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Posted: 7/26/2006 10:59:53 AM | A sure fire way to lose weight while eating pretty much whatever you want. Get a large Glass or drinking container. Put about 1/4 cup of Apple Cider Vinegar in the container;then fill the rest of the container with water. Add some honey if you need to for taste.Drink this concoction about once every other day and after about a week; you'll be amazed by how fast you'll start to lose weight.The first thing you'll notice is how strong you'll start to urinate.
Fat comes off through your urine.This strange mix will work wonders in keeping the weight off too. You will be amazed. Old Southern Blacks knew about this as a weight loss method for years. Try it & you'll see, it works.
Do that and you'll just lose water weight. The only way to lose weight (actual FAT, not water) is to eat less and exercise more.
Anyway, I personally could not be with a really fat guy. I eat extremly healthy most of the time and work out almost daily, and I feel as though someone who eats without abandon and isn't into exercise would bring me down. And call me shallow, but a big gut and man boobs isn't attractive.
I've dated chubbier guys before who would actually get offended and play down my desire to be healthy by saying "It's alright, you'd look better with a little meat on your bones!" Nooo I'm not going to let someone try to screw my health up.
I always say that if you desire something that you feel like you could get by making a change in your life, why not make that change? I'm not saying to lose weight to get more dates, but if you want to there's nothing stopping you but your own desire and motivation. But if you're happy the way you are, all power to ya. There's someone out there that will think you're fabulous no matter what you look like or how much you weigh. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 11:14:00 AM | Hey! I'm a chubby-mcchubby Chub and I'm short too!! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
I dont like bigger girls, Only girl types I like to be smaller than me in waiste, its my personal preference. And ironically, its always girls that are larger than me that want to take me home LOL.
I do like chubby girls, but they must be smaller in width than me, and so that weeds out a lot of very sweet women but just they just dont turn me on and there is nothing I can do about it unless something supernatural happened.
I dont think it makes me shallow it all, it makes me me. I'm very accepting but physical attraction goes beyond intellect people, it is deep within our subconsious. Also, I dont want to have to fight the flubber to get to the butter, na'mean?!?!
Am I mad at the hotties for not thinking I'm a hottie? I get a 4 out of 10!! That's where the phrase "she's out of my league" comes in!
But I tell you what.. I'm working VERY hard with my diet and exersize.. I have a diet and exersize buddy, and I am really turning my fatself around... When I finally get a lean body... Its gonna be on like donkey kong. Until then.. I'll just be Matty McTubbyToes. I dont care either way. Been at the gym for 3 months so far, and still kickin! Started new BODY FOR LIFE diet (look it up!!!!!) and am getting leaner by the day. In 4 months I'll be ready!
Aside from looks, yeah, we all have personal characteristics we want!! BUT I can't help it if I'm simply not attracted to women bigger than me in width (not height tho) and I dont expect a woman to want me nor do I think a woman is at all shallow if she doesnt like Fatty McMatty. This is all ok for me, because times are changing and I'm doing something about it!!! ;) | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 11:26:13 AM | Ok any woman with a hairy belly and butt needs to reduce the estrogen.Eww.
I always admitted to liking thin,toned guys.I find fat bodies unattractive.As for the personalities,not all larger people are beautiful within.That withstanding,I want sex with the body,I'll fix his personality after to what I want.Lol.My ex was a gorgeous,slim,athletic man.I don't find myself attracted to larger men with big bellies and asses.
^^ you look ok to me,not what I'd consider obeses.
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Posted: 7/26/2006 12:31:44 PM | | Honestly man....i have seen the ugliest fattest guys with the most hottest girls....it comes down to a bunch of things..are you man enough to handle any situation......every girl deep down just wants a man that knows what he wants and doesn't fear going out and getting it, pride and confidence are other things......your being negative by saying you have no chance whatsoever......your fortune telling man.....i'll tell you that your way off, you just have to look at all your positive qualities about yourself and hold them up high and be proud of who you are....a man that is honest and tells it like it is....always be who you truly are rather than always feeling their is a missing piece......Trust me on this one | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 12:52:28 PM | I think deep down many women may not even realize this but you are right they most of the time do not like fat men, the reason is most likely if your body is fat it is because you are either eating too much or not exercising enough, maybe there is even a chemical imbalance or something, this gives off the message that you are lazy and do not care enough about your appearance or health for that matter,
So if you wanna fix the problem start eating healthy and exercising and you'll literally be amazed how quickly you will change,
btw I used to weigh 250 pounds now I'm 170 and much much healthier(its nice to not start sweating from picking up the remote for the tv, or going to the fridge) also I've kept this weight off for the last two years,
so change your lifestyle, or keep making excuses of why its ok for you to be fat the choice is yours, but seriously the first choice brings a lot more reward and happiness the second just leaves you feeling inferior and insecure about yourself
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Posted: 7/26/2006 1:02:05 PM | | If anyone out there is a sociologist, they might agree that people are attracted to members of the opposite sex that are fit because of natural selection. WE are Animals, Mammals. We still live in a world dominated by survival of the fittest. A thin body represents good health and subconsiously we associate that with our best chance of propagating our species. If we can't raise our daily consciousness out of the gutter to realize that and act on it. (use our higher intelligence to go against our natural instinct) Then we are destined to revolve on the never ending wheel of superficial relationships and selfishness. I mean admit it, we're all to good to settle for a fat person as our equal, even fat people think like this. I wish we could change this little facet of our society, but that seems unlikely in the face of current trends. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 2:09:18 PM | | Ok well i agree its good to be healthy and excercise for sure....i just don't think those are the main factors....girls like guys for different reasons than guys like girls....sure girls like a hot sexy man, but they want a man that takes charge and doesn't care what the girl thinks of him...because he's man enough to not need someone telling him what to do, what to be, and how to act.....he acts the way he wants.......PRIME EXAMPLE OF A FAT MAN THAT HAD MORE LADIES THAN ANY OF US GUYS ON THIS SITE WILL EVER HAVE....MY GOOD MAN BARRY WHITE.....OOOOOOhhh Yeeeeeeah bebe. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 2:22:00 PM | | I don't agree that physical fitness isn't a main factor in attracting women, but I agree that it isn't the only factor and that one can attract beautiful women on other qualities, just rarely on a visual media such as POF. What you're talkin' bout are the Alpha Male qualities that women are attracted to, and yes, our man Barry was dripping with Alpha Male qualities. Being fit wasn't one of them and if we were to put good ol' Barry up against someone who had all the same qualities, AND was fit (say Tom Jones, who wasn't necessarily good looking) I think our man B. would be crying the blues. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 2:40:55 PM | | AS A SOCIOLOGY MAJOR, I THINK THAT SOCIETY SETS IT'S OWN NORMS AND STANDARDS. THERE ARE CULTURES THAT RESPECT THE OVERWEIGHT AND THOSE THAT DON'T. CAN'T TAKE THINGS TOO PERSONALLY, WE ARE WHO WE ARE. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 2:44:59 PM |
Good luck bro...
Women are all liars when it comes to that stuff.
good luck to you as well xizdaqrian
with a statement like that..you are going to need all the luck you can get when it comes to meeting quality women | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 2:56:11 PM | | Well dude LOOSE SOME WEIGHT im a big guy too and its a fight to loose weight but cut down on your size of meals thats all I did and lost 50 pounds ..walking helps too | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:00:05 PM | You might want to try different country forums. I doubt that you will find a hairy woman in the States or Canada. And the thin hairy woman..ok...yeah, most attractive women don't like to be furry. If you're looking for a scrawny bucktoothed girl who looks like she was raised in the back woods somewhere that would be good. Some women don't shave down there..nice to keep it undercontrol though, but all the women I know in this world thus far all shave/wax/nair/neet, whatever, their armpits and legs. And no woman wants to have a hairy butt/belly. Good luck on your search! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:04:52 PM | I take people the way they are (get to know from the inside out).......and I treat them the way I want to be treated.
I don't judge people....although I get judged before people get to know me....I don't hold that against people...human nature perhaps.
Everyone has likes and dislikes...good thing to as I would hate for everyone to be the same.
Can't make people like things you do or want the same things......
I gave up trying to do that a long time ago....less stressful.
Good luck to all in your search for your wants, needs and desires.
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:06:20 PM | The women get that too even some bigger men want the "barbie type woman" I personnally don't judge on looks. I mean I do like a nice pair of eyes but for me it's more what they are all about or their personnality. I have dated a skinny man as well as a heavy set man and I dated each for themselves not for the looks.
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:06:55 PM | I have to say that men are the same way when it comes to women - I don't get why men would prefer a skinny blonde bimbo that can't hold her own to a curvy, beautiful, funny woman who's warm to cuddle up to and 9 times out of 10 is better in bed!- it's definitely true that overweight men and women try harder to please their spouses because they feel like they have less to offer in the relationship - when truth be told, they have more!
I've got curves - I'm overweight but I'm happy... I for one - really don't go for guys that are skinny or muscular - I like them cuddly - but there is a point when morbidly obese enters the picture and it's hard for anyone to commit to someone that would be so hard to be with... I think people are attracted to others who care about themselves... doesn't that make sense??? 
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:21:18 PM |
MY GOOD MAN BARRY WHITE ohhh but he had THAT VOICE...
This may be a little different perspective, maybe younger gals don't worry about it as much,but us gals of a certain age tend to worry about getting involved with a man may have compromised health;and obesity IS a big danger signal( so is smoking, drinking too much, or eating a poor diet even if he IS thin)
I don't mean to sound harsh here, and Lord knows I am far from being perfect! But if the OP sees his build/weight as a significant disadvantage in winning the kind of gal he wants, then he needs to do his best to remove or at least modify that disadvantage.That being said, if he has a medical issue that stands in his way, then my heart goes out to him because, yeah, chances are he's gonna have a rough time in the dating scene. It's sad but that seems to be the way these things work nowadays.
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Posted: 7/26/2006 3:26:06 PM | I used to weigh in at 345 or 350. Around there. After highschool, I decided I needed to lose it. I am now at 251(lowest I have been is 235) and I feel great. I actually can get women now. There's a catch, I seem to still bear a curse. I don't get the ones that are actually good for me. Or at least haven't had any yet.
I like to think I am a nice guy. I am honest and like to be active. Go to the gym alot, go to concerts, movies. I am a geek as well. Computers, videogames, etc. BUT for some reason, I don't get very many women. The ones I have gotten are either 1 night things(which I hate) or else they use me.
I never got women being a fat blob(or heavier set, whatever you wanna call it), but now that I am fit, it still doesn't matter all that much. I don't get anything that does me any good. Dude, you probably have way better luck than me with the way you are. Don't give up hope on it. You said you've been dating. You'll get your jem sooner or later. | |
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