| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 9/1/2005 9:14:34 AM | | I learned yrs ago not to jump to conclusions like I said but like the one above me if I do find out i anm or was wrong I feel bad & apologize | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 5:26:59 AM | | No i am not a conclusion jumper. My last b/f set himself up with an alibi (gameing ) a new life, a new wife from my house . While i trusted him unkown to me my life was about to be torn to pieces ,till i caught wind of what was happening and i shiped him out of the country ,i gave him enough rope to hang himself and i felt no guilt afterwards. | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 1:37:48 PM | I am not a conclusion jumper.
I do make educated guesses and then see if my percieved
data has weight.
I find I am usually correct according to my history with it...
and have come to trust my judgement. Not that I NEVER make a
mistake but I make less of them when I trust my intuition.
The times I have made big mistakes I find... is because I
didnt trust it. | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 2:06:59 PM | | I've definitely jumped to conclusions in the past, but I'm getting better about it. And I don't have to apologize to people as often. Everyone wins. | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 3:32:10 PM | | There was a time when I was very insecure for a lot of different reasons (which I won't bore anyone with here). I finally learned that not "assuming" and jumping to conclusions caused rifts between myself and others that were difficult to repair, at best. I actually lost friendships, love relationships, etc. because of it. Now I know that I not only owe it to myself, but to the person in question to TALK about my perceptions of things. I have not just maintained relationships, but have had them flourish. Communication is one of the biggest keys to success in any area. | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 5:30:03 PM |
the trick is to make us feel secure and then maybe we won't be jumping to conclusions
Well, if you ladies would teach us poor guys how to do that!
Fact is, we can't MAKE you feel secure if you don't want to. Only you have the power to control your own emotions.
Now this comment comes from a completely male and sometimes bewildered view: Thats the problem with being emotional most of the time. You can FEEL anything you want at any time you want and there are no rules or logic or sanity and we guys have to jump hoops to deal with it.
I say women will never be truly independant and equal to Men until they learn to supress harmful emotion and think logically. Men are socialized from a young age to be independant. Learn from the gender who knows how its done ladies! 
Gawd, I'm in SO much trouble. | |
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| Conclusion Jumper -- Are you one?
Posted: 11/14/2005 5:41:50 PM | Women are not supposed to be equal to men
God created them differently because that is how
he wanted them to be.
I do not feel men will be able to keep up with
women now that more and more women are
becoming educated and able to not have any
financial dependence on a man.
It will cause many men to just be left out in the dust....
bewildered.
think about it.
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