass over and they will be as loving as ever. He needs to financially own up to her. If she is of sound mind, etc. she may be mad for a bit, but she will understand. Accidents happen.
The other thing, is would he do this for you? Hunches tell me, probably not. He needs to face the music, he needs to be accountable to her and only to her. This is one scene you need not play a role in. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 3:55:17 PM | | Wrong, Your man does not need a mother to stand by his side , but his woman. You cannot teach him responsibility , this comes automatically mostly we our best teacher comes thru trial and error. See you must have a weak man because shit happens, and a car running into a tree, robbing a bank are what the **** ever has nothing to do with a man and a women . I f u have a man you love unconditionally no matter what.........You have to look at your to the point of I will give my life for him because I love him so much and you should. Because if he know what I know, He can have 10 women that will give there life for Him because we was created to have more than one women thats why women out number us men so much. Who said that we are suppose to marry and have one wife . law rules regulation all govern the society in which we live in . Our country marry one wife , religion marry one wife but that does not make it true. So you are a looky women to have man there more women on this site looking for men then there are women. Get the s off your chess and let your beauty come within ,,,,,,,and stand by your man..........Im not saying be faithful and all that shit everybody will cheat at least once in there life they just want admit it. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 4:01:22 PM | | You dont know what your man will do your still to young..................and u will put u guys in a messy situation before him becuase u are a female . full of emotion act on impulse feeling , A man will think out and then react. Before its over mark my words u will be experiencing a lot of encounter sexsually, because its in you to explore to feel the ultimate explosion of a one night stand by a complete stranger.....................wondering how big it is down .......will he be a good screw.........will he hurt me .......will he eat me ...........Fantasies we all have them u too........its just to grafic to tell your husband are anybody for that matter. But once u come grips with it ........it will be a boost to your eagle and life. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 4:17:17 PM | WTF are you kidding? Was there no police report? Please Dont take the heat for this! If he is any kind of a man, he will do whats right. If he is asking you to do this , he is no man!
You are friends with his mother? Why would you lie to a friend. To protect him? Please! He;s a big boy! He should fess up!  | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 4:23:23 PM | Wow do you realise that you are actually a worthwhile human being? People who stick with losers like that just make me shake my head. What's next "he really is a sweet guy, I know he loves me, he only beats me when he's been drinking" or maybe "I don't blame him, I blame my sister, and my best friend and the meter maid...they are all sluts"?
Half your post is you making excuses for his idiotic behaviour...He wasn't doing anything wrong? He just drives recklessly while drunk and is generally irresponsible and Oh, btw he stole his own mother's vehicle and totalled it...hee hee, you know how it is.
The last half of your post is all about how you are going to take the heat for this loser? If for one moment you could truly accept that this is a testimony of your love for him and what you are doing is noble.....what kind of scumbag would let you take his heat like that? That alone should tell you everything you need to know. You sound like a very sad and mixed up victim with brutally low self esteem. Dump his ass, grow up, find a real man and wake up.
I didn't check your profile to check your age but if you're older than sixteen, you might want to seek help. If you are sixteen, lol, you'll grow out of it.
.....um, I just checked......40? I changed my mind, disregard everything I said above. You just keep going the way you always have, it's worked just fine for your entire life, what do I know...........omg? | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 4:29:25 PM | | Tyme is right on the money, as he often is. You are talking about committing insurance fraud if you decide to make a claim. If you do "take the heat" and your lover decides to tell the truth later or it comes out, plan on being fined and possibly sent to jail. If you plan on lying about this to his mother that's one thing, but filing an insurance claim, plan on looking over your shoulder, there is usually no statute of limitations on fraud. Depending on the carrier, you could very well be arrested and have to go to court. Everything else was addressed, so I won't bother repeating it. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 5:25:51 PM | Your boyfriend's 1st mistake was taking his mother's car without her permission. He brought it on himself and he should be responsible for his lack of responsiblity with his mother, not you.
I read your profile and you say you are 40 yrs. old. How old is his mother? | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 72 | |
| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 8/11/2005 5:59:31 PM | I would say no.. Obviously he has not learned his lesson with driving. Also no need for you to have the guilt, heat turned towards you..
Let him take his own heat.. I think it will do him some good to suffer the consequences of his actions.
LOL i dated a women once that parked in another’s spot in an apartment when we where visiting friends.. I told her.. oh we shouldn’t park there.. She did any way.. You would think seen how she lived in an apartment her self she would know better.. 5 mins later a knock at the door .. I need the car moved its in my spot. She throws the keys at me and said move it.. I said... FUG that.. I told you not to park there. She got mad and yelled your my boy friend! STOMP! I did not move that car because of her attitude and stupidity. Any other time I would have in a minuet.. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 7:44:42 PM | He was operating the vehicle. He should face his mother and be a man. I would not take the blame for something like that. I wouldn't lie for anyone.
His mother will find out sooner or later. When she does find out you will be considered just as guilty as him | |
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bemine
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Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 74 | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 10:24:12 PM | Ladylil,
It is his responsibility. It is great that you would go to that length but the fact of the matter is he took it upon himself to take his mother's truck. If he had his car, than he should have used his car. Don't ruin your driving record over this, it may come back to haunt you in the future.
Understand, I am sure you love your boyfriend and it noble of you to want to help him but there are something you should stay clear of.
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