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 Mrslucci

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 101
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 12:33:56 AM
I beleive everyone can find love.No one is truly ugly unless he/she is wrapped in a coat of predjudice .
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 102
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 1:06:51 AM
^^^agreee mrs lucci.........that is certainly ugly
 danbfl

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 103
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 1:07:58 AM
shadow girl, why do you think you are just average, your profile says you are 47. I might say you look great for your age so don't feel average because age to looks wise you are beautiful too!
 vancitylady78

Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 104
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 3:56:33 AM
would one of you so called stud muffins just give the woman a quick visit so we can get this whining fest over with...
 Mrslucci

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 105
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:06:28 AM
My bf is a gorgeous man.He has a very caring nature.If the term "studmuffin" is in reference to physical attributes only then there are alot of studmuffins on this site .

Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder,some u may view as ugly may very well b the most beautiful to someone else.
 DreamSeeker223

Joined: 8/1/2005
Msg: 106
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:58:43 AM
I am living proof that this can, and does happen.
 sass393

Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 107
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Posted: 8/15/2005 6:42:11 AM
There is a difference between ugly & overweight. First of all...if weight is the issue, do you really want someone who is that shallow. I had put on a little extra weight & my ex loved it. Made me even more curvy. But big women can still be beautiful. (not that I am big but...I got mostly hardbodies when I had the extra weight)
Many guys tell me that they prefer the girl next door type. Not the supermodel. But maybe that's b/c they feel that they wouldn't be able to hold on to her. I can't really speak from experience b/c I believe myself to be rather attractive but...in my younger years when I didn't have as much depth to me...I remember walking around seeing couples & asking "How did SHE get him??" So it does happen.
KTF
 john4041

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 8/15/2005 7:02:06 AM
Yes, ugly women and overweight women can get studmuffins.
Personally I dated a woman 5’7’’ close to 200 pounds but she was great.
Great personality, good dancer. I grabbed that fat and had a great time.
I never called her fat. I appreciated both sides of her, inside and out.
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 109
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 7:55:32 AM
You are a gentleman and a scholar.

I do notice people with a little extra are so sweet.
 Splog

Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 8/15/2005 8:10:05 AM

I do notice people with a little extra are so sweet.


Each person seems to have a natural weight that is right for them. In my perhaps limited experience it seems that if people stay close to their natural weight they tend to have quite normal personalities. I have noticed, though, that women who are much over their natural weight tend towards being depressed and sometimes bad tempered, whereas women much under their natural weight often tend towards being neurotic. I always choose women, then, who carry their weight well (no matter what size they are).
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 8/15/2005 8:51:23 AM
Yes splog

some feel uncomfortable tillthey lose the weight..weight is not ugly and can be lost

short women for example have a tendency to apper more plump but let her know she's pretty ok guys
 kingfisher1

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 112
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 1:44:09 PM
Yes ladies, here we go again. Another guy up here telling yall how sick he is of hearing all of your hypocritical bullcrap! If looks don't matter, why do you all want to see a picture on a profile?
You want to see a picture of our face. You know, all the features we really CAN'T do anything about, yet yous are gonna knock people for not seeing another person's "Insides".
Hey guys, imagine EVERY ONE of us men deleted our pictures from our profiles! I'd bet this place would no longer be considered a dating site, cause you know ain't none of these woman gonna go out with a man sight unseen!..I'm usually a nice guy. Can e-mail with the best of them and talk on the phone as well. But when I'm shot down by one woman after the next from this site, I begin to think I may be better off hangin out in the bars!
Perfect example of one person's junk being another's treasure. I have only two scores in my RATE MY PIC. 1 is a 10, the other is a 1. Go figure!
 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 113
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Posted: 8/15/2005 2:02:50 PM
^^^^ Sounds like a GREAT idea... all the guys should remove their pix.... Since its the INSIDE that counts so much.
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 114
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 2:11:34 PM
Pics pics pics

We do read the material-I do
 danbfl

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 115
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 2:26:53 PM
great idea on removing pics, but what if the women did it also................
 sass393

Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 8/15/2005 2:30:05 PM
I ask for a picture just b/c its nice to actually see who you are chatting with (even though not everyone posts their real pics, so I've been told)
But for me... a great looking guy with his shirt half off is just as likely not to get a response from me as a not so great looking guy or a guy with no pic on his profil -> all depends on what he has to say.
but that's not really what this thread is about. its about does a girl without looks have a chance with the model boy? the answer is absolutely, provided the model boy is someone of substance & not just another pretty face or bod.
that's my 2 cents. take it or leave it.
 kingfisher1

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 117
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 2:30:21 PM
Yo Maskedhero, it's only a good idea if you really don't want any woman to write you. Before I posted my pic, I got zero first e-mails.
OP-How much does what you read in a profile matter if you find the picture on it totally unapealing?
 jackie34

Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 118
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 2:43:49 PM
there are good men in the world,i thought to say the least. He was so good he gave me my first plane ride,first Florida trip,first Mexico trip....etc.... Then all of the sudden i find out he's using drugs and when confronted he shot me in the back leaving me totally paralyzed. I will never walk again. If i didn't start the relationship because of his looks i'd probably be walking today. I should of got to know the real him inside instead of what he looked like. I guess what i'm trying to say is that the ugliest person on the outside is most likely the most beautiful on the inside.
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 8/15/2005 2:59:49 PM
Jackie that is o so unfortunate..you are still a wonderful person-we all make mistakes.

never do know how dangerous a person can be huh???

feel free to im me or email if you would like to chat
and I hope god's vengeance crashes down on him, so he may learn of the terrible wrong he has comitted!!!!!
tootles and ta-ta

P.s. I have a story i'd just as much like to forget but I'd tell you just not here.

ther's some sick people around
 BlueCrushDay

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 8/15/2005 9:11:37 PM

would one of you so called stud muffins just give the woman a quick visit so we can get this whining fest over with...


Ok I once have picked studmuffin as my nickname on PoF so I will try to help out. :)

Let's stop hitting around the bush. There is standard on appearance. However, if a girl know how to make up and keep fit. It makes a HUGH difference. One of my female friend is a makeup and hair stylist for wedding people. She showed me some of her clients before/after photos. I was like WOW. It is like day and night!! Some no-so attractive women suddenly became different people! I am not kidding. With glamour shots, it is even more gorgerous.

Also if you are chubby, men would think you are lazy and don't care about your outlook. Many men and women work damn hard for their body and expect the same for their partner. I once get a msg from a women saying something like:"I want my greek god. I work damn hard for my body and I want my rewards!" So go figure. ;)

So if you are determined, you CAN be beautiful. However, I also like to point out something. Is that you should live for youself! not for others. Learn to love youself for who you are. You are a child of God. The purpose of seeking a campanion is to make your happy, if you can't find happiness in it, don't bother. Don't force youself to be cute if you don't want to. I find girls with positive attitude extremely hot, the attitude like Avril Lavigne! She is such a hottie!
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 121
Can ugly women get studmuffins/??
Posted: 8/15/2005 9:39:45 PM
iI'm not down with that 'greek god stuff'-but people should try to take care of themselves in the fishing/hunting game..love yourself you can love others

oh man--he dissed me-so I'm fallen down hurt and can't get up-wrong
I'd love to go to the gym but with somebody i knew-i'd feel more comfy

l
 Victor E.

Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 8/15/2005 10:29:58 PM
"Avril Lavigne"; I'm drooling already!
 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 123
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Posted: 8/16/2005 4:17:01 AM
^^^^ Isn't she the girl that wears the neckties ??? the punk rock girl ? She's the hottest ugly chick.... she just don't givea fuucckk that makes her sexy
 shadowgirl58

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 124
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Posted: 8/16/2005 6:31:19 AM
DISCLAIMER: Again this post is not pertaining me personally!

I still believe "ugliness" is a state of mind, and 'studmuffin" is some one I wouldn't be able to resist"
 Blondeambition

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 125
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Posted: 8/16/2005 6:37:27 AM
yes
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