dennb
|
Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 51 | |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 10:18:11 AM | | My be more to it than just weight. I am thin and muscular and I might not have any more or as much with the ladies than you do. I know that I have been attracted to all types of women and I am not sure in lots of cases what the attraction is. Chemistry. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 10:40:27 AM | | I think you guys at the beginning are being too hard on women! You put them all in the same category! All women are different, looking for different things. I can honestly say that I could really care less about what a man looks like! Sure you don't want him to be so hideous that you couldn't stand to look at him, but weight is so not an issue with me. HOwever, it is very easy for a man to say about a woman that she has a "nice personality" however, she is a dog! I think everyone should look within, as opposed to looking on the outside. Whenever you chat with someone on here, the first question is "What do you look like". Why does it matter, are you going to stop talking to me cause I have brown eyes instead of blue? or because I have auburn hair instead of blonde? How about if I weigh 175 rather than 105?? That's just my opinion!! | |
|
| |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 11:09:32 AM | Hey Ya'll I am very new to this forum thing and I may get alot of bad comments for what I have to say but hey I don't much care. I just want all you guys out there with some meat on your bones, you have it going on. I personally would much rather date a heavy man that some super model with a six pack, those guys are for the birds. Men of size are way more attractive than any man walking around with nothing on there bones. A man should be a man, big and strong, stong enough to protect his woman, big enough to wrap those big arms around his woman and let her feel a feeling of security that no little man could ever give her. To all you big men out there believe me when I say this there are plenty of women out here (like me) that want and prefer a big man. Now I may not be all that to look at and my opinion may not count for much but I know what I like and I know what it is that I am in search of and to all you bigger men just let me say you have it going on. Honestly when it comes to physical apperance big, little, short, tall, none of that matters anyhow or it shouldn't when you find someone that you can connect with and get to know on the inside, but we live in a world where apperance does matter so what I have to say is to all the big men out there be proud of what you have, you have something way more than any little skinny man will ever have. Except the fact that you look like a real man should look and just love yourself. Big men are sexy not only on the outside but on the inside as well, and to all you girls who are barbie dolls who would not date a man of size, you don't know what it is that you are missing. Best of luck to all the men of size out there, you have it going on. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 11:12:33 AM | | yourhuckleberry, totally agree with you...what you give is what you will get in return. So bigger (ok..fat guys) who want slim, attractive women are being unrealistic. And what's with all the lying going on out there? Be real...if you are really interested in making a connection with someone, eventually a meeting will take place, and the truth will be revealed!!!! Anyone who is not happy about their appearance has the option of improving themselves..men...stop complaining about the thin girls not giving you the time of day....if you are truly happy with your appearance then it shouldn't bother you if they are not attracted to you. | |
|
bbgurl
|
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 56 | |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:07:09 PM | Just thought I would say something since I am a chick and do have an opinion on the weight issue. My ex whom is on this site and I am trying to get back together with has put on a few pounds in the past year himself from a bad back..That does NOT change the way I view him at all. He is very secure and confident in the person that he his and even though he was an obese kid growing up, he lost a all his weight and put some back on does not discourage him or loose my attraction for the kind of man he is. Believe me, I have been hit on by muscle type guys that don't have an inch of character to their personality! Even though I have been dating since we did break up, There is noone that comapares to the one I love..His name is 100%sweet on this website and in a way, I am glad more girls are shallow enough to only look to the surface to where they would not want to contact him...
Jen | |
|
| |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 4:13:59 PM | I think the large women should date large men.
They tend to chase men who are in shape,athletic and not interested.
RB
*karma*
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 14
view profile
OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/12/2005 10:09:36 PM
You all do realize that fat women DO jerk men around too right? It's not just skinny women. And that being fat doesn't make you better in bed or have a better personality or make your judgment and responsibility better or make you a 'real' woman.
I'm not saying it makes it any less possible, I'm just saying.
You're saying these men are jaded cause a skinny woman ****ed them over. Well for the men that are into skinny women..does that mean a fat woman ****ed them over??
And since when is a skinny woman not 'the real deal'? Are they pretend? They're real women too...just because they're not overweight that makes them less of a person?
You all sit there and **** about skinny people as a WHOLE. Talk about some major generalizing wow! | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/14/2005 4:29:23 PM | | not all women are liars...don't buy any of that crap for a second... i don't care what anyone says...i know this b/c i am a woman who isn't a liar... in all honesty...i do care about the physical appearance of a man... if i don't like what i see...i'm not going to take it any futher than a friendship...and sometimes i don't let even let it get that far...you may think i am a bad person for this...but honestly i feel that if there is no physical attraction there...i can't make a relationship work...i've heard that in time you'll find them to be attractive by the person they are...but i feel that i can't be with someone who i am not attracted to physically, mentally, and emotionally....but there is a little thing about that also...don't think that all the thin guys get all the attention...i don't know how many times i've been attracted to a guy's looks...and when i started to talk to him...i realized he was such an ugly person on the inside...and he just didn't look as nice on the outside anymore...so yeah...personality does affect the physical beauty...and also..it sounds as if you are a little picky about the kind of people you look for...so don't get so down on others who do the same thing... | |
|
| |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 12:50:41 AM | Im not SUPER fussy when it comes to guys. If I am attracted weight rarely matters.
For it TO matter the guy has to be pretty huge. I am not skinny myself, which probably has something to do with it | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 12:57:01 AM |
I think the large women should date large men.
They tend to chase men who are in shape,athletic and not interested.
RB
Wow, THERES a solution!  How often do men continue pursuing a WOMAN who is clearly not interested. Weight matters aside, unwanted pursuits go both ways
And youd be amazed at the number of IMs I get every week- skinny guys, fat guys, hot guys, ugly guys, toothless, bald, whatever- telling me how 'hot' I am Half of them ignore me when I tell them Im not interested | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 11:00:13 AM | drpookie on 8/17/2005 5 20 AM
Subject: OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Message: I ate a black cat by mistake yesterday
What the hell does that mean??????? | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 11:12:08 AM | Id go with plain Jane then a porn star... think of it... I dont want no disease ridden person, besides when your in the sack... she gets paid to act... so she could be acting...
Also try explaining that one to your parents around a nice dinner... so what you do for a living...
But really all that crap about personality is a load of crap. The all say oh have to be the personality... must have a nice personality, and good sense of humor...
hmmm... then come fo find out.. bye to the curb with yah... thanks for playing try again. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:27:19 PM | | I'm a big and tall type, I find my height evens out my weight a bit. In my experience, women will say they don't care what a guy looks like, or that they don't care that I'm big, but when the time comes to meet face to face, well....I've had some weird looks come my way. Then comes total silence and a "how about we just be friends" at the end of the date. Ladies, if you say all you want in a guy is someone who is nice and treats you right and what you really mean is you want that but only from a guy who's really good looking/well built, in my opinion you deserve whatever heart break "good looking/well built" men will eventually bring you. Call me jaded, spiteful, bitter, whatever you want...I believe that what goes around comes around. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/17/2005 10:14:40 PM | This is to *deepthroatseeker* who now is no longer with us so I'll address it to your aliases *BWWM* and *eat my road kill32*
Anyways...WHY are you quoting me? My post has NOTHING to do with yours. I told you once already leave me the hell alone.
**EDITED to include this...
eat_my_roadkill 32
-
Deleted by admin - Fake Profile Aug 14 2005 4:04PM
BWWM is the only one left hmmm. Now leave me out of your posts. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/18/2005 6:10:15 AM | A sure fire way to lose weight while eating pretty much whatever you want. Get a large Glass or drinking container. Put about 1/4 cup of Apple Cider Vinegar in the container;then fill the rest of the container with water. Add some honey if you need to for taste.Drink this concoction about once every other day and after about a week; you'll be amazed by how fast you'll start to lose weight.The first thing you'll notice is how strong you'll start to urinate.
Fat comes off through your urine.This strange mix will work wonders in keeping the weight off too. You will be amazed. Old Southern Blacks knew about this as a weight loss method for years. Try it & you'll see, it works. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 4/23/2006 11:32:35 AM | | Dude you just need to hit the gym. I know its messed up women only care about looks. But thats whats wrong with this world looks arnt evereything and just keep that in mind. Im sure you will be all right. Dont go looking they will come to you trust me. | |
|
tmn
|
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 73 | |
| |
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 7/26/2006 6:48:55 AM | Ace
I didn't read all the replies, but here it goes anyways, just my thoughts.
We all want the twinkle our eye gets when we meet someone, the fluttering, the attraction. I would not consider myself as heavy, so I don't and I won't be with someone heavy. I have been with a man that sweats, to me it would be a night mare to be making love to an over weight man and his sweat dripping on me. Yuck!!!!!!! A women's back can only take so much weight, before she gets a backache. So nope, sorry, my view I would not go there, I could never fall in love with a heavy man. As is I have a problem if my butt is bigger than his, so it has to be about the same size as mine, or smaller. I am telling you this cause it is also a health thing with supporting the weight of a heavier man, that is a no deal for me, wouldn't want the continious pain in the lower back. | |
|
| OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 7/26/2006 8:04:30 AM | Back in late September-October of 2005, I was going to the doctor. I was very overweight at the time, suffering from high blood pressure and stress. My mind was out of sorts of trying to find a better job and trying to getting over the break-up with my girlfriend (who used me as an "emotional crutch" to get over another guy and find an older man to be with who she dated behind my back). I told my doctor about this and she told me to do this: During my lunch break, go outside and take a walk for 30 minutes and during your 10-minute breaks, have a light snack. So, I did...
I kept this up after finally landed a better job back in March of 2006. In addition, I added more exercise to my regiment (doing sit-ups, mowing the lawn during the hot summer months, and walking for another half hour), taking a vitamin pill once a day called "One-a-Day Weight Smart", eating three prunes everyday to increase the fiber intake, and drinking a glass of Apple juice a day helps in the weight loss. From October 2005 to July 2006, I have lost over 52 lbs and went down several pant sizes, not to mention my blood pressure is back to normal. I have been getting alot of positive comments on how great I was doing and they definitely saw the weight loss. As for stress, what I do is light a scented candle in my room, and play relaxing music like a Pure Moods CD to calm myself and put me at ease.
My goal is to lose 100 lbs in total. Even though I am not quite over my heartbreak, but I am doing something for myself and hopefully and praying that a special woman will look and take notice of me and enter into my life. :) This is my revenge after the breakup to show her what doesn't kill me will make me stronger and much better.
It's hard work and discipline to do it, but it takes determination and preserverance. This is a classic diet to work with. No Atkins, South Beach Diets, or having your stomach stapled. This is a sure-fire way to lose weight if you put your mind and heart to it.
ThunderHawkPA | |
|
Home
login 
