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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 9/30/2009 1:54:47 PM | | What is an ugly woman? I never use that word to describe any woman just because I might not find her attractive. I think the bigger question is, are you completely sure your looks are the reason why you didn't get a chance? I honestly think that sometimes we have a tendency to project our own insecurities on others when in fact it may not play a role at all. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 9/30/2009 2:13:16 PM | | I don't know if a woman that puts effort into her appearance can be ugly. I don't think so - I've never seen a woman I would consider ugly that wouldn't be able to change it if she took better care of herself. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 7:52:47 AM | | To answer your question - yes we can. I consider myself to be a fat ugly person yet my fiance who I met on here three years ago still loves me. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 8:05:52 AM | if you are unattractive and STIL want a stud muffin you may have to make some adjustments.
ONE of those adjustments might be the AGE of the stud muffin you want.
for instance you might have to take a guy who is 20 or 30 yrs older than you but still looks great. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 10:57:27 AM | or a young guy lol
They are all about cougars these days and seem to be looking for age and experience over looks  | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 12:05:41 PM |
You uglies have no chance with me. Sorry. msg 376
She asked about studmuffins. Are you unclear what she means by that? Imitationoflife... hmpf! | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 1:04:06 PM | The warm and fuzzy feel good answer is "yes, of course ugly women can get studmuffins. Looks don't matter, it's what's inside that counts."
The realistic answer is "It's incredibly unlikely ugly women can get studmuffins. Studmuffins date their physical equals." | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 2:26:16 PM | I've seen a few of such couples. He was very good looking, and she was very unattractive. However, personalitywise, he wasn't much. Not very bright, not a good career, no initiative. At the same time she was a decision maker, a money maker and a heart of the family. I guess he just needed someone to tell him how to live a take care of him.
If he had a lot going on for him I doubt that he would marry an unattractive woman. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 6:55:37 PM | Plain Jane is great but they are not to be confused with ugly. Even an ugly woman can get my attention if she's got a great rack
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 7:08:10 PM | I knew a couple like that, many years ago, and he was gorgeous while she was not very attractive compared to the types of women he normally dated.
All the girls would swoon around him at parties whether he had a girlfriend at the time or not. I met him when he had broken up with his long-time g/f and started dating him. After two weekends it was over.
I couldn't stand it anymore. He was the simplest man I had ever met. I thought I would go insane. He couldn't even read a newspaper.
The girl who ended up marrying him can't believe her luck. She isn't terribly bright either so all she can see is this handsome man who actually agreed to marry her. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 7:22:40 PM | Posted: 10/3/2009 2 37 AM Plain Jane is great but they are not to be confused with ugly. Even an ugly woman can get my attention if she's got a great rack
^^^I couldn't agree more. And the bigger the rack, the more attention she get's..LOL | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 5:59:49 PM | | Shallow.....Shallow.....Shallow....OH did I say Shallow....I like men with a nice little ass. But I've also been known to like men that are kinda big ,football player kinda stocky.....I thought that I only liked brunettes but the only man I ever really loved was a blue eyed blonde. There's just gotta be a connection. And it doesn't have to be perfection connection. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 6:09:13 PM | hi i just started to use this site well i would have to agree if a man only goes out with some for what they look like then they are shollow and r not worth my time i am a plan jane but i do look ok when i dress up and if u have a good hart then u will find mr rigth  | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 6:15:52 PM | | hi michaels if u feel that way about y self then other ppl will. us plan janes need to love who we are and only think good things about your self. love your self girls be happy and them shollow men are not worth y time. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 6:51:39 PM | | I really enjoyed reading everyones opinions and insights. I must say that I wish choosing a mate was as simple as picking someone I wouldn't mind waking up to for an undisclosed amount of years. So is it really all about the looks? For the superficial and the "one" hit wonders of the world, the answer is probably yes. I've had my turn in the barrel a number of times when it came to feeling insecure about my looks. Yet I have found that when I take care of myself in the very best ways I know how, I attract or reap positivity from others. I wouldn't hang my hat on looks alone. A potential mate has to have a lot more to offer. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 6:52:26 PM | Not saying I'm a "studmuffin", but I love "plain janes" because they tend to be more down to earth.
Nothing turns me off than an over-made up woman with fake boobs with an unhealthy dark tan with platinum blonde hair that is overly crispy. It's like barbie on steroids. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:30:34 PM | I don't like girls that dye their hair, tan too much or have fake body-parts either. I actually find it unattractive.
Many of the women I've found most beautiful my friends often refer to as "plain janes" | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 9:27:15 PM | | ^^^^^^^Nice to hear but unfortunately a large majority of men still want a Barbie to play with...................LOL | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/3/2009 9:40:43 PM | | So the OP is whining and coming down on men because she's unattractive yet she's shallow enough to have to have a perfect looking guy. Being a complete hypocrite isn't attractive in either sex. Some people are so stunned. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/8/2009 4:34:19 AM |
tweety u are so shollow and u dont even put up a pic so what have u got to hide
Janine35, what do you mean? I was quoting a previous post. Maybe you should wait until you've figured out the forums some before you start commenting. That was tip #1. #2 Using text speak in the forums makes you look uneducated and I'm sure that's not the case. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/11/2009 9:38:09 AM | | ugly girls do have a chance with studmuffins...even they have off nights...catch them when they are desparate and you too can what every other woman in town has had...have fun.. | |
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