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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/11/2005 10:02:33 PM | | BEATUY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER . IF YOU BELIVE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL OTHER PEOPLE PICK UP ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM . WHEN YOU CAN THINK HIGHLEY OF YOURSLEF THAT WILL ATTRACT OTHER PEOPLE TO YOU . | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/11/2005 10:21:46 PM | just what do you consider a studmuffin? and what is it you are looking for?
I actually do try to look on the inside of a woman. I want to know if she's a thoughtful, considerate person. I want to know if she's bitter, or hyper-critical. I want to know if she's able to be kind to me. I want to know if she can give unprompted, unsolicited attention and affection. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/11/2005 11:44:23 PM | Shallow is the term used by those who have been rejected by attractive people.
Reality is that you are overweight and most men pass.
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/11/2005 11:45:20 PM | Shallow is the term used by those who have been rejected by attractive people.
Reality is that you are overweight and most men pass.
Brett Sabre
bambi75
If you are hearing men saying this, they are not worthy of your time. Only shallow people would go out with someone based on looks. Sure, you have to have that attraction to someone but that should not the only thing that you look at. I do not see that you are a plain jane. Even "beautiful" women and men have their hangups. Personally, i go for the guys who have a sense of humor and good self esteem.
Noone is better than you! You are no better than anyone! | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 3:44:12 AM | Question: What's an ugly woman? I've never met an ugly woman, I've met some angry woman and some mixed up woman but never an ugly one.
Every woman that I've ever met has been pretty! | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 5:00:30 AM | First...this was a little too much info.
Have you ever seen a very good looking man with an "ugly" girl...? That is because she followed "The Rules".
If you want to find Mr. Right...there is a book out there that helps.....It is called, "The Rules".
It is a wonderful book....the top 10 rules are:
1. Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. It's the way you smile (you light up the room), pause in between sentences (you don't babble on out of nervousness), listen (attentively), look (demurely, never stare), breathe (slowly), stand (straight) and walk (briskly, with your shoulders back). When a relationship doesn't work out, you brush away a tear so that it doesn't smudge your makeup and you move on!
2. Realize that you may not meet Mr. Right naturally and that you therefore must take social action immediately even if you don't want to.
Get a manicure and go out on another date or to that singles dance -- do something to increase your chances of meeting men.
3. Don't waste time on a fantasy relationship. You may have a good rapport with your doctor, lawyer or accountant, and you may find yourself wondering if he is interested in you romantically. How can you know for sure? If he's never asked you out, then he's not interested!
4. On all nonbusiness e-mails, responding once for every four of his e-mails is a good rule of thumb. Remember, you never know who has access to your e-mail, so keep all romance off the screen and save it for Saturday nights.
5. Remember, the first three visits are really nothing more than three dates... and on the first three dates we don't have sex with a man or have him stay at our place overnight.
6. It goes back to the basic premise of The Rules: Man pursues woman. When writing your ad, remember that every man has a type, a voice or a look he likes. There has to be a spark for him that attracts him to you, something that makes him find you unexplainably special.
7. We know this is hard to accept, but it's not that he hasn't called because he's busy, or because you didn't smile or talk enough (or did too much). It's not that he lost your phone number. The bottom line is, if he hasn't called, he's not that interested.
8. If you've followed The Rules, your man probably loves you and wants to marry you. Your problem is not if he marries you, but when! If it's been more than a year, see less of him and think about dating others. You've already spent more than a year waiting for him to propose; do you have another year to wait?
9. Love may be blind, but Rules girls are not stupid! How does he act in the relationship? Is he cheap on dates? Is he critical of you? Remember, The Rules are not about marrying the first man you are attracted to who calls you by Wednesday for Saturday night and buys you flowers. It's about marrying your own personal Mr. Right -- a man whom you love and whose character you admire and can live with.
10. Take care of yourself, take a bubble bath and build up your soul with positive slogans like "I am a beautiful woman. I am enough."
You must learn to accept that, as an adult, you can't always rely on a friend to do things with you. Even if you don't meet Mr. Right, going out -- whether it's a restaurant, lecture or party -- is a chance to meet new people and practice The Rules. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:10:19 AM | Ladies...... Attractiveness or ugliness is one thing..... and one thing only:
ATTITUDE
A good self image, self-pride, A sense of humor, striving to succeed, and a lil' bit of a freak behind closed doors 
Thats it.... this whole "5" and "10" thing..... is nothing but a bunch of BS from people that read Cosmo and Maxim too often. | |
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~KC~
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Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 36 | |
| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:16:09 AM | Ditto Crayola.. it's a great coaster... most women don't follow The Rules.. we live our lives.. our way..
Can "ugly" (what's that??) women get studmuffins?
Wow.. strange question.. why couldn't they? What's stoping them? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. some people need to either get their eyes checked or get new eyewear... but what is deemed "ugly" ... can get just about anything she wants... if she puts her mind and heart to it. No different than anyone else in this world. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:17:39 AM | Shadowgirl...when I look at you I don't see a plain jane, I see a beautiful women who looks sad. What's wrong hun? I see it in your eyes. It's very evident to me. I hope I'm not putting you on the spot.
I could have you looking gorgeous in just a couple of hours. Have you considered going to see a cosmetologist for a makeover? Is that something you can afford? You know, sometimes just looking good makes us feel a whole lot better. Just a thought. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:22:38 AM | shadow girl - i think you're cute and i'm always right so don't worry.
to the lunkhead who said all pretty women were dumb as doorknobs - i'm pretty and chances are i'm a lot more intelligent than you are.
and i'm not exactly sure what you mean by studmuffin so i can't answer :) | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:40:28 AM | | I think everyone has their own personal preference on if a person is "hot", "beautiful", "average" or "ugly". I dont stereotype people. If I think they are attractive it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks about them. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder. | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 6:50:22 AM |
I just remembered something a gf told me-she said "don't you know that they never look on the inside of a woman"
Yep, cause we're all neanderthals ... *sigh*
Personally, I look at both aspects. I don't care how hot you are if your personality sucks. Conversely, if your personality is great but I don't find you physically attractive, there's no chance. Anyone who claims differently is desperate or lying ... That goes for men and women. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2005 6:52:43 AM | i agree yami but i think a person who can carry themselves well, be smart and funny is always attractive.
unless they have a jacked up grill. can't go there | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 7:00:06 AM | I'm sure that everyone's idea of "studmuffin" is different, so how can that question be answered??
I think Tom Cruise is nasty, so is Brad Pitt and Matt Damon...certainly wouldn't consider them studmuffins in MY book...gimme Nicholas Cage any day!
Peace | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 7:08:34 AM | | For sure they can. Where do you think the story of beauty and the beast came from, hehe. I see the hot chick with the not so hot guy and vice-versa. It happens all the time. Now the question that really matters is what about the average looking people, do we end up dating each other because the ugly/beautiful people are hooking up? And there is none left for us? | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 7:20:40 AM | , SI, nah. But the type of woman I fiind attractive may not necessarily be the type most men are attracted to - neither in appearance or personality. A lot of guys aren't down with strong, independent, conservative women.  | |
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| Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/12/2005 7:28:21 AM | | Wait, SI, there's more ... and this is where I lose you (other than you obviously being "taken") ... another qualification is they would date a selfish, self-centered, self-important, arrogant rogue like me. | |
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