| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/26/2006 9:41:26 PM | There is only one word for a guy like that A***h*** !!! I broke up with a guy who was doing exactly that not too long ago... we had met on date.ca and had been together for over a year.. we had been in the "planning stages" of moving in together, vacationed together, I'd met and fallen totally for his family, everything was great or so I thought. Not perfect of course but nothing is.... well all of a sudden I'm getting that vibe.. ladies you know what vibe I am talking about. Something wasn't right. Well not too long after I get a phone call from a friend saying she saw a guy that looks like him on millionaire match.com but she's not 100% sure . So I go in there under a fake profile obviously and pull up the name...sure enough its my boyfriend! Pretending to be a millionaire at that!! I dug around a little more and sure enough he still had a profile up on another site that showed active in the last 3 months.
I got my revenge though... I put up a fake photo on millionaire match, sent him a wink and he wrote back! With the exact same letter he had written to me a year before... WORD FOR WORD he couldn't even come up with something original! Anyway, about a week after writing to me (as this other girl, or so he thought) he came to my house to "let me down gently" Well I had a little surprise waiting for him... I asked if he had always been faithful and he swore up and down that he had. So I pulled up the email he sent to me and asked him "what about this then?" The dumb ass didn't get it, he accused me of hacking into someone elses email ! Stupid moron, anyway after I explained it all to him and he FINALLY figured it out he left all pissed off. The next day he called asking if we could still be friends and I said I had to think about it... I waited about a week and sent him an 8 page F*** you letter, single spaced, typed !! Anyway, I am now having a blast meeting new people and having a new life. I suggest any woman who finds herself in similar circumstances does the same. Any guy who is so low that he can not stick with one person at a time has serious issues.
In case any of you ladies are also on millionaire match watch out for kuriouskjeld on other website he goes by blondviking, or blondviking1964, or blondebabewithdd he thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread.. what a joke!!
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/26/2006 10:23:21 PM | | I have mixed emotions about finding a person active out here while having an ongoing relationship with a person. A lot to consider. Is his profile changed to "chat only" or is there a disclaimer on his profile saying he's involved? Chances are... if he's still actively looking and he's confronted with this newfound information, he'll just change his nic and continue what he's doing. | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/27/2006 10:09:27 PM | | Hmmmm....that is a tough question. I wonder if being here in forums would be considered "keeping options open" ???? I have often wondered about this topic. I have been in on line sites for over 5 years. For me, it is purely social. Although I have met people from on line sites, I have made many friends, but only one love connection. Very perplexing. I wonder if I "kept my options open" ?????????? Great topic, something to spend countless hours analyzing, only to discover, I'll be back here tomorrow, lurking around again. HMMMM!!! | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/28/2006 7:07:17 PM |
Keeping, I had that happen to me once too. Turned out the guy was still looking for something better. IN the same breath he tried to tell me he had friends there he still liked to say hello to. I told him I'm not meat on a butchers table, nor was I willing to be his choice of the moment until a be[tter slice of meat became available. Can't tell you what to do, sweetie. But, if it were me, I'd tell him I was aware of it and ask him to be honest with me. Some men are players. You never know unless you ask. Even then you'll have to use your gut to descern if he's lying or leading you on. It all comes down to what you are feeling, what your gut tells you, and if you feel safe and secure. Do you?
dealt with the same shit here... | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 2:36:05 AM | | I think if both partners are totally happy with each other. then dating sites should be a thing of the past. But you have to love it when they say they are coming here to chat with friends. I have ran into a few guys like that, and the only thing they are looking for is something better to come along...What I really think is these guys like the attention they get from all kind of women...must be an insecure thing and the need to feel wanted, but not just by one person.... | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 2:50:53 AM | I met my last boyfriend on an internet dating site.
After a week or so we jointly deleted our profiles from the site as we were happy together and not looking for anyone else.
After a couple of intense months, we had a bit of an arguament and things had got a bit tense between us, but I thought it was nothing we couldn't work through.
However one morning I went into work knowing he had the day off and for some reason (and to this day I cannot explain it) I had this feeling I needed to check the website.
To get back onto the site all you had to do was re-enter your details as they store your profile for some time after it has been deleted, so I did that only to see that at that very moment my boyfriend was on the site at the exact same time.
When I asked him why he was on there, he told me that he was checking because he hadn't seen me in the past week (he'd been busy working on his new car and I didn't want to just stand around watching him) and now he knew why - basically he wa accusing me of cheating on him.
However when I asked him why he had changed his prfile name, he admitted it was so I wouldn't know he had been on there - even though his photo was still on his profile! (What an idiot).
No surprise then that we split up then and there and funnily enough, no more than 2 weeks later I saw him with his new girlfriend and he is no longer on the dating site.
So from personal experience, I would stop communicating with him and find someone who can at least be honest and open with you - you're worth it!  | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 3:05:55 AM |
Well not too long after I get a phone call from a friend saying she saw a guy that looks like him on millionaire match.com but she's not 100% sure . So I go in there under a fake profile obviously and pull up the name...sure enough its my boyfriend! Pretending to be a millionaire at that!!
Wow!! How did he manage to slip through the tight screening process on millionairematch.com?
Well, I'm sure that nothing like this will ever happen again.
Ladies, you can rest assured that all those other guys on millionairematch.com are in fact millionaires. | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 3/29/2006 6:21:39 AM | | you are sooo right there Guelphatarian:).my experience is that any man i have met on this site sees it as a 'friend' site.i see it as doubting the strenght or future of a relationship and with that keep one eye open,lol.hmmm.i am ready to take my face off this with meeting the right man.why have more male friends to do what with them? coffee?well i think the partner would be upset that one goes out for coffee with the opposite gender that they met off a dating site.so i am cautious just with that in mind. | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:31:33 PM | | I have seen profiles of men on pof that said the truth that they have found someone thsat they are crazy about and have been honest and it really touched me to see a man update his profile to say lady's i have found my true love so i'm no longer available. their are alot of good n honest men, just like us lady's but i do honestly think that more omen than men wil post that they have found someone n is no longer looking than men but it really is nice to read a mans post that they have found a lady n am no longer looking. | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:42:41 PM | | I know i done the same thing one time to try n catch my boyfriend and it turned out he had been living with ths lady n still is but is on this site for 7 yrs so i went with him for 7 months and spent every weekend wit hhinm and he went home to her n was lying to me the whole time and he was on every single site n still is now to this day but him n i are not anymore sence i found out. he wouldnt leave her but still wanted me imajine that.she probably dont have a clue that he is on so many sites even thought her n i have been talking n i told her but she did admit to me that she knew for months about him n i but didnt have the courage to come to my house. please ladys go to the house cause chanches are the lady dont know any thing about you and is just an affair that the lady did not know anything about but i did break up with him n he is still on this site and it has been many months ago n im over it. | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:46:35 PM | | I think anyone who lacks the balls to either give a woman his all or be on his own is not a real man. I also think this little boy is a lying sack of shit and I`m sure it wouldn`t be much of a stretch for you to do a hell of alot better.Get some self esteem honey cause you deserve a hell of alot better.And I dont care what anyone says,but people who cant commit and think its okay to continuosly just have casual sex are missing out on what love AND good intimate sex really is. ****ing LOSERS.Tell him you wouldnt piss on him if he was on fire! | |
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| What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site?
Posted: 4/9/2006 2:03:47 AM | yah, if he's on the site still...hes looking. so would anyone. I would erase my account the second I KNEW I would have a long term thing with someone but I wouldnt be the only one erasing thats for sure.....if he cant...i wouldnt bother....keep looking....
I know what you are talking about here LOL I have dated 3 people who kept their profiles up ---- only one of them erased it.....so in comparison, he was totally interested in just having ME around and didnt sit searching for chicks and sexual encounters from various locations in the city.....
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