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Posted: 1/24/2009 8:44:40 AM | It's hard to find active adventurous women in my age range that don't have a ton of familial responsibilities.....& I live in a college town, so the median age is low, anyway.
I'd love to find a woman near my age that is energetic, still comfortable in a swimsuit & doesn't need 3 months notice to get out of town for a weekend.  | |
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Posted: 1/26/2009 10:14:15 AM | I think that as you have all said it depends on the people. I myself am getting very tired of the older ladies that think that a relationship is just built on chemestry. To me it is built on all of the facets of a good relationship.
I have met to many woman that think that the woman should be in control. I would rather date a woman that is going to accept me for who I am and what I am. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 12:52:10 PM | | I have always been attracted to younger women. My attitude is... if two people like each other and enjoy each others' company, age doesn't matter (within reason, of course. An 80 year old man with a 20 year old girl might be pushing things! lol) | |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 10:32:31 PM | Good question! For myself personally I prefer an older man. Not more than 13 years older though.
Oh. And taller than me too. 6 ft is perfect! Lol
Just my thoughts
Lol. Kinda feel like I just placed an order. Ha ha | |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 10:37:28 PM | | Yes, as long as they are not under 18. When I was 21, married a 34 yr old man. I never saw anything wrong with it. I wouldn't date grand pappy though. That's a little too old. | |
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Posted: 1/30/2009 5:10:43 AM | | I've dated a girl 14 years younger than me and a woman 12 years older. I liked the latter better, but it is a personal preference. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2009 10:20:19 PM | I just can not see, other than sex, what a person -male or female- would have in common with someone who is more than 10 yrs younger than themselves? If I see on a guy's profile that he is 35 and is looking to date a 20 yr old, I'll be thinking to myself that he is looking for a good time not anything serious. If I see a profile of a guy in his 40s and up looking to date 18 and older that just grosses me out. 18?
I don't look on woman's profiles but it would work the same way. If the legal age was 16, would you want to see the 15 to 20 yr + guy interested in the 16 yr old girl? or vice versa? Nasty. Where is the comon goals? Common experiences.....
I suppose I am old fashioned or will be considered so now. What could I possibly have in common with an 18 yr old kid? Sex? Energetic sex? Actually no I wouldn't even have that in common. I like my life as a grown up. I don't need to relive anything through someone else.
Apparently I am a rarity.
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Posted: 2/2/2009 11:01:52 AM | You're a pedophile.
Whoa!!!!!! Lets be careful about misusing terms-especially legal ones.
The dictionary definition of Pedophilia: "An adult, usually male, who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children. Derived from the Greek paedeia (child) and philos (love.) " Someone older than 18 is legally no longer a child. Someone whose mind and body has reached adulthood is no longer a child. Suggesting that they are, directly or indirectly, seems to me to be highly insulting.
The love of two adults, no matter how great the age difference is NOT pedophilia. Whether they have anything in common is another question. I can point out the 86 year old Chinese nobel Physicist who married a 28 year old. The public evidence suggests that marriage is working fine. Fifteen years earlier when she still had a child's mind, it would be pedophilia. Once her mind matures to adulthood and she can engage in an adult relationship, whatever else we might feel, accusing the older of liking to have sex with children when the relationship is between two ADULTS diminishes the very real horror of pedophilia.
And by the way, I'm more likely to have a lot in common with another professional in my field 20 years my junior than I am with some high school graduate my own age. What consists of common ground depends on what is important to you. For me dating someone lacking a college degree, or at least strong academic interests, would mean we had little common interest no matter what the age. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 5:25:26 PM | | People seem to think I look real young for my age but Im attracted to women my age and a little older and girls who are alot younger. My great grandfathers all outlived their wives by 10 years or better and lived well into their 90s so I wonder if I should mary younger. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2009 10:04:37 AM | | Hello hope all is well.as far as age difference my dad had 11 yrs on my mom.and if we go way back holy crap they would marry there daughter off at what was it 13 or 15 yrs old.not saying i beleave in that now days don't get me wrong ok.alot say age is just a number who care's.I had a beautifull young lady contact me wanting to date but i could'nt bring myself to do it as she was 22yrs and i'm 51 yrs to me thats rocking the craddle am i wrong?..i have my age limits and don't think i could go any younger than 12 to 15 yrs younger that would put her at age 36 and i'm 51..to some that may be wrong but where do you put a stop on love or an age between to people that are truely in love? love is a matter of the heart not the age.BUT I STILL HAVE MY LIMITS.. ttyl | |
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Posted: 2/3/2009 11:28:09 PM | | I tried it once. After a while, I got tired of her trying to domesticate me and bailed. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2009 12:57:04 AM | | Gals today are so mature and forward, they're like guys were 20 years ago. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2009 12:57:36 AM | | Gals today are so mature and forward, they're like guys were 20 years ago. | |
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Posted: 2/16/2009 9:05:38 AM | Since I became single, I knew I needed to broaden my horizons when it came to dating and relationships. In an effort not to be narrow minded, I decided I’d meet, and involve myself with, a diverse cross-section of cultural, educational, and intellectual backgrounds. So, after I ****ed those two chicks, I found the type of person who would ultimately offer me the most healthy, fulfilling, normal relationship I could ask for—
19 year old girls
Apparently, dating girls who are slightly younger (than oh say 22) is some sort of taboo. I get lectured by almost everyone, from the girls mothers, to women over thirty who are bitter that guys like me are attracted to younger women, to the girls after I break up with them. What’s the big deal? Nothing in this world is more natural than a man (clinging to his youth) and dating women in a slightly less wrinkly demographic. Many people accuse me of having a mid-life crisis but, fact is, people in my family live well into their nineties. I won’t reach mid-life for another ten to fifteen years. So basically for the next decade and a half, I can ****, er, date, pretty much anyone I want without falling into the crisis category. You can’t argue my irrefutable logic.
Some of my friends have tried to counsel me, asking if I didn’t want a real relationship, with someone who’s more mature, well-balanced, stable. My answer is, of course I do. And as soon as I find a mature, well-balanced, stable, nineteen year old girl, I will have a real relationship. I mean for chrissakes, I’m not retarded. It isn’t as if I’m getting involved with, and committing myself to, emotionally underdeveloped, immature, self-destructive, psychiatrically imbalanced women who are just old enough to drink—
Anymore.
This month.
Well I haven’t today.
All I want is true love (and goddamn it I love banging hot, young girls). It’s all anybody really wants in this world. Is my attraction to the slightly less aged of the feminine species so awful? I mean, some guys like big tits, some like red hair, I like girls in pigtails and a school girl uniform.
Who knows, maybe I’m wrong (I’m never wrong). Maybe there’s something to be said for older women or “cougars” (who wants to **** a cat?). I might very well be missing out on the most interesting (old), beautiful (saggy), and wonderful (bitter) women in the world with this mind set.
So what do you think? (not that I care)
Guys, do you prefer younger— or older?
Soft, smooth, hot, supple, perfect– or mature?
Enthusiastic, adorable, sexy, energetic– or your wife?
Ladies over the hill, um, I mean 30-plus, what’s your side of the story?
Women in their 20’s, how do you fit into the picture?
And you other girls, 18-20, what are your plans this weekeend?
Let’s all put some serious thought into this issue, discuss it, see what we can work out. Because future generations will look to us for guidance, to help them choose the right path, make the best choices, bang the hottest young girls. It’s our duty to lead them (to my place), to educate them (in anal), and ultimately to love them (two at a time), so that they too can experience true happiness and fulfillment in their lives, just like I have. | |
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Posted: 2/17/2009 7:29:46 AM | I think, it just depends on HOW MUCH YOUNGER you are dating. The above poster...a 34 year old dating 18 to 20 year olds is no real feat or accomplishment...pretty average, actually. *yawn* He would probably get more attention and the shock value it seems he craves, by dating OLDER. 
For me personally, I could care less what age you date....as long as you are not the neighborhood pedophile. You won't get near MY daughters...they would think you were ICK. And OLD.
For those who date a bevy of ages, I do know that for a lot of "older" women, you would garner an ICK FACTOR if we discover you date little girls. After all, we would not want to have to worry about you lusting after our children and again....pedophile comes to my mind! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2009 9:39:21 PM | Wow this thread has been around a while. Anyway, I don't think I can really put a number on this. You are going to find people who are more or less intelligent/mature than others of the exact same age and sex. There is more to people, such as their brain genes, their experiences, and their interests for learning.
There is 'socially acceptable' which is something you figure out for yourself.
Honestly, I am attracted to such a wide range of people that my only limitations are what is legally permissable. This doesn't mean that I find everyone hot, just that I can't rule someone out without meeting them. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 6:29:24 AM | | eh??? go date who ever you want , as long as not a kid .... im 39 and love older men ... dated a gent of 55 he was fit........yahoooooooooooooooooo | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 7:53:07 AM | I re-read my post above and realized I sound a tad judgemental in my last line. Did NOT intend to...and not that I think anyone is paying attention, but I just need to clarify something.
Since I am single and...well, fun!!...LOL...my daughters and I have a tendency of going out on occassion to the same bar...or meeting up at one of the POF events I host.
Many say my youngest and I, look very much alike...so I guess it is no big shocker that we would attract the same men, to some degree.
But on more than one occassion...someone who I either went out with....or someone who has flirted around with me, got all, "Wow...daughter is smokin'...introduce me!" And believe it or not...my daughters friends have done the same to ME.
THAT's what I meant by ICK FACTOR. The women that *I* know, whether younger or more mature...all think that is NASTY...that if your dating range is sooo wide it includes US AND OUR DAUGHTERS, none of us would date you! (I actually wasted some perfectly good vomit at the thought!)
Now many in this thread have concluded that, they like the young, supple, youthful bodies....LOL. Just as there are unattractive, unfit, not so gorgeous younger girls...there are attractive, fit, gorgeous older women! And it works the same way. If you are a man who CAN and DOES attract younger women (and it is not a sugar daddy thing!)...then more power to ya! But most of the men who's profiles have that huge age gap...I LMAO at the IDEA that they believe they can attract that! My daughters see it and say, "Ewwww....ick!" In other words, it works both ways...attractive attracts attractive, for the most part! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 8:55:48 AM | | What if the much older man is LESS experienced in life, career, dating, sex, etc. than the younger woman? I'm just throwing in the "special needs adult" monkey wrench to the "taboo" of this that I fall into but people never really think of. I generally would prefer to be with people in their early 20's because that's where I am closer to developmentally...but I'm 37 and would be seen as "too old", and that makes one feel alienated and worthless; like an outsider to cool things and you are expected to settle into a life you don't want. I was checking out a little of this thread and was disappointed in not finding anyone who had the philosophy of "X age should only date Y age, and that's what everyone should conform to as I see it"...but I get the impression that most women my age are generally in another world ...raising kids, "Thank God It's Friday because I hate my job and that saps away my happiness", missing fun times of the past, etc. I still don't know what to do with my life other than go on road trips and traveling, meeting many more wild crazy fun people, make out with women (yes make out...or am I supposed to be "over that" by now???) . I think women my age would see me as not a good fit because of what's on the inside, while younger women would see me as not a good fit because of my physical age. Yes there are exceptions so I keep plugging along trying to find them. As I said in another thread, I'd date a woman who was 20, or 30, or 40, or even 50...as long as there was good chemistry and mutual physical attraction...BOTH must be present. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2009 12:11:43 AM | This has turned into quite a debate....Here's my 2 cents.
If you are blessed with good looks, you will be attractive your whole life.... young and old... | |
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