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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 6/7/2008 9:59:11 PM | | I WOULDNT THINK OF IT AT ALL. OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE THINKING OF IT. IF YOU CANT SLEEP AT NIGHT AND ARE ALWAYS WOORIED ABOUT WHERE HE IS. THEN YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION. NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT A WOMAN LIKE THAT...IT IS UNKIND. JUST REMEMBER WHAT YOU THINK YOU WANT...IN THE WAY YOU WANT..IT MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU NEED AT ALL...AND WHEN THE WANT IS GONE..SOON FOLLOWS THE NEED..THEN YOU CAN FINALLY BE OPEN FOR THE REAL PERSON THAT IS SUPPOSE TO COME IN TO YOUR LIFE THE ONE YOU WOULD PROBABLY BE WITH NOW IF YOU DIDNT WASTE ALL YOUR TIME ON THE CASTRONOVA...ALWAYS REMEBER A PIG DRESSED UP IN A SILK PIG IS STILL JUST A PIG...GOOD LUCK WITH LOVE ..HOPE YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:16:19 PM | I had the same thing happen to me. I just met a guy on here 3 weeks ago. We hit it off. So I thought. After a week and a half he told me that he just wanted it to be me and him or as he put it, "just us." I thought that was soon, but I liked him and thought okay why not. I'm on here to take a chance.
Turns out, within 15 minutes of him "IMing" me and letting me know this, he was answering an add on here and wanted to get to know the girl. Little did he know he had answered and add that was one of my friend's that is on here too! LOL...Ooops! He was busted and I was very hurt.
I think communication is key. How serious is it getting. He is obviously on a different page if he is still looking to see if the grasser greener. I would ask him what is up and not mention you have noticed he's still shopping on this site and see where he is. Then if he is still on here shopping...DUMP HIS YOU KNOW WHAT.
Sad to say, people are shady and just do not understand honesty and respect anymore! | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 6/24/2008 9:36:50 PM | | i had this problem, EVERY boyfriend i have, and the one i have now... still used the site when he and i were together. My past 2 ex's that i met off here were still "single" on here when we were together. atleast the one i am with now, has "not single/not looking"... but even that doesnt matter sometimes. i have that on mine too, but still has guys messaging me looking for more!! | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 6/24/2008 9:49:44 PM | | I know what you are going through, as I went through this previously. I began seeing a guy exclusively, my profile came down the whole shebang...and then it came to my attention that he was still on the site. He hadn't been on for a while and then started frequenting the site. Instead of being accusatory as to his reasoning I simply asked him about it. He gave me the explanation of wanting to see what all friends he could find on here from school and so forth. Seems reasonable enough, right? Except his profile never changed to clarify he was not looking for a female to possibly move forward with. I explained to him how it made me feel (once again, without accusing him of anything). Needless to say it did not help. I personally do not agree with it unless you are only on here for the forums or something and it is evident to others on the site that you are not interested in dating and so forth. People think differently about these things, so I would talk to him about it (WITHOUT accusations flying or voices being raised) and see what he has to say. I wish you the best of luck.... | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 6/24/2008 10:38:53 PM | Well lets see.... How long have you been together? Soemtimes realtionships don't last very long. Sure you met your fish but it could last 3 months or 5 months. Maybe even a eyar. He may be staying for the forums they are fun or to see who is interested in him and keeping his options open. I was twitha girl who saw my profile and It old her I stay for the forums and could not be happier and even put I was in a realtionship and there for the forums. Anyway you should not be hurt unless he is cheating on you or has given you reason nott o trust him. If he had been dating you for over 3-6 months you should ask him to delete his profile if it bothers you. Or keep it as a memento and go up on the site as an example of a match and sucessful relationship. I think you are too quick to be hurt. I might be concerned but no t hurt beucase its not cheating. Unless he is planning on meeting another woman... or MAN!  Hey get that dancing plantain away from me!  I thinky ou are blowing things out of proportion and leaving out the details of your realtionship. Are you boyfriend and girlfriend? Are you ina dedicated realtionship? you are on an online dating sire too witha n active profile does that make you a hypocrite? Is it a pay site wher ehe already agreed to pay for it for 6 months in advance and is jsut getting his money's worth? going ont he forums, mking friends and tlaking to people. | |
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