| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 10:31:24 AM | | Never destroy your integrity willingly. Please listen to everyone... do not take the heat on this. Someday soon your boyfriend will begin to mature and the fact that you have a child together and are not married indicates that he is not mature at all. He isn't a responsible man and you should not take responsibility for him because that just lets him continue to fail to examine his soul and grow up. People don't have series of bad breaks...they most often are careless and when he matures... having a child should have forced that issue but it didn't... the reality is this guy is unstable as water and one day he will likely leave you for another woman and he'll blame you in the process since he isn't used to taking responsibility for his actions. Don't take the heat and destroy your own driving record and ruin your own insurance standing... when he leaves you you'll still be paying higher premiums because of that which will only be a reminder of how foolish you were to take the heat for him. Now is the time for him to grow up... Darling woman... no man of integrity would let you do this. That he would shows that he simply isn't a man...sorry he may be fun and you may love him but he hasn't reached the stage of his life where he could even be a reliable mate. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 10:37:41 AM | lets see now let us pretend it is in the future and you son is 17 and his girlfriend is 19 she does something that she knows is wrong and someone is getting busted for it
your son being under 18 making him a juvi. decides to say he did it
would you support him in that decission
after all driving vehicle without owners consent is a criminal offense  | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 10:49:11 AM |
Men, would you let your woman do this for you and would you think it was respectable that she was willing to take the bullet for you?
Nevermind that question. The important question for a guy is "Would you ever ask your woman to do this?"
I would never ask ANYONE to take the blame for my screw-up. Forget about the idea of letting someone I care about take the blame.
It was completely not his fault. It was a down pour, her breaks are horrible and lock up all the time and that is what happened and he spun out and hit a fire hydrant.
Spinning out in a downpour is not his fault? What does it take for something to be his fault? | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 10:50:24 AM | | No - are you nuts? First off no REAL man would let you take the blame for something so juvenile, and secondly, the Mom is REALLY going to love you both so much more when she finds out (and you know she will eventually) that you BOTH lied to her; let the man be the man; if you wrecked the car, would he take the blame? Methinks not; I am SO tired of women thinking that they need to protect the precious little owner of the penis; UGH! give me five minutes with this guy, please! I just got over a five year fiasco with a spoiled mommas boy that never took the blame for ANYTHING, and that really flames me...just my opinion.... | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 11:37:50 AM | My dad did it for me, because he asked me to get something for him in a downpour
I would do it for my daughter
Anything that affects you financially for the rest of your life, not a good idea to do for somebody that can walk away | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:22:19 PM | I would not do it....... love can be blind but come on !!!
I was in a similar situation in high school. My gf was driving her car and turned into a fortune cookie around a pole. She asked me to say I was driving because she was scared of her dad. I refused and she dumped me on the spot........ I didn't understand at the time but it was the best thing that could have happened. You will also have that on your record if it surfaces. Don't trust anyone but yourself. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:32:47 PM | | You are the reason this guy will never grow up and take responsibility for his own actions. And don't even get me started on the legalitys of what you want to do, does a class B feloney sound familiar? And don't you for one second think that no one will know! You Know, he knows , his friends know, and insurance companys pay rewards for these things. Plus your rates go up and if fraud is proven you and your boyfriend will never ever get regular insurance ever again! You have been warned, but somehow I think you'll be dumb enough to try it. | |
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| Would you do this for your man???
Posted: 12/21/2005 8:12:11 PM | try looking at it this way what if it was your new vehicle he took it out for a spin and he lied to you about how it spun out of control. You are the one where he has learned to try to blame someone else because he can no longer handle the heat.
Would it have been right that he told you a friend wanted to drive your car just to see how it handles curbs so he let his friend supposedly drive your car.
Sorry you dont want to encourge his lack of responsibility cause it just might back fire and you will be the next recipient. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:28:42 PM | Ladylil: Give me a break!!! The bum can't drive and you're going to wreck your insurance rating and your credibility so he can go out and wreck some more vehicles?!!! And don't tell me it was the vehicle or the road or the ice or the rain or the sleet or any other d*mn thing; he wrecked the freaking car, period. If he hasn't got the jam to take responsibility for his driving, he shouldn't be. Driving, that is. Small wonder your mom's car WAS nicer than his; his were probably already beaten to shyte...
And you: taking his rap. That's called enabling, just like pouring an alkie another drink; sure, pass the bottle. And while you're at, I've got a little fender-bender to deal with here, can you help out? Your insurance rating is already through the roof, what's one more? | |
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Posted: 12/21/2005 10:38:36 PM | okay first question : ARE YOU CRAZY? Why in the world would you do something like that. He needs to stand up and be a man and not hide behind his woman. You should not take the wrap because he has made mistakes in the past that has wrecked his reputation. No, please don't do it. Heck no it is not respectable of you to do this for your man it's actually dumb... And of course he is gonna tell you that because he is gonna come out on top in the whole situation. How do you know how his mom will react. Think long and hard about what you are about to do before you two make any decisions.
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/22/2005 10:39:19 AM | Ladylil, I have to agree that you shouldn't take the heat. If he and his mom are best frineds, so to speak, she will understand that it was an accident. Maybe if he offers to pay for the damages, it might turn out okay.
Good luck, and Merry Christmas to y'all. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/22/2005 10:52:58 AM | I just read this and I absolutely cannot believe what I just read. If you did this???? You need to be shopping for a new brain right about now.
Good thing, enable this jack knob...... make sure he takes absolutely no personal responsibility for his blatant stupidity. Make sure you continue this behaviour with him for many years to come, maybe your child will grow up just like "daddy"
You've got real problems and are headed down the ole Hershey Highway of even more. Seriously, this piece of work needs to grow up and quit being such an a$$pipe. Nobody's dik is that big or that good.
Shaking my head in wonderment.... honestly some people!!! | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/23/2005 4:18:02 PM | | I am somewhat indesisive about answering this, but I feel (hope) that my opinion may do more good than harm. As a therapist who deals with car accidents on an everyday basis I am inclined to advise you not to do it. There are countless injuries that you BF may have sustained due to this crash, long term injuries that can go from a simple muscle strain to an intervertebral disk herniation. These are injuries that, while they don't pose an inminent treath in the sense that he is not bleeding from his eye sockets or divided in two or more parts, are very traumatic and need to be looked into. Best of luck with everything. | |
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/23/2005 4:35:48 PM |
He doesn't want to do this, but I think he is going to. I am fine with it, but I wanted to see if anyone else would do this for their man and... Men, would you let your woman do this for you and would you think it was respectable that she was willing to take the bullet for you? Keep in mind, that I have a flawless driving record and this will be turned in on my insurance. Thanks for any advice.
Real men don't take someone else's vehicle without express permission, they don't drive a vehicle that they know is in dangerous misrepair, and they don't hide their mistakes, they face up to them. Real men do NOT allow a woman to take a fall for them. This "boy" has a lot of growing up to do. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2005 5:02:33 PM | But what happens if the table gets turned on you and she ends up hating you for doing this to her car ? he should man up to what he did and not sit back and let you take responsibility for HIS actions. he was Man enough to take the car in the first place, what if he had hit someone injuring them or killing them, would you STILL say it was you that was driving the car ? I would think long and hard before making a statement you can not take back later on. and what is that teaching your child ? that its okay to lie. your decision, regardless of what we say, you are going to do what you choose, hope you make the right decision thats best for you and if you do lie and say it was your fault, best hope it doesnt come back later and bite you in the ass.. Good luck and hope you have a nice christmas and good luck in he new year... not a good thing to start the new year with lies. but hey its your choice, your life, your Lie.. one you both will have to live with. if your smart you will see that everyone here is giving you great advice that you should take, accidents are accidents, and being that he is close with his mom, why wouldnt she understand that ?
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| Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond
Posted: 12/23/2005 6:21:08 PM | it's a sweet gesture but dumbass thing to actually do
it's his mom ..she will get over it
don't screw your record over his bad driving and i'm sorry but single vehicle accident ,,well h was driving to fast for the road conditions ..OBVIOSLY..so no ..just love him an support him ..but don't that the wrap for him
it's a foolish thing to do
as for the rest ..remember people ..she offer ..so not so quick on the man bashing ok | |
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